Introduction: In daily life, we often listen to others talk about the topic of filial piety, in recent years, there are many people who still stay by their parents' side after they are older, and ask their parents for money. Some couples leave their children to their elderly parents to take with them in order to go out to work, and they do not pay for the elderly. There are also many people who do not support the elderly and do not respect their parents, which belong to the "new type of filial piety", let's take a look at it.
During this time, I saw that the old man in the neighbor's house was very unhappy, and through inquiry, he found that he had quarreled with his daughter-in-law, and after the son got married, they separated from the family and lived their own lives, and the old man sometimes helped them take care of the children, but slowly, the old man went less and less.
The son works outside, the daughter-in-law will only play cards every day, for diet, only make instant noodles for themselves to eat, because playing cards is addictive, so they do not cook for the children, often say to the children: Don't bother me, go to your grandparents' house to eat, so the children often go to the old people's home to rub rice.
At first, I didn't think anything of it, but after a long time, the old couple was a little unhappy, and complained in their hearts that their daughter-in-law did not cook for the children. When the child grows up, he needs to supplement nutrition, the elderly are worried that the child will not eat well, often buy eggs, buy meat, buy a variety of vegetables, for a long time, the economy can not keep up, the son and daughter-in-law never give them money.
The daughter-in-law was very angry when she learned about what their old two were complaining about, and since then she has not let the child call him a grandparent. The old couple said with grievance: I don't owe you anything, our money is really not enough to spend, we can't raise your son. If the mother plays cards every day, regardless of the child's diet and living, it will bring great harm to the child.
Nutrition can't keep up
If you let your child eat instant noodles regularly, your child will be malnourished, will become shorter than children of the same age, and also affect brain development.
Affects learning
If the child often sees the mother playing cards, he will learn from his parents, and gradually he will not be able to focus on learning, and over time it will affect learning.
As a parent, you should pay attention to the following points on a daily basis, or you can guide your child correctly
Communicate more with your child
After school, ask your child what happy things and unhappy things are happening at school, go inside them, and understand their thoughts.
Nutritional balance is guaranteed
In the diet, timely supplement the various nutrients needed by the child's body, and stay away from junk food such as instant noodles and pickles.
Growth environment
To create a warm family environment for children, parents should lead by example and get rid of the bad habit of playing cards, playing mobile phones, and eating snacks.
Conclusion: "The new type of filial piety" has happened around us, and the old man is crying and complaining: I don't owe you, what is your opinion on this?
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