Several colleagues in the office took advantage of the break to chat. When everyone talked about the money that the children received, they had their own opinions, which was very exciting.
One of the mothers talked about an interesting story about her family. Let's listen to it together.
One: Grandma "routine" little grandson
Bao Mom belongs to the "working mother". The child was weaned after half a year old and she returned to work. The elderly in the family are also very supportive, especially the grandmother, who specially came to help bring the grandchildren.
During the Chinese New Year, Bao Mom's family took the child back to grandma's house. Not long after returning, Bao Mom overheard Grandma quietly asking the child: "How much money did your grandmother give you?" ”
Hearing this, Bao Mama wanted to laugh a little: it turned out that the old man did not feel safe.
The child is brought up by the grandmother, and usually the grandmother always asks the child, who kisses you, do you like the grandmother. The child always obediently replied, kissing grandma and liking grandma.
Every time she heard such an answer, Grandma felt satisfied.
The child went to his grandmother, ate and drank well, and took the money for the press. What if grandma gives more money and the child is happy and thinks that grandma is better?
Grandma has a good face, afraid that the money she gives is less, so she quietly inquires into the news, "routine" grandson.
However, fortunately, Bao Mom knows the personality of Grandma and usually teaches children how to cope.
The child said to the grandmother, "I don't know how many, the red envelope is in the mother's place." Hearing this, Grandma did not ask any more questions.
Second: How can children receive red envelopes and gifts to have education?
In fact, not only receiving red envelopes, many children will receive gifts from others. At this time, the child's reaction will show his politeness and upbringing.
As parents, we can usually teach our children how to do it, so as to appear educated?
Don't ask how much it costs
As soon as some children receive the red envelopes from their elders, they do not open them, and they ask, "How much money is there?" ”
Although the fairy tale is unscrupulous, it is really impolite to ask such a question. It feels like the child only has money in his eyes and nothing else.
The right thing to do is to politely say "thank you" after receiving it. Then put it away and keep it. Some lively children can also generously say some blessing words, which adds to the atmosphere and is also considered a "return gift".
No messy evaluation
When your child receives a gift, he can simply say that he likes it or thank the other person for giving him the gift. Don't open your mouth to evaluate this gift as bad, worthless, or what you don't like.
Even if you feel that you don't need the gift, or if you don't like it, you should politely express your gratitude.
No comparison
Children like to compare, who is stronger than whom, who grows taller. When they receive the pressure money, they will inevitably receive more than who receives the pressure money.
We should tell our children the meaning of pressing the old money, which is a blessing from the elders, and should not compare the size of the number behind it.
Once the children are true, after the comparison, it is easy to have a comparison psychology. This will form a bad view of money and affect the formation of values.
Don't talk about one elder in front of another
Some adults will inadvertently ask the child how much money the other elder has given, and the child is simple in thought and has something to say. But this will inevitably make the adults feel suspicious.
So, tell your child that when one adult asks you about another adult, try to say you don't know.
Like the child in BaoMa's family, he told his grandmother that he didn't know how much his grandmother gave, so as not to make the old man think too much.
I don't know what kind of interesting things have happened to your family?
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