Children who have been destroyed by their parents

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Parents are role models, in the stage of the formation of children's personality habits, this occupies an absolute position, different from the education of school teachers, parents are the easiest object for children to observe, but also the most reasonable object to learn.

From the perspective of the general law of human development, children should become better, or the vast majority of children will become better. Excellent parents will have high-quality educational planning, will do homework, will learn, will grow up with their children, and will also set a good example for their children; even people with bad character will hope that he will become a good person in the education of their children, rather than instigating him to become a harmful person, which is the nature of people carved in their bones.

It is easy to learn bad, because it is in line with a series of factors such as greed and the pursuit of comfort in human nature, and has a serious addictive effect, which will continue to absorb people's energy, and eventually let people indulge in it, paralyze themselves, but they do not know it, thinking that they have lived the life they want, and then step by step sinking and indulging, resulting in the result of not being able to turn back.

Parents as guardians, as the child's first teacher, need to avoid the occurrence of many things, education is a hard and lasting process, consume time and energy, this is a real problem, birth and raising need to continue, without good education and constraints, the possibility of children going astray will inevitably increase.

Parents who arrange their children's lives will only get the results of failed education, while lamenting that children will not do anything, while doing everything in life for their children, with their own anxiety and busyness, in exchange for the child's incompetence and pampering, self-centered, but it is not worth the loss. The child has a strong learning ability, he can learn a lot of things that are taught, resistance is possible, but not indissoluble, do not ruin the child's life because of their own impatience. Parents should teach their children the ability to survive, the ability to face, the ability to solve problems, these are very important, it is something that needs to start from primary school, and the wasted time will only create children who are abandoned, and they can do a life, but they cannot arrange a lifetime, which is something that many parents have not seen.

Parents, as the closest people to their children, need to examine their own behavior habits. Small things may form a deep-rooted stereotype in the child's position and become a choice that affects a lifetime. Laziness, taking advantage of small things, no enterprising, these are the problems that are likely to occur in life as parents, housework procrastination, doing things outside has the psychology and behavior of taking advantage of people, willing to be mediocre and unenterprising, maybe this is a very small thing for parents, but in the eyes of children This is a big thing, parents can be like this, then I can also. The child's mind is not sound, can not really distinguish between good and bad, benchmark their own example, will develop bad habits, this is the sadness of parents, but also the sadness of children.

Parents should have big vision, broad thinking and good and excellent education methods, which is what parents should and must do. The inability to teach profound knowledge is not the biggest problem, the inability to teach children excellent life concepts and attitudes, and the formation of good living habits is the biggest mistake of parents. Small things are not small, they can become big things that affect the concept of life, as parents, we must have a correct cognition and reflect on the impact we bring to our children, which is not a problem that can be ignored.

Children who are destroyed by their parents are not in the minority, more out of good intentions, but it is difficult to teach correct concepts in wrong education, and do not let children become victims of adult ideas.

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