Heart week| after the Spring Festival holiday, the child has become "annoying"

Source: Taiwan Straits Network

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confide:

My son is in the fifth grade this year, and after a Spring Festival, he found that his children had become particularly annoying.

Usually he is a very self-conscious and very well-behaved good child, almost the New Year, I took him back to his hometown, played with the children of the neighbors all day, turned into a "TV fan", sometimes watched some science fiction and martial arts movies, and then would imitate the dangerous movements in the TV and jumped down from a high place, which made me tremble and tremble. At night, when he was told to sleep, his temper was still very big, and he had to play a few more games with other children. Now bring him back to Xiamen, but the child still can't take care of it, the festival is too indulgent, the work and rest are not normal, plus he is addicted to games, now let him do his homework, he can't be quiet at all, and as soon as the adults talk, he loves to interject, sabotage, and tells us every day that "hates school".

A Spring Festival holiday, the whole child has changed, what can I do?

analyse:

Relaxing a holiday, when life needs to return to the "right track", children are difficult to quickly switch back from the state of relaxation and excitement, which will indeed make parents feel headaches and helplessness.

In fact, whether it is a child or an adult, from relatively loose to returning to a regular life, it takes a short period of time to adjust and adapt. Especially during this time, the child's life structure has changed greatly, and it can also be seen that the child has some other needs on the basis of the original learning, and can try to communicate with the child and discuss how to reasonably arrange the time for learning and entertainment. On this basis, you can also review the interesting facts of school life with your children, and encourage children to increase their interaction with classmates, so as to arouse children's positive experience of learning life.

In short, it is both "change", not overnight, giving more time and communication between parents and children to regain the balance of parent-child relationship.

Wen Yuanyuan, a psychotherapist at Xianyue Hospital

Straits Herald reporter Lin Shaorong