In the blink of an eye, I'm 40 years old, so look back! Look to the left first, too much remorse, too much unwillingness; then look to the right, lose too many friends, miss a period of feelings; then look back, more terrible than the Chinese men's football team, people younger than you are more successful than you! Look up, parents are still smiling, still looking forward to Jackie Chan, the original intention does not change! Shame on the ground, look down, there is no bottom! The coldness of the floor made him raise his head again and bravely look ahead, because there was no way back for people to reach middle age!
First, health
No matter how many worldly great rivers and mountains have been seen and how many worldly riches have been enjoyed, the days after the age of 40 must pay attention to their own health, which is the greatest responsibility to parents to their wives and children!
2. Work
Willing or unwilling to do it, you can't live on your own! No one can say that they are not easy, it is not easy to say that the annual salary is not easy, the annual salary is not easy to say that it is not easy, it is not easy to fight guerrillas every day without a job, and it is not easy to say that life is more satisfactory! Treat it with a normal heart! Doing your job well is the greatest peace of mind!
3. Husband and wife
Today's society is a pluralistic composition, and we cannot ask the other party to pay much to measure each other's loyalty. The formation of human Homo sapiens to human society is the pursuit of reproductive balance, and we can only improve this evolutionary process through institutional constraints. Wouldn't it be better if there was more understanding, more communication, more common purposes and ideas between husband and wife?
4. Children
Hope son jackie chan, hope girl into phoenix. This is the precipitation of Chinese culture for thousands of years, parents would rather be bitter, tired, and even the goals that parents did not achieve when they were children hope that their children will achieve them, which is a normal social phenomenon at present! The fault of this practice is that we have no right to judge, and we strive to let the children have no regrets and let our generation of parents have no regrets!
5. Parents
In the face of the growing oldness of your parents, more worries, and even more fear, take some time to spend more time with your parents, what they need is not your wealth, nor your poverty, but your companionship and love.
At this age, it is really difficult to be a good husband, a good father, and a good son!