#How to look at Gu Ailing's mother's education method # Gu Ailing won the championship in the past two days, as a mixed-race child Ofu Ailing, a Chinese elite, in response to the question of how her mother Gu Yan educates her daughter, thank you for inviting me to talk about my views.
Her mother Gu Yan has a passage that says: "I just let her have to sleep enough, sleep 15 hours when she was a child, 13 hours after going to elementary school, and now she has to sleep 10 hours a day. If I want to talk about ideas, I remember two sentences, the first sentence is what their teacher said when Ailing entered the school, don't correct their typos, don't hit the child's creativity; the second sentence is the concept of learning, praise them less for their intelligence, more praise for their efforts."
I think the three points mentioned here are particularly worth learning from our parents.
First, don't erase creativity as a child. I remember when I was a child, both parents and teachers would tell us that apples should be red and leaves should be green, and when we drew a pink sun, a blue moon, it would always be corrected. In the future, the development of science and technology is getting faster and faster, and there are more and more tools and machines that can replace human work, but there is one thing that cannot be replaced, that is, creativity. If we can not be bound by dogmatism and maintain creativity, we may be able to create many new things.
Second, praise them less for their cleverness and more praise for their efforts. I was really shocked to see this, looking back at my growth experience with my friends around me, I was praised when I was a child, most of them because of good grades, smart performance or well-behaved, and those children who worked very hard would also be praised, but the number of times was much less.
Behind the praise effort, there is actually a focus on the process. Seven points are destined, and three points depend on hard work. Isn't every child who works hard be commendable?
Third, get sleep. Gu Ailing went to primary school to sleep 13 hours, and now guarantees 10 hours, which is very difficult for both children and adults now. I remember when I was in elementary school, I could sleep about 10 hours a day, junior high school became 9 hours, and it was difficult to guarantee 8 hours of sleep in high school.
Children and adolescents are in the stage of rapid neurological, psychological and physical development, and good sleep is the basis for ensuring all these physiological processes. High-quality sleep contributes to children's intellectual development and is closely related to children's cognitive function, learning and attention; growth hormone is secreted during nighttime sleep, and it takes a good night's sleep to grow tall. I think back, if you sleep 10 hours in elementary school, you can learn more efficiently.
