Introduction: It is said that men and women are equal, some people live sweet and sweet after marriage, some people live a chicken feather after marriage, and the sour, sweet and bitter is only understood by themselves.
For men, marriage is the beneficiary, and many women are like a nanny who doesn't spend money in marriage.
Some people say, "How comfortable is it to be a stay-at-home mom?"
The world has a lot of malice towards stay-at-home moms, the family's malice towards stay-at-home moms, the ill intentions of friends and family towards stay-at-home moms, and even discrimination against women at work. Full-time mothers can't go out and earn money, but without the sacrifice of full-time mothers, can the family live well? Everyone can make money, but the trivialities of life, not all the children in the family can do a good job for ten years.
The happiness of marriage occasionally convulses, falls into self-doubt and self-denial, thinks about realizing self-worth every day, and then feels that accompanying children to grow up is the most worthwhile thing, and everything has a process.
In marriage, I am not afraid to pay, I am afraid of meeting a man who does not understand gratitude, because in marriage, most men are beneficiaries, some people share the heavy responsibility of supporting the family, and some people are out there.
Someone touches the red line of marriage, and the worst result is nothing more than divorce, don't let the woman down.
When a woman is disappointed to a certain extent, she will be cold, will not calm down to live a good life, or immediately cut the grass and roots, turn away, and never look back.
In marriage, fidelity is the most basic upbringing.
Even if a woman has no love in marriage, don't give up on herself, earn money well, live well, accompany her children well, work hard to improve herself, have money to cure everything, people are good to be bullied, horses are good to be ridden, don't be pinched by men, and have the capital to talk about divorce. Men will be jealous of a lot.
Let's tell the story of a middle-aged couple, a husband cheated on him, and finally got revenge from his wife.
The best revenge against a man is to live well and turn the tables against the wind!
01. It's not easy to stay at home for moms.
Wang Hao is a project manager of the company, has been working in the company for many years, is conscientious in his work, has a lot of employees, and looks at the women who are like flowers and jade, and has a sharp contrast with his wife. Even so, I have not moved my mind.
Wife Suna gave birth to two children for Wang Hao, the eldest from pregnancy to primary school is brought up by herself, six years of time so that she can not keep up with the pace of the times, when she returned to the workplace, she has been eliminated, the previous position has long been replaced by more capable people.
When she just wanted to work well to prompt herself, she found that she had a second child, which was simply a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and in desperation, she could only go back to give birth to her second child, because her mother-in-law had no experience with children, the second child was still brought by herself, this area was six years, and the good time of a woman's life passed like this.
With two children for twelve years, she made it her career to have children and family. Dedicated to this family.
02. The wife discovers the infidelity of her middle-aged husband
After many more years, they are 45 years old, and the children are gradually growing up.
Suna has been destroyed by the years for so many years without the original beautiful appearance, Wang Hao looked at the girls in the company and moved his mind.
Wang Hao's subordinate, Xi Qian, is Wang Hao's right-hand man, she is smart and capable, with long legs and white skin, and a large number of men in the company are fascinated by her.
And Sissi only thinks about how to hold her thighs and take her career to the next level.
Wang Hao is a smart person, some of Xi Qian's hints, he can understand, after a few times, Wang Hao and Xi Xi developed an underground relationship.
Wang Hao often used the excuse of being busy at work to live in the company or go on business trips, and this year, the days at home were getting less and less. Su Na with her own intuition to feel that her husband is not right, secretly looked at her husband's mobile phone, and finally found Sissi from some clues, she added Sissi's WeChat, Sissi only as her own customer, and did not care.
After a long time, Suna did find a photo of the two of them together, watching Sissi's selfie of her husband and the beautiful woman lying together in the social app, Suna felt the heartache that no one could understand.
I have been maintaining a loveless marriage for the sake of my children, and seeing my husband's increasingly indifferent attitude towards himself, I am really afraid that I will not be able to hold on for too long. The funny thing is that every time I quarrel, I don't remember the revenge and don't have to coax it, so I am sure that I will not leave, I feel that I am pinched, I really want to go away, and the ridiculous thing is that I am reluctant to desperately give birth to a child with someone else's surname.
Suna looked at her husband's habit of treating her in a snubbed way, and her heart was very cold, and the man who was used to treating her with indifference was actually outside.
After getting married and having children, having children has the capital of women, and she has no economic income, so that Suna has no dignity and no way out, because her husband knows that for the sake of children, Suna will swallow all grievances.
03. Treating her husband as a bank cash machine, she endured for eight years in the face of her husband's cheating choice.
Suna lay in bed crying all night, she didn't know how to be good, she didn't have the capital to divorce herself, what about the two children? She thought for a long time, she wanted to get drunk like a man when she encountered troubles, but she couldn't, she still had to pick up the children from school and take care of their food and living.
Wang Hao has no advantages, his advantage is that he earns money well, never less than the food expenses of their family of three, and the salary is higher than that of men of ordinary age.
Suna was decadent for many days, until one day she went to the bank to withdraw money, and looking at the bank cash machine, she suddenly thought: It is better to use him as a tool to make money!
After having this idea, she suddenly became enlightened and saved money for the rest of her life.
Suna lurked for eight years, she did not puncture her husband's affairs, Wang Hao is now fifty-three years old, he has begun to decline in his career.
Suna is still being a good mother and pretending to be a good wife. She had saved a lot of private money, which Wang Hao did not know, and at the same time, for so many years, Suna had already taken advantage of the previous opportunity to write her name on the family's house and car. Never let yourself have the capital to let others take advantage of it again.
04. The wife retaliates against the sick husband
Until this year, when they were 53 years old, during this period he was still very affectionate, and his wife knew that he hated Wang Hao in his heart.
Wang Hao was very ill because he often drank and smoked when he was young, so he went to the hospital for examination and found that there was a problem with his body.
For so many years, although Wang Hao worked diligently and earnestly, he did not save any money, and the family's living expenses were too large.
After the wife knew that Wang Hao was ill, it was not long before she divorced Wang Hao.
He took the private money he had saved for so many years, and the house and car were half a person, which was enough money for Suna to live a good old age.
After waiting for so many years for his revenge, this tone finally smoothed out. When the husband needed his wife the most, the wife chose to leave him.
When the wife needed a husband in the past, the husband betrayed the wife.
The pain that marriage brings to women, Suna has only one name from beginning to end after marriage, while Wang Hao is still like a single
Unfortunate marriage brings pain to women, in the family husband is a decoration, after men and women get married, family affairs are the wife resistance, not good and inseparable, with children are more reluctant to divorce. Such repeated entanglements, and finally turned himself into a madman, lost all trust, and the wounds in his heart could never be healed.
The years of their own hidden tolerance, can never come out, when the mother knows how hard it is to take children, men must have the responsibility, it seems that a family is a man on the back, in fact, women pay more, who saves money and has children, wives and wives are worth a lifetime to love.
So a woman, if she is not absolutely sure, does not have enough money in her pocket, must have her own career, must have her own income.
Marriage or divorce can remain like celibacy, try to make yourself better, can not let men be difficult to pinch, trust and rely on each other and lose the ability to survive.
Living well is actually the best revenge for a man
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