There is no job in the place where there is a home, there is no home in the place where there is a job, and most people have to leave their hometown to earn money to support their families in order to make a better life for their families.
After the end of the year, many wanderers are about to return to work, and the separation from their families may be a year, the children's unwilling cries, the elders' leisurely and expectant eyes will make people feel sick.
Family affection will make people hesitate whether they should stay more with their families, and reality will make people sober if there is no material basis, and no amount of companionship will seem very humble.
On February 7, 2022, a man in Fuyang City, Anhui Province, was about to leave his hometown to work, and when he got into a car and was about to drive away, his daughter ran out of the house and came to the window to watch him.
After the man hesitated, he opened the car window and asked his daughter: Baby, what's wrong? What about my brother? The daughter frowned and looked at the man, she knew that it would take a long time to say goodbye to her father.
She really wanted her father to stay by her side, but she knew that his father left for the sake of the family's livelihood, and when the words she kept came to her mouth and swallowed them back, she was too sensible, and it was painful to understand.
The words of retention could not be spoken, but if you did not give up, they blurted out, and she said: Dad, you have time to go home to see me, do you think about it, is there anything else you forgot to bring?
When the man heard his daughter's words, his heart was full of bitterness, at this time he must have wanted to stay, he had been accompanying his daughter, although the daughter did not say, but the man had heard the voice outside the words of the daughter, that is: Daddy, you don't want to go so fast.
The man finally decided to stay with his daughter for another day, and when it was dark and her daughter was asleep, he would set off again, and maybe then there wouldn't be so many injuries to leave.
But since his daughter said this to the man, he would think of it every day, and the man went out to work for a few days and decided to go home and take the children and his wife to the city for a while, and then send them home when the children started school.
Xiaofeng opinion
The man's daughter understands things painfully, obviously very much want her father to stay, but when the words come to her mouth, she dare not say them, but her father understands her mood and stays with her for one more day.
But just a day of companionship is far from enough for her, every child hopes that her parents will always be by her side, whether sad or happy, a word of parents, parents can immediately appear next to her, this is what she wants.
In fact, children will grow up in less than a few years, they need their parents when they are young, and when they grow up, they don't want to stay with their parents all the time, so parents with conditions should consider spending a few years with their parents at the age when their children need their parents the most.
Some people may say that you can make a lot of money in a few years, and it is not cost-effective to give up making money to accompany your children, which is wrong.
Parents are around the child, which is the best companion for the child, some things can be replaced, some things cannot be replaced, such as father love and mother love.
When your child sees that his classmates or friends have parents around, but he does not, he will feel extremely inferior at this time, and the children with parents around are much more confident than them, whether it is companionship or self-confidence, it is priceless, and no amount of money can be bought.
Therefore, sacrificing the opportunity to make money for a few years makes children more confident and physically and mentally healthy, and I think it is more meaningful and more worthwhile than making money.