If it is said that the most popular character of the Winter Olympics, Gu Ailing is afraid that people love this brave, smiling, and good enough girl. Especially some parents look at it, they are even more envious, how eager their children can be so great.
However, as the mother of Gu Ailing, Gu Yan is very calm about the growth of her children all the way, perhaps from the beginning she has the confidence, her daughter in the shaping of the environment, even if it is not worse, it will not be bad, with this mentality, so the education and cultivation of her daughter, she is based on the happiness of the child.
In the interview, Gu Yan talked about her daughter, saying that she did not want to constrain her development all the way, such as graduating from Peking University and Stanford, the child's father graduated from Harvard, his grandfather graduated from Stanford, when Gu Ailing was determined to be admitted to Stanford, she instead enlightened her daughter, she did not have to go to Stanford, she valued the process of continuous learning of her children.
It is also this relaxed and open mind that allows Gu Ailing to completely follow his own interests and do what he likes.
In Gu Ailing's heart, her mother is an example and a source of continuous relaxation.
For example, she said that the secret of her ability to do so many things is to sleep, from very early in the morning, she maintains the habit of sleeping for 10 hours a day, all of which reflects that her mother Gu Yan gave her a relaxed growth environment, which really makes domestic parents envious and jealous.
Why is it so confident? I'm afraid it must come from Gu Yan's own good enough.
Gu Yan herself graduated from the Department of Chemical Engineering in her early years, and was also a short track speed skater and ski instructor at Peking University, and later went to the United States to study and obtained an MBA degree at Stanford.
And Gu Yan's husband is not simple, graduated from harvard university mathematics and art department, MIT mathematics, computer doctor, and later because of some conceptual problems, the two chose to separate, but did not affect the love for their daughter Gu Ailing.
From Gu Ailing's confident and optimistic smile, it is not difficult for us to see that her growth process has not been affected by her parents' divorce, which is inseparable from Gu Yan and her ex-husband's wise handling of the relationship between the two.
Later, Gu Ailing has been living with her mother, influenced by her mother and also interested in skiing, more importantly, she has Chinese and American ancestry, it is also the influence of her mother and grandmother, closer to Chinese culture, so she later chose to naturalize in China.
When it comes to her daughter's education, Gu Yan does not have any secrets, in short, what she likes, I will create a professional atmosphere for her, and the rest is up to her.
But the people around her are too good, so that Gu Ailing can't be like an ordinary child, like a thing is only three days fresh, she is willing to do it must do the best, it is this serious energy, so that Gu Yan in turn to continue to enlighten her daughter, do not want her to have too much pressure, to put it bluntly, the root of all this is still, Gu Yan has this confidence.
In fact, for Gu Ailing's excellence, it is difficult for us to attribute only to the excellence of genes, in addition to her parents gave her enough talent, more importantly, it is to teach by example, as well as to learn things and use time, which is probably why Gu Ailing can like so many things, and everything can be done well The biggest reason.
It has to be said that parents are always the role models and references for children, and words and deeds will never be outdated.
Just when many parents envy Gu Yan for having such an excellent daughter, we should also see the profound impact of Gu Yan's daily behavior and behavior on her daughter as a mother. Although we can't raise our children to be as good as Gu Ailing, at least from now on, let ourselves develop better habits, so as to influence and drive children, which will become the most important asset for them in the future.