In recent years, because most of the rural girls have gone to the city, and the standards for choosing a mate have become higher and higher, men simply cannot meet them. This also led to more and more single sticks, and the remaining Chinese men were forced to go abroad to find a daughter-in-law. Southeast Asian countries, Russia, Ukraine, Iran, Africa, as long as there are women, there are Chinese men. The Vietnamese are not much different from the Chinese in terms of appearance, customs and habits, and vietnamese girls have left a lot of traditional virtues, which has become the main target of Chinese men.
Over the years, many men have gone to Vietnam to find daughters-in-law, and many poor mountain villages have Vietnamese daughters-in-law. In Xi'an, in order to do self-media, a certain Internet celebrity also went to Vietnam several times to find a partner.
However, Vietnamese, including Vietnamese girls, do not seem to have a good impression of Chinese men.
Recently, chatting with several Vietnamese girls, most Vietnamese girls said that they would not and did not want to marry in China. The reason is simple, they feel that China is too far away, and they will never see their parents and siblings after marrying. In addition, after marrying into China, there are also language communication barriers, and it is inconvenient to work and live.
They speculate that girls who are willing to marry China may have worked and studied in China before choosing to marry Chinese.
They also said that in the past, Vietnamese girls married china because China was richer than Vietnam, but now Vietnam's economy is becoming more and more developed, and the gap with China is narrowing, so there are fewer and fewer girls willing to marry to China.
This seems to be true, I have seen some Vietnamese girls send circles of friends, often eating seafood, food variety is also a lot. Their rural housing is also exquisite, looking richer than many rural areas in China.
Moreover, most of Vietnam is near the sea, the scenery is pleasant, and it is much warmer and wetter than in northern China. Looking at the photos of Vietnamese girls wearing bikinis and basking in the sun by the sea, it is really fascinating, if it were me, I would not be willing to give up this comfortable life and travel thousands of miles to China.
In addition to the above reasons, the reason why Vietnamese girls hate Chinese men the most and are reluctant to marry into China is that in the eyes of Vietnamese girls, in the eyes of Vietnamese girls, Chinese men think that as long as they have money, they can come to Vietnam to buy daughters-in-law, treat Vietnamese girls as commodities, and buy and sell at will.
Listening to the Vietnamese girls, I fell into deep thought.
Why do Chinese men objectify women and see marriage as a business?
If you think about it, this can't be safely blamed on Chinese men.
In today's Chinese society, in the eyes of most people, marriage is indeed like a transaction and a sale, and even regarded as a long-term, legal prostitution.
Once upon a time, there was a car and a house, and the death of both parents became the mate selection criterion for some girls. In the eyes of most people, the premise of marriage is to have a house and a car and a bride price, which also makes boys without a house and a car dare not go to find a girlfriend and dare not fall in love.
The house, car, and bride price are only the requirements of the low-level girls with ordinary families, and the mate selection requirements of the girls in the city have long exceeded the material level. Go to the park in the big city to see, the girls and parents here in addition to the car and the house, but also the boys have a higher education, work for civil servants or public institutions, parents have pensions, urban hukou. These demands are even more prohibitive.
Girls' excessively high mate selection standards have also left a deep impression on the singles, so that their thinking patterns have long been solidified, and in the hearts of the singles, no money seems to be the only reason for being single. It is precisely because I have no money, can't afford to buy a house and a car, and can't afford a huge bride price, so I have become a bare stick. Compared with the economically backward Vietnamese girls, they seem to have a certain advantage, and they can use money to buy a daughter-in-law to solve the single problem.
It also ignores the inner feelings of Vietnamese girls, whether they are poor or rich, and also eager to get the love of men, rather than just buying it with money as a tool for passing on their generations.
Most Vietnamese girls also said: When I get married in Vietnam, I don't need a man to have a car and a house, I just need to find a good one for me.