In 2015, Yao Jie (pseudonym), a Henan woman, was working in Zhejiang when she heard a Chongqing worker speaking in dialect.
Normally speaking, if the Henan dialect and the Chongqing dialect communicate with each other, there should be obstacles.
But Chongqing workers said "what kind of dang" said the speaker did not have the intention of listening, a sentence said, Yao Jie was stunned on the spot.
Yao Jie immediately rushed to Laitan Town, Chongqing, while the police at the local police station launched a two-year search.
Although it sounds unreliable, where is there a dialect to find relatives? But the police never gave up...
The content of this issue is that Yao Jie searches for his 33-year-old biological parents through dialects.
First, deep in the mountains, learn the truth
The detailed history of this incident begins in 1980, when three-year-old Yao Jie was sold to a mountain village in Henan.
Yao Jie grew up with the mountains and crops from the day she remembered, and for a long time, she considered herself a local.
Yao Jie did have a happy childhood, and her adoptive parents were very kind to her, like a pearl in the palm of her hand, and never scolded.
In that small mountain village in Henan, Yao Jie lived a carefree life, plus she was well-behaved and obedient since she was a child, so she was deeply spoiled by her family.
But as Yao Jie gradually understood things, there were constant rumors in the village that she wanted a child.
At the beginning, Yao Jie did not understand what the phrase "wanted child" meant. Later, when I asked, I learned that it meant that it was not the birth of the parents, but the adopted or even bought children.
After Yao Jie learned the truth, his spirit suffered a serious impact, and he did not know where he was born, and he did not know who his parents really were.
I don't know my real name, I don't know when I was born...
Especially when arguing with people, the other party will attack Yao Jie with this matter.
(Crying Yao Jie)
Yao Jie gradually grew up, and the various discussions around him also increased, and the most hurtful sentence was: You are a child that your father does not want, and you are a child who has been thrown away by your parents.
Similar discussion ensued, and Yao Jie was deeply hurt in her heart, and she wanted to prove to everyone that she was not a child who was left by her father on the side of the road.
To find relatives, we must find relatives, but unfortunately, Yao Jie has been looking for more than twenty years, but she has not found the clues of her biological parents.
Grow up, get married and have children. Although Yao Jie and her husband formed a new family, while enjoying a happy life in the new era, they never forgot to look for relatives.
The more he grew up, the stronger the desire to find relatives became, and Yao Jie often dreamed of a large rice field, a small yard, and his parents sitting and eating inside.
But Yao Jie was in the dream, but he couldn't push open the firewood door of the small courtyard, and he was in tears after waking up from the dream. Waking up in the morning, with infinite thoughts of his family, he continued to devote himself to his intense work.
Yao Jie has never doubted his biological parents, and believes that his father will certainly not lose his children, and he will not abandon his own children one hundred percent.
At least that's what she herself thinks, and she has to find evidence to fight back at the villagers who talk about the wind and the cold.
For more than twenty years, without any clues, she turned round and round, while working and looking for relatives, in the vast city, like a humble sand.
Second, a dialect, impressed Yao Jie
In 2015, Yao Jie worked in Zhejiang, surrounded by a Chongqing worker, the two of them had a very good relationship, living in a dormitory.
By chance, this Chongqing worker called his hometown and talked to his parents about his recent life.
And Yao Jie was also in the dormitory, she just sat next to her, and at first she didn't care about the sound of her co-workers calling.
Because as a girl who grew up in Henan, she couldn't understand the Chongqing dialect at all.
But the co-worker said, "What is he dang", and the speaker did not have the intention of listening.
Yao Jie only felt that her hair was standing upright when she heard "what is he", and she actually understood in an instant, the meaning of this Chongqing dialect is, referring to who is in what place.
The point is, I've never heard this phrase before, and now that I suddenly hear it, why is it so familiar?
(Yao Jie in 2015)
The more he thought about it, the more frightened he became, Yao Jie seemed to be trembling in every pore, for the first time in his life, he was so excited, was this the dialect of his hometown?
After more than twenty years of searching, this is the first time Yao Jie has found a valuable clue, although this clue seems to be small, but she still has to try to find it.
Yao Jie asked the co-workers, "What kind of person are you?" ”
The co-worker said, "I told you that I am from Chongqing. ”
Yao Jie asked again, "Where are you in Chongqing?" ”
The co-worker said, "I am from Laitan Town, Hechuan District..."
In the next few days, Yao Jie took care of the work at hand, and after obtaining the support of her husband, he set off from Zhejiang all the way to Laitan Town in Hechuan District.
Yao Jie's point of view is that whether it is in Henan or in other places, whether on TV or on the radio, I have never heard this dialect, but when I suddenly hear it, it is so familiar.
Then there is the word "Tai" that evokes Yao Jie's deep memories.
Like a key, opening the memory box in the depths of his mind, Yao Jie remembered the door of his home, remembered the blue water outside the door, and remembered the way his parents washed their clothes in the water.
In the memory of the home, the terrain should be quite high, and you have to walk down the stairs to get to the water's edge.
She remembered that when she was a child, she always liked to sit at the gate and watch people wash and wash by the water.
Thinking of that distant winter, remembering the vague passage of being abducted, it seems to be watching people wash clothes, watching and falling asleep... When I woke up, I never saw the blue water again.
There is a lot of water in Chongqing, and there is less water on the side of Henan's adoptive father and mother, so Yao Jie believes in his heart that he is at least a southerner, not a northerner.
Yao Jie had already looked at the map of Laitan Town in Chongqing, and just happened to see that there were three major rivers meeting there, so it was a place rich in water resources.
Vast sea of people, looking for more than twenty years, and Laitan Town is not the final answer?
According to the evidence in her hands, 35-year-old Yao Jie was only two or three years old when she was abducted, and now that more than thirty years have passed, she has long been married and have children...
More than thirty years of time have passed, and Yao Jie has also doubted, is there anything wrong with memory? The vague outline of the hometown in the mind, is it a childhood memory? Or is it a figment of the imagination?
The police of laitan town police station, after listening to Yao Jie's briefing, immediately arranged police forces and launched a meticulous investigation in the town.
The police also said to Yao Jie euphemistically: "It may be difficult to find relatives, give us a little time..."
Yao Jie stood up and said that when he was a child, where were the birthmarks on his body and what kind of characteristics he looked like.
The police first asked the village cadres of the whole town, and then posted a notice to find people, and posted information on the search for relatives in every natural village in the town and at most intersections.
The police then took the information in their hands and visited every village in the town and every alley.
After a series of carpet surveys, the results disappointed everyone, and no one from any family was found, and the little girl who had lost two or three years old could not be compared.
At the same time as the above investigation, the police also drew Yao Jie's blood and took it to the testing agency for DNA identification and genetic information.
It probably means that anyone who has lost a child for many years will go to the police to do DNA and leave genetic information.
And whoever is looking for a biological parent, after doing the DNA, can be compared in the database to find the biological parents.
The laitan town police used all the means they could use, and did not find valuable clues, they watched Yao Jie more and more anxious, and they were also worried about whether this search for relatives could be successful.
After the nearby villagers learned of what had happened, they also talked about it in private, hoping that the sky would have eyes and let Yao Jie find his biological parents through a Chongqing dialect.
Just when everyone was worried, a key person appeared...
It turned out to be the "dialect search for relatives" in Laitan Town, which was passed down from ten to ten hundred and reached Sister Tang's ears.
Sister Tang is not a resident of this town, but another town next to her, because she likes outdoor sports, she often comes out for a run.
Coincidentally, Sister Tang ran to Laitan Town, happened to hear the villagers talk about Yao Jie, and then saw the search information posted by the police.
The more Sister Tang looked, the more excited she became, the more familiar she became with the information of looking for relatives, and she said that this personal experience called Yao Jie was the same as that person in our town?
It just so happened that in the town where Sister Tang was located, there was an old couple who had been looking for their own daughter for more than thirty years, finding silver frost from full of black hair, and often washing their faces with tears.
Look at Yao Jie's experience, and then think about the old couple in the town, isn't this right?
Sister Tang thought of this and quickly said to her friends around her: "Don't run any further, let's hurry back and find Aunt Wang..."
Sister Tang turned around and ran back, telling Wang Qiong about this matter, hoping that Aunt Wang would go to the Laitan Town police station to see if Yao Jie was your lost daughter that year.
Wang Qiong learned of this, but she was not willing to go to the police station to confirm, because she had been looking for children for more than thirty years, looking for too many cities, and seeing too many people.
For more than thirty years, Wang Qiong has also accumulated a lot of experience, and when he heard Yao Jie find relatives in dialect, he thought it was unreliable.
Aunt Wang talked about the search for relatives over the years, saying that it was so hard to find her daughter, and her dreams were all her daughters crying in the arms of others...
According to Aunt Wang's account, I remember that it was when the child was three years old (1984), and there was nothing to do in the winter, so she took her daughter to the market, thinking about buying some clothes and snacks or something... But suddenly turned his head, and the child did not know where to go.
Mainly from people, the trafficker took her daughter and boarded a boat in the river, and it happened that the wind and waves were strong that day, and it was suspected that the daughter and the trafficker had encountered an accident and sunk into the river.
Now that more than thirty years have passed, the reason why Aunt Wang did not go to the Laitan Town police station was because she thought that Yao Jie might be too anxious to find her parents, so she relied on dialect to find relatives.
The matter also became a stalemate, Yao Jie did not know where his parents were, and Wang Qiong did not go to the Laitan police station to confirm.
Normally, the trajectory of the fates of the two people is difficult to intersect.
Third, enthusiastic Sister Tang, help find relatives
Fast forward to 2017, two years from now.
When Sister Tang went out for a run, she went to Laitan Town again, and saw the latest search information posted by the police, and she guessed that Yao Jie was here again.
And Sister Tang is a warm-hearted person in daily life, so she went to Wang Qiong again, she said: "Aunt Wang, all this may be providence, maybe the woman who is looking for relatives in dialect is your daughter, I advise you to go to the police station to confirm it." ”
(Wang Qiong's husband)
Sister Tang bitterly advised, Aunt Wang, since you have been looking for more than thirty years, why don't you persist to the end? If Yao Jie is not your daughter, you have nothing to lose, but if Yao Jie is your daughter, you are equivalent to having one more child...
Sister Tang said, "When you are old, you should go out and exercise, come with me..."
In short, under the persuasion of Sister Tang, Wang Qiong decided to try it, and the two went to the Laitan police station together.
After understanding, Yao Jie did not come to laitan police station, and the reason why new family information appeared was that the police had just posted it.
But none of this matters, what matters is the verification of identity characteristics.
First of all, comparing the birthmarks, the police had just said half of them, and Wang Qiong and his wife interrupted: "Right, right, there is a birthmark the size of a palm." ”
Next, the blood samples of the couple were sent from Laitan Town to the nearest testing agency.
After a few days, the testing agency gave the result: confirmed that it was the same paternal lineage!
When the police saw this sentence, they were very excited, because when comparing DNA, brothers and sisters may make mistakes, but the probability of errors in the lives of parents and children is extremely low.
That is to say, confirming that Wang Qiong and Yao Jie are undoubtedly mother-daughter relationships!
Yao Jie worked in other places, she has been waiting for Laitan's phone, waited for two years and finally waited, the first reaction in her heart was to find her own biological parents!
After the phone was connected, Yao Jie couldn't wait to ask, did he find my father?
The police subconsciously said: "Found it!" ”
Three words, like three sledgehammers, struck in the depths of Yao Jie's heart, looking for more than thirty years, and finally found his biological parents.
In 2017, communication technology is changing rapidly, and the police open a video through a mobile phone to let Yao Jie meet with his parents first.
The small mobile phone screen could not tolerate their mutual thoughts, Wang Qiong and her husband cried like tears, and Yao Jie on the other side of the mobile phone was also crying.
Wang Qiong said: "Child, my mother finally saw you, and she thought that you sank into the river that day..."
Yao Jie was both excited and shocked, before relying on dialects to find relatives, she also held the attitude of trying, fortunately, the Laitan police did not abandon and did not give up, thanks to Sister Tang's enthusiastic help.
Multiple coincidences come together to bring parents and children together.
(Crying Yao Jie)
When the mobile phone opened the video, Wang Qiong said to Yao Jie: "You are at home, and you have a sister and a younger brother, and everyone is looking forward to your return..."
After the video ended, Yao Jie set up a network group and pulled her younger siblings into the group, where she learned more about everything in chongqing's home.
When chatting in the group, Yao Jie did not have any estrangement from his younger siblings, which may be the reason for a mother's compatriots, and his feelings were very deep.
Even if they are separated for twenty or thirty years, even if they are thousands of miles apart, the feelings in the depths of the blood line touch each other at both ends of the network.
Yao Jie booked a plane ticket to Chongqing, and she can't wait to reunite with her family.
The younger brother in Chongqing drove to the airport to pick him up, considering that his mother was old, so he did not let his mother accompany him.
Without waiting for Yao Jie to get off the plane, various reporters were already at the pick-up gate, setting up long guns and short cannons, one shot after another, waiting for Yao Jie's arrival.
Before and after, Yao Jie has been abducted for thirty-three years, and what has touched the media is not only the reunion of relatives, but also the coincidences behind the reunion.
Yao Jie got off the plane and saw his brother, the sisters and brothers hugged their headaches and cried.
Seven or eight cars departed from the airport and ran all the way to Yao Jie's home, including a reporter's car, a brother's car, and a police car...
It was about an hour and a half away, and because there were too many vehicles, it took more than forty minutes to walk for an hour.
For more than an hour, Yao Jie kept asking his younger siblings how his parents had lived over the years and whether they were healthy.
Yao Jie asked one detail after another, and when the convoy arrived at the town entrance, it was already sunset and dusk.
Many people came to the town, all of whom heard that Aunt Wang's daughter had returned, so they came to greet her in advance.
The car stopped next to Wang Qiong and his wife, and Yao Jie cried in the car for a minute or two before slowly pushing open the door.
Thirty-three years passed, parents and daughters finally met, and the three of them hugged and cried.
Yao Jie dreamed of such a scene countless times, and now it has finally come true, at the entrance of this town, under the witness of many media, the family is finally reunited.
After walking for about two miles, Yao Jie finally walked to his real home, looking at the stairs and looking at the rice field, just like the touch in his memory.
The family has always held hands tightly, and they don't want to be apart again in this life.
Villagers lit firecrackers to welcome Yao Jie's arrival.
The village party secretary has long hung a big red lantern, although it is not a festival, but it is more lively than the festival.
Wang Qiong asked media friends to help them take family portraits.
After the photo was taken, Yao Jie turned to look at Officer Cai of laitan police station, she was too excited to say anything for a while, so she bent down and bowed deeply.
And this bow has already included a thousand words, and Yao Jie's family of five has successively said words of thanks to Officer Cai.
Officer Cai quickly lifted up Yao Jie and said, "This is all my job." ”
Yao Jie looked at the people present, and she said, "Not only to thank everyone, but also to thank the other two people, that is, my adoptive father and adoptive mother, their old two are very good to me, without them, I would not have grown so big..."
Yao Jie touched his conscience and talked about the life he had lived with his adoptive father and adoptive mother over the years, from the teeth and teeth of his childhood, to the rebellion of his teenage years, to the marriage and children of adulthood.
And Wang Qiong also said that he did not force Yao Jie to live with anyone in the future, and this was always Yao Jie's home.
postscript:
May there be no abduction in the world, and I hope that parents who want children will take the formal process of adoption, have more contact with people in the hospital, and legally adopt children.
Don't let family affection be broken, and trafficking hurts not only one family after another, but also the public order and good customs of society.