My husband and mother-in-law regard money as their destiny, and I spend my own money to go to the confinement center to confinement, but they are not willing. What am I going to do? The following story is from Miss Luo's self-description: I am far married, from the north

My husband and mother-in-law regard money as their destiny, and I spend my own money to go to the confinement center to confinement, but they are not willing. What am I going to do?

The following story is a self-narration from Miss Luo:

I was married far away, from the north to the south. My husband and I filmed for 5 years and then entered the marriage hall. He is good at everything, that is, he is more concerned about money. Probably influenced by my mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law divorced my father-in-law when she was young and brought up my husband alone. A rural woman, who has no culture, is not easy to pull a big child. Therefore, she takes money very seriously.

At the beginning, it was because of the wedding dowry money that there was a contradiction. According to our customary gift money on that day, the dowry money is 200,000 yuan, and my mother-in-law is only willing to give 20,000 yuan, and she can't afford to give more.

My family conditions are relatively good, and my parents are also sad for me and my husband, although I am not happy in my heart, but it is important to think about my daughter's happiness. In the end, he also agreed to this family affair.

When I got married, my mother secretly stuffed me with 500,000 yuan of her own private money, saying that she would encounter difficulties in the future and should be in a hurry.

I also said at the time that my mother was worried, my mother-in-law was very kind except for the money, and we were not embarrassed to get along.

But unexpectedly, soon we made a fuss over money.

Last month, after I gave birth to a child, I wanted to go to the confinement club, and my mother-in-law and husband directly gave me a look.

I set up this confinement center half a year ago, because my mother-in-law and husband value money, so I didn't tell them, because they would definitely not agree. And I didn't want to use their money at all.

I didn't look for too expensive, 40,000 22,28 days a month, thinking that me and my children can rest better, and the mother-in-law doesn't have to work so hard.

As a result, after giving birth, I told them about it, and what they said really chilled me.

My mother-in-law cried and said, "I never dreamed that you could do this!" My son is all hard-earned money, and your body is golden..." He also said a lot of ugly words.

After the husband listened, he immediately said, "Go home and live, safe and hygienic, and have someone to take care of."

I insisted on my opinion: "Everything goes with you, I have a child once in my life, I want to recover well, what's wrong?" Am I not worthy? ”

After the mother-in-law listened, her face turned pale, she muttered, slammed the door and went out. The husband was even more excessive, "Then you can watch and do it yourself, I can't afford to provide you with this big god." If you want to have money, you can go, remove the expenses, I can't save this money for half a year, my brain is really bad for you..."

In the end, my baby and I still stayed in the confinement center, and in a month, my husband came to see us several times, and my mother-in-law did not come once.

I have never dared to tell my parents about this, for fear that they will be worried. Everyone said that this new year' day, I encountered such a bad thing, I have lost faith in this marriage.

I don't know how to live in the future, and I can only secretly wipe my tears when I look at the one-month-old child in my arms...

Everyone said, what should Miss Luo do?