If you want to say who the hottest sports star this winter is, it must be Gu Ailing, a skateboarder who came out of nowhere and was called a "genius girl" by netizens.
Just this morning, China's Gu Ailing won the gold medal in the final of the freestyle ski women's big jump with a score of 188.25 points. This is not only the first gold medal she won at the Winter Olympics, but also a new history of ice and snow disease in China, becoming an epic figure.
How good is Gu Ailing, who was named "Genius Girl"?
"Genius girl" has always been the most dazzling label on Gu Ailing's body, many people on the Internet have evaluated her in this way, so how strong is Gu Ailing?
First of all, Gu Ailing won the National Junior Ski Championship at the age of 9 and the National Under-13 Slope Steeplechase Championship at the age of 11. She likes skiing, and can get 6 gold, 2 silver and 1 bronze in various international competitions in one go. It can be said that as long as she participates in the competition, there are basically prizes. Secondly, her excellence is not only in skiing, at the same time as ski training, Gu Ailing is even more with a difference of 20 points, self-study admitted to Stanford University in the United States. At the same time, Gu Ailing also has a presence in the fashion circle, and various well-known fashion magazines at home and abroad have published her photos.
It can be said that Gu Ailing is a child who is excellent in all aspects, and whether it is family situation, occupation, conversation or appearance, there is no need to pick, such a child is not achieved by ordinary families in terms of starting point and vision.
Such a legendary story, presumably the protagonist in the novel does not dare to have so much aura, and seeing such a treasure girl, we can't help but wonder, what kind of excellent family can cultivate such and such excellent children?
Behind the great Olympic champions is the good intentions of parents
Gu Ailing, born in 2003, is a mixed-race child of Chinese and American descent. Gu Ailing's mother, Gu Yan, is a Beijinger, and Gu Ailing's father is also a graduate of an American college.
The parents who are also high-talented graduates can naturally give their daughter Gu Ailing better materially, and the couple is particularly fond of sports in their spare time, and her mother Gu Yan is a part-time ski instructor, so from an early age, Gu Ailing has a great interest in skiing.
But skiing is not the only sport of Gu Ailing, in addition to skiing, there are piano, ballet jumping, cross-country running, football, basketball, horseback riding, rock climbing, etc., as long as Gu Ailing wants to try, parents will give support and companionship.
Gradually, Gu Ailing came to prominence on the ski road, she wanted to choose freestyle skiing, although her mother knew such a high-risk sport, but her mother did not immediately stop it, but after careful consideration with her daughter, she respected and supported her daughter's wishes.
I have to say that Gu Ailing can have such a good achievement today, inseparable from personal efforts and persistence, but behind all this, more or less of the silent support and encouragement of parents, parents imperceptibly influence is more respectable.
Compared with the children in life, who are bitterly pressed by their parents to learn various interests and hobbies, Gu Ailing's parents can do the opposite, in the child's learning process, do more is to accompany and support, never forced, so that children can choose the path of life according to their own hearts, and go further on this road.
Compared with winning gold, Gu Ailing's mother's education method is the "ceiling"
1) Your child sleeps enough for 10 hours a day
When Gu Ailing was young, her mother once said in a speech that the secret of her own success was to let her children sleep "10 hours" a day.
This sleep time may be difficult or even unrealistic for domestic children, especially last year' data released by the Health Commission shows that 98% of primary school students in China are not sleep-deprived.
From childhood to adulthood, Gu Ailing can ensure that she sleeps for 10 hours a day, and Gu Ailing herself also said that only when she sleeps well, she has the energy to do other things, and this alone, Gu Ailing's mother has defeated almost 99% of parents.
2) Do not require the child to be a good person
Gu Ailing's mother said that she would never ask her children to be "perfect". On the contrary, it will teach children to accept their own imperfections, do not give themselves so many constraints, children grow up with this support and encouragement, children will naturally be closer to their mothers, and will also take their mothers as role models, and strive to catch up or surpass.
3) Unconditionally support your child's interests
Gu Ailing once said in his documentary that when he was a child, his mother would drive back and forth for 8 hours a day to take himself to skiing, and this alone was something that few parents could do, which was not only a factor of money, but also the love and attention of parents, such a child would grow up even if he was not a world champion, but he must be sparkling.
Kojima would like to say:
People are always used to calling Gu Ailing in such a way as "genius girl", but even a talented girl can achieve such brilliant achievements, in addition to having good genes, it is inseparable from the unremitting efforts of herself and the people around her, and these efforts are not just "genius" can be summarized by the word .
Therefore, parents want their children to achieve extraordinary things in the future, rather than blindly forcing, it is better to take their children to experience, and encourage them when their willpower is not firm enough, which is what parents should do most for their children.