Hello everyone, not long after the year has passed, many parents have begun to complain, saying that a young child addicted to games can not extricate themselves, today here to talk to you about the child's game play this matter.
Many parents have complained about their children, "all the way to the game as deep as the sea, how can not wake up." This sentence is quite a full expression of the contemporary network world, many children are gradually addicted to the Internet, parents are very distressed, every day with the child's ear to accuse them not to indulge in the internet world, resulting in extreme tension between parents and children.
The term "Internet addiction" has become a very serious problem in children's lives and learning. In addition, the development of the Internet is now very rapid, the probability of children's access to the online world has increased greatly, and the threshold has gradually decreased.
The Daily Mail reported to everyone the real experience of a mother who was pit by her own baby.
The mother usually does housework at home, and the child plays mobile games under her nose, which she thinks is nothing. But one day, what she didn't know was that her son, George, instantly became a "local tycoon" in the virtual world of mobile phones. It turned out that her child had withdrawn nearly a thousand dollars from her account to charge these gaming accounts. It wasn't until she later discovered her consumption records that she had to call the bank and later confirmed that she had indeed consumed nearly $2,500. Finally, the mother learned that her son had embarked on the kryptonite road and that her credit card bill had exceeded $10,000.
Every day on the news, you can see that children under the age of ten use their parents' mobile phones to indulge in various online games, and also conveniently charge tens of thousands of yuan of parents into game accounts, which seriously affects the happiness and safety of the family. Many parents believe that online games break the warmth of the whole family, constantly affect the physical and mental health of their children, and also hurt the harmony of the family. In fact, these parents should not completely blame the game, but should ask themselves whether they have managed their children well. Don't let them continue to indulge in the game.
Many game-addicted teenagers have a relatively grumpy personality, and in their youth, their parents have a great influence on their scolding. At the same time, some parents attach importance to work and do not pay attention to their children's behavior and living habits, as well as other activities they go out for. It is precisely because of these parents who do not put "education" in mind, which also causes children to become addicted to online games and eventually become addicted, dropping out of school and not eating, drinking or playing wildly.
Therefore, seeing these heavy news on the Internet and news reports, we as parents should reflect deeply. The reason why children behave in this way is most likely because the parents themselves have not brought a good education to their children. Whether children are addicted to games or not is very closely related to the relationship between family education.
So, what should parents do? Or how to pull a child who is addicted to games back into a normal learning life? There are three ways to educate children:
Parents need to set a good example for their children
For example, in the problem of game addiction, many parents do not have good self-control themselves, let alone require their children to have such strong self-control. In the process of accusing their children of being addicted to games, parents often use very intense language to hurt their children's self-esteem. At the same time, serious cases will also use their hands to solve problems with various violent methods such as beatings and scolding, thus affecting the physical and mental health of children. There are also some parents who themselves do not like to discipline their children. When he wanted to rest, in order not to let the child disturb him, he handed the mobile phone to the child to try to make them shut up.
Gradually, when these parents want to relax, they become accustomed to using mobile phones as a tool to soothe their children's emotions. Over time, such a move will make children become dependent on mobile phones, and severe cases will become addictive. There is a scene in "Teacher Please Answer", where the mother accuses her husband on stage of not managing her child well, and at the same time, under the leadership of her husband, the child gradually becomes addicted to online games. When the teacher asked if such a thing was true, the father happily said, "I want to relax and play games by myself!" Give him the phone and he won't come over and bother me. ”
Therefore, it is very important for parents to be a good example, and we should also love reading or love sports in ordinary life. Then when children see their parents' behavior, they will be keen to imitate, so as to slowly develop good behavior habits.
Help your child find something of interest
If you want to keep your child away from being addicted to the Internet, then you should let your child look for something that makes them more attractive than online games. If parents ignore it and let their children indulge in the Internet on their own, then when they are older, they will reach the point where they cannot be saved, because the children at that time have lost the opportunity to learn and are a long way behind their peers. At the same time, parents should also know that the reason why children are addicted to online games is because they are not interested in other things and will become addicted. Therefore, parents should fully explore their children's interests and hobbies, take the initiative to take their children to report some interest classes, or go to more outdoor activities. Let children be more exposed to the world of nature, more exposure to sunshine and green water and green mountains, and have a strong interest in outdoor sports such as playing badminton. Then, their interest in the web will break away from the phone over time.
Parents should pay attention to their children's emotional needs
Many parents feel that because the age difference between themselves and their children is too large, there will be a relatively large generation gap. Can't communicate well, just ignore the child. Because these parents will not take the initiative to pay attention to their children's emotional needs, they will only blindly care about their children's academic performance. This is very detrimental to the healthy development of children, parents' indifferent language hurts their young hearts, discouraged they will find a little comfort in online games, desperately fleeing from the real life full of accusations. Therefore, parents should communicate with their children as much as friends, and pay more attention to their emotions and psychology.
Parents should arrange the time of the game reasonably
Parents should not blame their children for being addicted to games, or prevent their children from continuing to play games, so as to prevent children from being exposed to various online games. In this way, it is easy for children to have a serious rebellious mentality, especially the more parents oppose things, the more the children want to fight in their hearts. So when it comes to games, it's impossible for parents to ban it completely. Parents should find ways to make their children obedient in terms of games, and the most effective way is to arrange their children's play time reasonably. For example, from Monday to Thursday, parents do not allow their children to play games, because playing games during reading is easy to distract and waste school, which is not conducive to the improvement of academic performance. From Friday to Sunday, if the child can complete a certain amount of homework, parents can allow the child to play online games to relax, but there must be a certain time limit. After all, today's children should combine reading with work and leisure, and cannot blindly only read and learn, if they are adults, they must be difficult to withstand such a high-intensity mode.
It can be seen from this that parents should pay attention to the real needs of their children. In this era of score-based heroes, parents should only focus on their children's academic performance and ignore what they want to pursue. Children are more likely to breed rebellious emotions and get more happiness in the game world.
All in all, the problem of dealing with children's game addiction is indeed serious. Every parent must pay attention to their own family education, and pay more attention to the inner needs of their children, and give their children the most sincere companionship after work. And what do you think about the problem of children's game addiction?
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