Many people see a person's life as a complete life. This is not the case. People have historical limitations. The history of man should be told in sections. So from the perspective of psychological counseling, you are actually different from each other at each stage. Maybe they call the same name, even live in the same city, even do the same work, they are not the same person. There is a psychological study that believes that people change their values every 10 years.
In the past, psychology believed that human values were very stable, but now new research seems that the stability of values is also limited. So you can see that some people may have been angry at the last stage of life, but in the next life stage they have become mainstream values.
From this perspective, we should understand the mentally ill. And mentally ill patients, you'll see another layer of sky that you've never seen before. That is, mentally ill and mentally ill patients have a common feature, they are always repeating attacks, repeating trauma, in fixed places, even fixed times to do fixed stereotyped actions, repeat fixed relationships, stereotyped life patterns.
The reason why they are so stable to repeat the trauma is that they want to keep trying without exception by repeating the place where they fell last time, the place where they were thwarted last time.
This is very similar to what Sisyphus did in Greek mythology, so there is also a complex in psychology called the Sisyphus complex.
In a sense, if a person lives long enough, even the most serious schizophrenia can eventually be cured. Because he repeats it 10,000 times, he can always find an exceptional chance of success. But alas, life is limited.
In psychological counseling, the client constantly repeats stereotypical relationships, stereotyped behaviors, fixed language, on the one hand, in order to convey information to the counselor, through a hidden way to tell the counselor, my problem is here.
On the other hand, they just want to test the possibility of exceptions through repetitive behavior in different people.
Therefore, the new psychoanalysis pays great attention to chance, and people with good chance solve their psychological obstacles very early. People with bad chances are always repeating trauma.
~~ Xiaoming talks about psychological trauma
