📚 Jing Ma Parenting Sutra: 🌸 The ignorance of parents is already a hotbed for children who create problems, but what is more terrible than ignorance is ignorance and stubborn self-righteousness. 🌸 The child is not a machine, it is a living being

📚 Jing Ma Parenting Sutra:

🌸 The ignorance of parents is already a breeding ground for problem-making children, but it is ignorance that is more stubborn self-righteous than ignorance.

🌸 The child is not a machine, he is a living person, he has his own thoughts, emotions, emotions and cognitions, he is so different from adults.

🌸 Some parents do not enter the inner world of their children, do not understand their children, but only want to control him, suppress him, and grind him, how can he grow into a healthy person?

👫 As a parent, if you are not willing to spend time learning and growing up for your own children, you are not willing to get a little feedback from your children, you are not willing to listen to your children's voices, you are not willing to treat your children as adult parents to learn how to be a parent, then you will eventually become the maker of your child's real problems.

👦👧 When a child has internal problems, there are generally 6 stages:

Stage 1: Boredom. Because parents do not understand family education, children are weak in frustration, weak in ability to resist stress, and some other reasons, children begin to be bored with school.

Stage 2: Playing with mobile phones. After getting bored with school, parents do not understand family education, will not cope, children's exuberant energy began to shift to mobile phones, such as playing games, reading novels, making friends with netizens...

Stage 3: Rebellion. Parents can't see past, began to try to control the child, such as reprimand, disconnection, mobile phone, etc., parents use the wrong way of family education, resulting in children began to rebel.

Stage 4: Mental problems arise. Because the child is bored with school, greedy to play mobile phones, the parent-child relationship becomes worse, the parent's accusations, reprimands, and wrong family education methods, the child's psychological pressure becomes greater, and the children begin to have low emotions, anxiety, sullenness, tantrums, and non-communication with others.

Stage 5: Hurt yourself. Mental problems arise, emotions deteriorate, and through self-harm, rebellion, and release of stress.

Stage 6: The mind begins to have the desire to go to extremes. Feeling hopeless, helpless, worthless, meaningless in life, trying to end your life.