There are many fathers in the world who love their children, and they are working hard outside to create better material conditions for their children.
However, rich families may not be able to accompany and raise children with success.
Interesting fathers are the most precious assets of a child's life.
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Fathers are interesting, children are better
Interesting father, must have had an unusually great wisdom.
Liang Qichao believes that interest is very important in life.
He said: "Life is not fun, what is the use of coming?" ”
None of Liang Qichao's children inherited their father's career, but each chose a major that they liked or were good at, and became the pillars of their respective fields.
The eldest son, Liang Sicheng, has a mind to study architecture, and Liang Qichao is afraid that his son will be too involved in learning and become a person who only knows how to study and does not understand the taste of life.
So he wrote to Sicheng and said:
"You've learned too much, and life is monotonous. Too monotonous life is easy to get tired, tired has suffering, which is the root of the fall. I would like you to take advantage of the fact that a year or two after graduation, you will spend some time to learn more common sense, especially in a certain department of literature or humanities, and use a little more effort. ”
The second son, Liang Siyong, was determined to devote himself to archaeological research, and Liang Qichao found Li Ji, a famous archaeologist at that time, and paid for it himself, giving Liang Siyong the opportunity to participate in field archaeological work.
During the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, the third son, Liang Sizhong, studied at the West Point Military Academy, and at one point planned to terminate his studies and return to China to participate in the war.
After receiving the family letter, Liang Qichao did not stop it, but expressed understanding: "You want to transform the environment yourself, take hardships and adventures, this spirit is very worthy of praise, I see your letter very much like." ”
While carefully planning the children's lives, Liang Qichao triumphantly joked to others: "My sons are really interesting, Sicheng built a house, Sizhong blew up the house, the house collapsed and buried in the ground, and SiYong went to dig the house." ”
The tone was full of a father's satisfaction and pride in his child.
In addition, the Liang family has a custom that whenever the father is at home, the children come to accompany the father to dinner.
After the meal, the children happily listened to their father about the knowledge he was studying, and the father drank and spoke at a long distance.
Whether it is academics, careers or life, children do not understand the questions, Liang Qichao can always give interesting answers.
The father's guidance on the fun of life has enabled the children of the Liang family to have a good career and future.
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Fathers are fun, children are happier
Psychologist Gerdy said: "The appearance of the father is a unique existence, which has a special power to cultivate children. ”
Although Liang Qichao was busy running newspapers, running schools, writing articles, etc. all day, he never relaxed his concern and education for children.
When the children were young, he often found time to play with the children.
In the summer, they are taken to the beach for swimming and fishing, and in the winter, they organize "groups of children" to enjoy the plums.
When the children grew up a little, Liang Qichao became friends with them again.
He said in the letter: "Recently, I have worked with Three people, Ah Shi and Zhongzhong, to make some gadgets, and I am very happy to make them. ”
When he was with the children, Liang Qichao himself became a "big child".
Liang Qichao's care for children can be said to be meticulous.
When a child is in pain, he will always call to inquire, visit in person and even take care of him personally.
Usually, children are not given snack fees, but they must be given money every New Year's Day, and each child has the same amount.
When the children learned and improved, he would make his own prizes, or write a picture, or draw a fan, and give each person a copy.
These children of the Liang family have such an interesting father, which is really enviable.
In the future, the children have achieved extraordinary achievements, thanks to this interesting father Liang Qichao.
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