"Don't call my son, the child will not have a fever, take some small medicine, run to the hospital?" Besides, at this time, you know that there is no man in the family, why don't you listen when I let you have a second child and have a grandchild? ”
Zhao Jing did not want to listen to her mother-in-law's nagging, one hand one by one holding the two children out of the door, when sitting on the called online car, the eye circles were already red, but looking at the two daughters who were less than three years old, she could not take care of the discomfort, and put her hand on the back of her daughter's head to try the warmth.
The two daughters are twins, when they were born they were caesarean section, Zhao Jing was scarred physique, the scars on the stomach are still showing a vicious look, she does not dare to look at them when she takes a bath.
Before giving birth, the mother-in-law hurt herself heartily, saying that when she gave birth, she took a month's leave, just enough to come to serve the confinement, and then when her maternity leave was over, she could retire, just enough to come and take the child.
But the ideal is very plump, the reality is very bone, and when she sees that the two granddaughters are held out, she is not happy, at that time, she said that she waited for two years, let herself raise her body well, you can regenerate grandchildren, two children are also put, three are also raised, just grow up together, once raised, save trouble!
At that time, Zhao Jing was insensitive to the effect of the analgesic pump, and was dying of pain in bed, and directly roared, who loves to give birth to who gives birth, she is resolute not to give birth.
At that time, her husband Su Jue was standing by the bed, looking at Zhao Jing's pale face in pain, and he said a word to Zhao Jing.
"Be well, we're not angry, you don't get angry, the doctor said that being angry is not good for your body."
The mother-in-law did not say a word with a calm face, but less than a week after being discharged from the hospital, the mother-in-law said that she twisted her waist, she could not wait for the confinement, she was here, but also wanted others to serve, despite Su Jue's obstruction, resolutely took a car home alone.
For this reason, also let the husband Su Jue very remorseful, feel that it is his own fault, he did not take good care of his mother, let the mother be injured, because at that time the mother-in-law said to serve the confinement, their house is in the repayment period, the family money is not rich, the sister-in-law is not looking, Su Jue has to go to work again, now this time and a half, where can find the right person, no way, Su Jue can only call her mother.
Zhao Jing's mother took a leave of absence to serve Zhao Jing here for half a month, and rushed back to work, she is 3 years away from retirement, work for half a lifetime, there is only one foot left in the door, can not resign because of this.
There is no way, the resignation can only be Zhao Jing, Zhao Jing has since begun the life of a full-time mother, but a person with two babies, that kind of hard work is really difficult to say.
One cried, the other also cried, one sick and the other also followed the illness, a fever the other could not run, with the help of Su Jue, Zhao Jing was also tired to sleep every day when he lay down, but he did not dare to sleep porcelain, and there were two babies waiting to be fed, and he had to eat night milk at night, half a year later, 162 height, Zhao Jing lost 20 pounds, from 110 pounds before pregnancy to 90 pounds, the whole person looked haggard.
Finally looking forward to the mother-in-law's retirement, but the mother-in-law also used her own discovery of high blood pressure as an excuse, delayed and refused to come, Zhao Jing was really haggard.
Fortunately, her husband Su Jue is still considerate to her, she will never travel without traveling, she will never work overtime without working overtime, and she will do all the work she can.
But in this way, all kinds of income sharply reduced, a litter of people in the family to raise, especially two daughters to paste milk powder, a barrel of milk powder hundreds of large, but also to repay the mortgage, no way, after the child is half a year old, Su Jue can only return to the previous working state.
But the mother does not come to help, the mother also said that he is unwell, Su Jue has no way, he has been a filial piety child since he was a child, on the one hand is the wife and children, on the other hand is the mother, what can he do?
In this way, the child stayed up until he was almost two years old, and his mother said that his body was well nourished and he came to take the child.
But as soon as she came, she broke the peace of the house.
"Jing'er, you have also been two years, I consulted a doctor, said that caesarean section, two years later can be regenerated, take advantage of your youth, give birth to a good recovery, but also take advantage of my ipathy, can help you with children, you hurry to have a son, this family can not have no son, and then this granddaughter is going to marry sooner or later, the mother's family can not be without a brother support is not it?"
Zhao Jing did not speak, only staring at her husband, Su Jue had no choice but to answer.
"Mom, it's difficult for us to raise two now, where can we raise another one, just two of her, I think it's very good."
The mother-in-law spoke to her son, but it was not polite: "What's good?" Our family has three generations of single transmission, to your place, can not break the root, how can I go down to see your father, this is his wish before leaving. ”
Su Jue frowned and didn't speak, how old was he when his father left, more than ten years old, thinking about it for a long time!
Mother-in-law saw that two people do not buy their own accounts, this temperament can be big, the original began to cook occasionally with children, now it is not done, but also every day noisy heartache, Zhao Jing has no way, can only serve the old and serve the small, really there is a word of suffering.
Now the child is not comfortable, she wants to take the child to the hospital, the mother-in-law not only does not help, but also said a message.
After returning with the child, the mother-in-law complained again, the two children were uncomfortable, Zhao Jing fed the two children medicine, coaxed them to sleep, sat on the bed and cried suppressedly, what could she do?
When Su Jue arrived home, Zhao Jing heard her mother-in-law complaining outside.
"The child is not a fever, she will go to take the child to see a disease, the meal will not be done, I made the meal, knock on the door she will not open, I have high blood pressure again, headache, son, you said you marry this daughter-in-law ..."
"Mom, don't say this, this child is two..."
"What's wrong with the two?" Neither of them has a grandchild, I don't care, you hurry up and give me a grandson, you don't want to bring it, I can just bring it myself..."
"Okay Mom, I'll persuade her again, she won't be able to give birth in these two years, and when they are older, they go to kindergarten..."
"If you are not born in this life, you can still have the final say, you can't think about the trick, you are a man..."
Zhao Jing listened palely, and his heart ached for a while, what did they think of themselves?
She pushed the door straight out of bed and pulled open the door: "Su Jue, let's get a divorce!" ”
Su Jue looked at Zhao Jing with wide eyes: "What are you talking about?" Divorced from what? I don't divorce! ”
"Zhao Jing, I tell you, you are going to get divorced, and you will take both children with you..."
Su Jue directly stopped her mother: "Mom, what are you talking about?" ”
"Don't stop me, how hard it is to find you with two children, you marry another one, you have no children, you can hurry to have another one."
Zhao Jing sneered and directly threw himself at the door.
Outside the bedroom, Su Jue was still trying to persuade his mother, and Zhao Jing's heart was desolate.
After all, they were mother and son, and soon they went back to the next room together to talk, Zhao Jing couldn't hear it, but with her 10 years of understanding of Su Jue, with Su Jue's filial piety, she knew that she might lose...
She had two daughters, and if she got divorced, how would she raise two children? Zhao Jing looked at the two children who had receded after taking the medicine, and the tears were like a flood that broke the embankment.
That night, Su Jue returned to the room and said nothing, and for the next two days, as if nothing had happened, Zhao Jing understood that he might have been persuaded by his mother, or that he might have really let himself have another one in two years...
And the mother-in-law sent a message in the circle of friends: "I serve my granddaughter to serve my daughter-in-law, I serve myself to get sick, and I can't get a good one, why am I doing this?" ”
Remembering the heartache of taking a baby in the past two years, remembering her good job, in order to take the baby, saying that it is gone, and then waiting for the child to go to kindergarten, she will start a new round of pregnancy and baby mode, Zhao Jing suddenly feels tired, the kind of tiredness that spreads from the bottom of her heart.
She felt that she didn't want to do anything anymore, she was going to suffer from depression, she was going to be sick, what should her two daughters do?
Zhao Jing packed up her and her children's clothes, took advantage of the fact that her mother-in-law was not at home, took advantage of Su Jue's business trip, directly called the courier to send it away, and then bought a high-speed rail ticket herself and returned to her mother's house overnight.
After a 3-hour drive, I sent a message to Su Jue when I got home.
"Let's get a divorce, the children belong to me, the house you look at, the divorce agreement I have signed, on the bedside table."
Su Jue did not reply to the news, half a month later, Su Jue came to find it, put the sterilization certificate directly in front of Zhao Jing, Zhao Jing looked at the thin paper in front of her in shock, and her eyes were round.
"Are you crazy?"
Su Jue only said: "I showed this thing to my mother, she got angry and went back to her hometown, saying that she would no longer care about me, she wanted to break off the mother-child relationship with me, quietly, let's go home!" ”
In this case, Zhao Jing was distressed for Su Jue, the two people took the child back home, the child can send the kindergarten, Zhao Jing was originally a primary school teacher, in a training class as a substitute teacher, and later found an opportunity to return to school.
The mother-in-law really never came again, until 1 year later, Zhao Jing found a list of injections from Su Jue's pocket, which was a document for male injections of contraceptives, she thought for a long time, or put the bill in front of Su Jue.
Su Jue looked at Zhao Jing with some panic: "I, I don't want to..."
Zhao Jing sighed, "Didn't it hurt for you to be stabbed at that time?" ”
Su Jue was stunned: "You are not angry? ”
"What am I angry about? You are willing to be knifed for me, what am I to be angry about? ”
Su Jue grasped Zhao Jing's hand: "I don't want to lie to you, but I really don't want to divorce, I just want to live a good life with you and your children, I want to tell you later, but I don't dare." ”
Tears welled up in Zhao Jing's eyes: "I'm glad you didn't really go for sterilization, otherwise I would have a bad conscience for the rest of my life, so it's very good, don't go to the injection in the future, I know your intentions, let's live a good life." ”
It is said that people do not serve themselves, and the heavens are damned, but who can say clearly about the affairs of this world?
Between the two mouths, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to be beaten, and it is better than anything else. As for parents, if it is really for the good of the child, the child is older, and it is not bad to let go when it is time to let go.