What children need most is spiritual nourishment

In addition to the necessary material conditions, children's growth needs spiritual nourishment.

Parents' personality cultivation, value trends, role models, positive self-motivation, correct teaching, humility and courtesy, honesty and trustworthiness, tolerance and understanding, sympathy and respect, as well as a harmonious family atmosphere, family members harmony and love, etc., are all very important spiritual nutrients for children's growth.

The growth of children, just like the growth of trees, sprouts and roots, blossoms and bears fruit, leaves dormant, there are long and stopped, natural laws, irreversible.

What parents can do and should do is to strive to create these suitable environments and conditions for their growth, and cannot design their children's growth trajectory and future image exactly according to their own wishes like designing bonsai.

Every child has the instinct to grow on their own, like a tree, trying to chase the sun upwards. As long as the environmental conditions are suitable, these autonomies of children will be stimulated and gradually become the continuous driving force for their growth.

In the process of independent growth, in terms of learning alone, the five dimensions of time concept, autonomy, good habits, concentration, and upward force are the core elements.

The five dimensions of learning quality are not innate, nor can they be designed like bonsai, but are gradually stimulated by correct guidance and cultivation in a suitable environment and conditions for a long time.