Tomorrow is the Chinese New Year's Eve, this year due to the impact of the epidemic, from the beginning of the month Grandma's birthday to Hunan hometown, just stayed for almost a month, two weeks ago to struggle whether to go back to Shenzhen for the New Year, to a week ago, just think we will spend the Spring Festival in our hometown.
Before I heard that the Spring Festival in 2022 will be the coldest season in recent decades, considering that the baby is not good at activities, can not go out to play every day, for the sake of the baby, the original plan was to stay in Shenzhen, the baby should be more comfortable.
After having children, I found that the focus is on children, and the expectations for the New Year have been much less.
This morning, when the baby has not woken up, you can quietly think about your recent relevant thoughts, review your various aspects of your state, and help yourself clarify your thinking. By the way, I also hope that after sharing my relevant thoughts, I can get some friends who have not had time to contact for a long time, and when I have time, I can exchange ideas.
Some friends said, why haven't they been updated for a long time? Recently with the baby plus work, their own personal public number, basically no time to reply, back to their hometown for almost a month, there is no time to contact old friends in Hengyang, today is finally better, but tomorrow has reached the Chinese New Year's Eve.
11 days ago, I did a special two things, the baby in Shenzhen when not much drink milk powder, in order to let the baby be able to ingest protein, so also bought a box of pure milk back, the baby saw the milk packaging, it showed a special two, so I and in Shenzhen the same, directly open the package for the baby to drink, of course, I also drank, the result to 2 a.m., I myself first vomited diarrhea, I just eased up, a little more comfortable, found that the baby is not right, about to vomit, immediately turn on the light, the baby immediately vomit clothes, Sleeping bags, our sheets, quilts, all of them.
Wait until 5 a.m., finally the change of clothes, sheets changed, sleeping bags changed, just put the baby to sleep on the bed, the baby ended up vomiting again, and then cleaned up. It's almost dawn, and you can finally sleep.
At 8 o'clock, the baby was fed a little water, and the baby threw up.
After a while, the baby was fed a little rice millet porridge, and the baby threw up.
Found that no, must go to the hospital to see, the result from 10 o'clock taxi to 10:21 before someone to take orders, that waiting time is really long. At this time, I suddenly feel that I am in an emergency, and if I can learn to drive, it is also a necessary thing.
(When I took the driver's license for 3 years, I always felt that I was not suitable for doing my own driving, when I tried everything to get a driver's license, I no longer wanted to drive my own plan, in this long process of waiting for the car, it suddenly appeared, is it necessary to have such a skill)
Went to the hospital, to the pediatric outpatient emergency department, the doctor let the blood draw, through the blood draw to see if there is any virus infected, and then do B ultrasound, is there a situation of intussusception, found that the ordinary day, pediatric outpatient emergency department is also a moment in the queue, examination, queuing to take the results, and finally fortunately, B ultrasound is nothing abnormal, that is, the throat has appeared red and swollen speech, considering that the baby did not eat for more than ten hours, what to eat, what to vomit, and finally the doctor recommended hanging needles, as well as anti-inflammatory injections, so hit 4 bottles.
The first day back is still in a very bad state, the next day did not vomit, but began to diarrhea, to the third day, did not vomit, just want to cook some porridge for the baby to add some meat and fish, the result of eating a few minutes, and then all spit out. From that day on, extra caution was taken to add meat to the baby, so I fed some confused, steamed apples, rice, and some food that was easy to digest.
Among them, millet is also very strange, before listening to other mothers said that millet is easy to digest, this time the doctor said that millet is actually not easy to digest.
In the baby's continuous diarrhea for a few days, one day there was diarrhea several times, clothes also changed several times, so in addition to working hours, basically changing the baby's full body clothes, and then baking clothes for the baby, the back will also be all the washed clothes, directly dried with a small sun, and prepared in advance.
After the 8th day, there was finally no more diarrhea, and the baby's stink last day finally returned to its previous state.
From day 6, a very miraculous phenomenon was found, the baby became particularly hungry, and after 1-2 hours a day, it was necessary to prepare food for the baby.
Now simply recall this time, it is really too difficult, in order to be able to do a good job of detailed planning for the whole year, and the preparation before the Spring Festival, the recent meetings are also a lot more, in order to improve their ability in the marketing planning sector, recently also signed up for a lot of courses, but every day can only take the baby, while meeting, while taking the baby, while learning online courses.
I really want to sigh: you can't move the bricks when your mother hugs you, and you can't hold the bricks when you move the bricks.
Fortunately, the past ten days of such a state has ended. Therefore, at the Time of the New Year, if it is really too cold, there will be no plan to go out to visit the New Year, and all the babies are important.
After becoming a mother, it is difficult to have a large number of study time and thinking time, especially if someone can always assist in watching the baby, otherwise it is really difficult for a person to get a baby.
At this stage, part of the significance of the effort is to make sure that your children can not be materially scarce, and mentally set aside time to accompany their children's growth.
About the role of the child's mother:
The previous review recorded the status of the child in the past ten days, and the baby also had several cousins born in the same year, and on the weekend, there would be a time to eat together.
I found that every child is the cutest baby in her mother's heart, and the most precious little cute in the eyes of her own family.
My child, now only over a year old, what kind of person do I want my baby to be? I think in fact, in this life, as long as you can find your own advantages, can give yourself happiness, stick to it, become the best of yourself, and be happy.
You don't have to look up to other people's children. Because everyone has their own advantages, even if this direction is very strong, there will be other weak points, and if you keep comparing with others, you will become very tired.
Found that the older generation, they all like to talk, to see who is who, at this age walking is already very strong, talking is already very strong. Everyone has their own growth rate, as long as the doctor says that the physical examination is within the normal range, even if it is no longer within the normal range, then adjust according to the guidance.
The child can get enough recognition in the family, there is no lack of materials, in the process of growing up, get enough love from parents, grow up, where she wants to go, the skills she wants to learn, the stage she needs to grow, is the condition that I need to create at present.
Some time ago, I heard Sister Y say that their children invited a sports one-on-one personal trainer, 600 / hour, violin 800 / hour, after listening, I immediately said, to work hard to make money, to fight well, I hope that when the child needs one day, I have no financial pressure.
About parents' child roles:
This month, due to the epidemic, I stayed in my hometown, and I also had the opportunity to live with my parents, feeling that living with my parents, I could return to the role of a child, and I could be more relaxed and be myself. In the parents' home, it feels easier and easier to find their roles.
Staying with other people's parents, due to the unsuitable habits of life, will be a little uncomfortable, every like, every link, need to be cautious, which is why I have been trying to live with my parents.
Back to the child's grandparents' home, always feel a sense of loss, my mother said to me at night, waiting for the New Year, you can also come to my house to play Ha, suddenly thinking: Where is my home ?
When my parents were a little baby, they were doing a small business of brine, and tomorrow is the Chinese New Year's Eve, they will still get up before dawn, and then rush to the business of the New Year for a few days, all year round, that is, the first week of the Spring Festival.
Seeing the gradual increase in gray hair on dad's head, I suddenly felt that my parents were really old. My brother and I once discussed that each of us would take out 1500 each month, hoping that my parents would start to rest and not do business. But my parents said: We are now using the money, and we hope to help my brother and I reduce the pressure of life.
This month, I stayed at home with the baby for almost a month, gave 5,000 living expenses, and my parents confiscated it, saying that we are not easy, and now we can still afford to raise you.
They can insist on doing business until now, and another point is that they have accumulated a lot of familiar customers, those are neighbors who have lived together for decades, they always sigh: now they have finally accumulated the whole business idea, kai knows how to do business, and also researches the taste that everyone likes, but they are old.
Dad's cooking skills are great, every time he goes to the restaurant to eat, if he tastes any new dishes, he will remember the taste, and then after coming back, try to find a way to study and try, listen to my mother, he is 2020-2021, basically fried a big grass carp of about 10 pounds per week, today my dad fried fish, my mother said that she saw that she was tired of eating and did not want to eat fish anymore.
Before roasting beer duck, I also bought 5-6 cases of beer, tested myself, found that I had to make a good dish, listening to my dad, there are many details to pay attention to, such as what kind of beer to put, how much beer and the like. I really just want to be able to cook, and I don't want to spend as much time as my dad to study.
Where time is, where the achievements are, because of my dad's research, his cooking skills are getting better and better, and more and more people pay for the brine flavor, in time, he does not have the same pressure of life as 10 years ago, and he is still full of passion, getting up at 4 a.m. every day, because of his loyal consumers, the recognition of his taste by the familiar customers.
My dad said that there was a person in their market who also made the same brine in December, but they bought 30 yuan, the other party directly 15 yuan, a group of people lined up to buy, the result was less than a month did not sell, because the taste is not good, customers are still back to my parents' stall. My dad said that they have now changed to the category of roast duck, which is still low price, and it doesn't feel like it will be done for too long.
Feel that choosing a subdivision field, in their own interested, love the field, the talent of the field to persist, may occasionally encounter low-price competition peers, in fact, as long as their choice of career as a long-term can adhere to the business, to create a product core, from the user experience to think, do not have to worry about any internal volume.
Think about my father because he only studied for one semester, a lot of truths, a lot of words are self-taught, starting from a flat burden, supporting our family, decades have passed, our life is getting better and better.
Looking back on my growing up experience, I found that my parents really had the greatest influence on me, and their persistence and their study of their chosen fields deeply affected me.
About my own chosen industry:
Cross-border e-commerce brand marketing field
So now that I've chosen this niche, what skills do I need to master?
Brand marketing, split is brand + marketing
Brand Area:
Brand VI design, brand positioning
How brands are built
Brand from 0-1, all process details
The resources required for the brand development process
Marketing field
All the details of the marketing planning section
All the details of the sales section
Combined with the cross-border e-commerce industry, combing through the clear, online and offline traffic paths, users from the beginning to hear about a brand, and then looking for this brand to cooperate, after experiencing the product is good, in-depth cooperation
All processes, capabilities, resources for the entire series.
These are the problems that I need to solve at this stage.
To understand this, the next step is to make a more detailed framework, and then fill in the content.
Due to the time relationship, in the blink of an eye, I wrote about the night of Chinese New Year's Eve, I wish everyone a happy Chinese New Year's Eve! The Year of the Tiger, the Year of the Tiger, the Year of the
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