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Whether a person is blessed or not is clear at the age of fifty.
At this time, it has gone through half a life, life is basically fixed, what kind of social circle, what kind of family, what kind of achievements, etc., it is difficult to have earth-shaking changes. So instead of the determination to change your life against the sky, you should think about what you really need and how to spend the rest of your life safely and fulfillingly.
You can still be strong, you can still be intoxicated with hard work and struggle, but you must understand that there are many things in life that are far more important than success. Such as family, such as mentality, such as health, etc., these are really related to the stability and happiness of the second half of life.
Over fifty years old, whether a person is blessed or not can be seen from three things.
If you can do the following three broken relations, then it is a sign of blessing, because it means that you understand many truths and truths of life, and truly think for yourself and live for yourself.
One: Break off relations with bad habits that affect physical health
If a person reaches the age of fifty and still does not understand the importance of good health, then no matter how much he has achieved, he may not be blessed to enjoy. Because the body is the capital of everything, the body collapses, and everything is meaningless.
There are many people in life who overdraw their bodies in order to work, and when they are young, they do not feel anything, which is completely inappropriate, but in middle age, they will gradually feel powerless.
I have some relatives or friends around me, who are not yet fifty years old, and I have cerebral hemorrhage, myocardial infarction, and even tumors, etc., which are a good age, but they left this world early, how can it not be painful.
These things are all a wake-up call to us that although making money is important, what is more important than making money is to take good care of your body. Don't always stay up late, break off relations with bad habits that affect your health earlier, and have a little more protection.
Two: Break off relations with useless social networks
When we were young, we thought that one more friend would take many roads, so we kept going to some parties, activities, dinners, etc., always thinking of making more people and expanding some connections.
But at the age of fifty, you must understand that the real network is not how many powerful people you know, but how many powerful people know you, if you are not excellent, have no value, and it is useless to know more people.
So those useless social networking, if you can't go, don't go, it's really meaningless.
Breaking off relations with those useless social networks as soon as possible, and focusing on ourselves and our families as soon as possible, this is really worth doing.
Three: Break off relations with grumpy tempers
There is a saying in Chinese medicine that qi hurts the liver.
According to the research of American scientists, when people are irritable and angry, adrenaline will accelerate the secretion, blood pressure will rise, the heart beat will be accelerated, and when it is severe, it will cause palpitations and even heart attack.
In the "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Zhou Yu is young and ambitious, heroic and strategic, and the trees between talk and laughter are gone, how dashing. Such a heroic figure was also killed alive and died young. It can be seen how much damage the body will be to the grumpy temper.
When he was young, he was short-tempered, and he may still have an unstable temperament, and he was full of hot blood, like a barrel of explosives, and he was on it at one point. But when you are over fifty years old and you are still so grumpy, that is, your cultivation skills are far from enough.
The years have brought us not only the growth of age numbers, but also the accumulation of experience, experience and wisdom. What you have left with fifty years should not only be age, but more should be a calm mind and the ability to deal with things.
Reason is not high, you should no longer deal with things through extreme emotions such as anger or yelling, but should see the essence through the phenomenon.
A young man is short-tempered, and others will say a young and vigorous word. A fifty-year-old middle-aged man is still like a hairy guy, and others will only laugh at his unstable heart, and look down on you in his heart.
A grumpy temper ignites not only anger, but also burns away your image.
Fifty years old, is a deep and subtle age like autumn, discard the untimely irritability as soon as possible, and make the second half of your life more peaceful and smooth.
Fifty years old is like the midfield of life, give yourself a half-time break, examine your life, discard the burden that drags you down in the first half, and go to the second half to enjoy a mature and rewarding life.
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