Author: Number One Emotion
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As the saying goes, "The heart of harming others must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without." ”
In the process of interacting with people, it is inevitable to meet some people with poisonous hearts, ostensibly to become friends with you, but behind the scenes, there are hidden secrets.
Therefore, when we choose friends, we must avoid encountering "poisonous" people, identify them and stay away as soon as possible to avoid being hurt by each other.
In this life, only by staying away from the "poisonous heart" people, the road can be smoother and smoother, if you get too close to such people, you will not only lose your own interests, but also cause trouble and trouble to your own life.
Therefore, we should become friends with gentlemen and stay away from those little people, so that your life can condense more and more blessings.
Generally speaking, people with "heart poison" often have these characteristics and know early to break off relations.
Behind the scenes
Interacting with people, on the surface to make bad people is not terrible, at most, two people will no longer communicate with each other, will not cause any substantial harm, and those who slander you behind your back, is the most terrible.
A "poisonous" person, the best at is to disguise themselves, on the surface a very close look to you, but he often for the sake of interests behind your back denigration, deep down he did not regard you as a friend, and dealing with this kind of person is also the easiest to cause disasters.
Interacting with people, itself should be at least sincere, if you often slander behind your back, maybe you will not be known to the other party at that time, and sooner or later it will reach the ears of others after a long time, and then your nature will still be exposed, and no one will be willing to have any contact with you.
When we meet this kind of person, don't be blinded by everything on the surface, this kind of person will only bring you harm, or break off diplomatic relations as soon as possible!
Strong jealousy
Some "poisonous" people have a strong sense of jealousy themselves and do not want to see people around them live better than him. But after you have a good life, although there is nothing on the surface, his heart has long been uncomfortable.
Imagine a friend you think is very good, but in your heart you expect you to have a bad life, and even trample on your self-esteem, only in this way can you become friends. It is naturally nothing to him, but it is not fair to you, and it will only bring you more negative things.
This kind of person looks very good on the surface, but behind the scenes it is very dangerous, and once the jealousy reaches a certain level, it is likely to become the deepest "bomb" lurking around you, and it may make your life fall at any time.
People like this kind of "poisonous heart", after encountering, must stay away in time, do not make deep friends, so as to avoid their lives being affected.
See Profit Forgetting Righteousness
There is also a very obvious characteristic of people who are "poisonous in their hearts", that is, the nature of seeing profit and forgetting righteousness. In their cognition, no feeling can be worth profit, let alone the so-called friendship? Sooner or later you will become an "item" for his benefit.
Even if you help him a lot and give him more things, it is also reasonable for him, and if he can get benefits by hurting you, he will not hesitate in the slightest.
People who can be made to make friends must at least have a grateful heart, if they hurt their good friends around them for their own selfish interests, or even those who are kind to themselves, naturally they cannot have deep friendship with such people.
Selling out our feelings for profit will not only bring disasters to the friends around us, but also pay the price for it, so we must also stay away from such people and avoid unnecessary trouble and trouble.
Write at the end
It is often said that "the friendship of a gentleman is as light as water, and the friendship of a villain is as sweet as a lily", and when encountering a gentleman, it is natural to cherish it, but if you meet a villain, the wisest choice is to stay away.
Therefore, on the road of life, we must be more careful, as far as possible to find gentlemen, away from some "poisonous" people, so as to avoid being deceived and hurt, the road of life can go more and more smoothly.