No one can bear to see their lover tortured by the disease, in order to save their beloved, many people donate kidneys and bone marrow at all costs, to be able to meet such true love, it is really three lifetimes lucky.
However, not everyone can be grateful, and sometimes the true heart will be ruined.
And colleen Le, a sister from the United States, has experienced such a painful lesson, and the price she paid is very large - without a kidney.
Colleen, 30, recently posted a video on Tiktok to share an experience that happened 4 years ago, which quickly attracted the attention and heated discussion of netizens.
In the video, she tearfully accuses her ex-boyfriend of cheating after donating a kidney to him, proposing to blackmail her after breaking up!
According to her account, the ex-boyfriend was diagnosed with chronic kidney disease at the age of 17, and the kidney function was less than 5%, so in order to maintain his life, he had to constantly undergo dialysis.
Colleen is a very affectionate girl, even if she knows her ex-boyfriend's physical condition, she still continues to associate with him and accompany him.
Sometimes she sees her boyfriend's body weak after dialysis, and she is also very upset with him.
She was studying health sciences at a community college, so she knew very well that her boyfriend's condition couldn't last forever.
To restore kidney function, a kidney transplant is required. But because the number of transplantable organs in the hospital is so scarce, many patients like him are waiting in line.
Unless they can find a matching kidney donor, they will have to drag on.
Even though they hadn't been together for long at the time, Colleen said, "I decided to go tested to see if it matched because I didn't want to watch him die.".
Later, she received a phone call from the hospital that changed their lives.
"We were told. We are a perfect match! ”
So Colleen nodded and agreed to donate a kidney to her boyfriend's treatment without even thinking about it, and after she signed the consent form, they were admitted to the hospital together for surgery.
Colleen gave her left kidney a transplant to her boyfriend, and she posted a hospital-issued thank-you certificate to prove the veracity of her story.
She gave her heart and a kidney to her boyfriend, but she did not expect that these were actually betrayed by her boyfriend.
For some time after the surgery, they were still in love. The surgical wounds began to heal slowly, and they both returned to normal life for each other.
But one day, 7 months later, her boyfriend offered to go to Las Vegas with his church friends for a bachelor party before his friend got married.
Colleen recalls that she had no worries about her boyfriend's journey at the time, because his boyfriend was a devout Christian, so she was very relieved.
And she also had to prepare for the final exams at that time on the weekend, so she didn't have time to check on her boyfriend.
But when her boyfriend returned from Las Vegas, she sensed something was wrong.
The boyfriend finally confessed everything to her and said, "I'm sorry, baby, I cheated on me when I was in Las Vegas." But please forgive me. ”
Hearing her boyfriend's confession, she was shocked and unable to speak.
Colleen said: "Then there was a lot of bickering between us. But I eventually chose to forgive him and give him a second chance. ”
But just 3 months later, the boyfriend unilaterally proposed to break up. Finally, he added, "If we were born as a predestined couple, God would eventually put us back together."
After saying that, he blocked Colin on all social platforms. She couldn't reach him when she tried to.
In addition, Colin also mentioned in the video that when they quarreled, she mentioned kidney donation, and the ex-boyfriend said that she donated kidneys to herself only to "make her face light and look good".
When she heard these words, her heart was like a knife. Without her, it is unknown whether the ex-boyfriend would still be alive to say such desperate words.
Colleen felt a deep betrayal.
Her videos have been viewed more than 11 million times and garnered nearly 2 million likes.
Many netizens are upset for Colleen, thinking that her ex-boyfriend is really too scummy, and some netizens suggest that Colleen should let him return the kidney.
"I thought my condition with my ex-boyfriend was terrible, but seeing your story, I sighed to myself. Your kindness will surely be remembered by God and His whole family. ”
"I wonder if he knows the seriousness of the kidney donation. You sacrifice your life for someone, you have a beautiful soul. ”
"Sister, don't worry. He can't live without you, and he will have to endure such guilt for the rest of his life. ”
"He doesn't deserve you or the gift you gave him."
"You should be proud of yourself that you saved a person's life."
"We definitely need a kidney-return clause!"
Coincidentally, a Mexican man recently recounted a similar experience on tiktok.
The man, Uziel Martínez, posted a video saying that he had donated a kidney to save his girlfriend's mother, who had been dumped just a month later, and that his ex-girlfriend had flashmarried her new lover.
Uziel Martínez, a male teacher from Mexico, decided to donate one of his kidneys to her mother to show his sincerity after learning of his girlfriend's mother's serious illness.
However, his girlfriend proposed to break up with him a month after the operation was completed. To make matters worse, she soon flashed marriage to another man.
The surgery was only a month after the breakup, and the experience looked worse than Colleen's, as if it were a fraud.
Even netizens thought he was too miserable, the video also received a lot of attention, more than 16 million views, and his story made headlines in the Mexican media.
Uzir did not expect that he would accidentally become popular, and now his experience is known to people all over the country and even the world, and he is a little embarrassed.
In the face of the concern of netizens, he released a video response, saying, "In fact, I am living very well now, and my psychology is quite healthy, and I think she (ex-girlfriend) is also." I don't hold a grudge against her, we're still on a good relationship. ”
Some netizens left messages urging him not to repeat the same mistakes.
But Uzier joked, "I can't make the same mistake again, we only have two kidneys, I've given one, and the other one, I'm going to keep it for myself." ”
I thought that sincerity would be exchanged for sincerity, and even donated a kidney for the sake of my beloved, but in the end I paid it by mistake.
I hope that these two well-meaning people can finally harvest true love and live happily ever after.