Many people are willing to spoil their daughters, but they are very strict with their sons. I don't know whether it is because of the concept of "poor sons and rich daughters", or because daughters will be spoiled, so they get more love.
Some parents value daughters over men to undisguised degrees, and give birth to sons who are frowning and envious of other people's daughters; daughters and sons kick the quilt at the same time, gently cover the daughter, and throw the quilt directly on the son.
They are all the same children, but they are treated differently, and there is a tendency to become more and more intense, so that they feel that the boy is pitiful, as if the daughter is the true love, and the son is just an accident.
On January 23, a man in Shangqiu, Henan Province, riding an electric tricycle with his wife to pick up the children from school, took his wife and daughter to the cab, and arranged his son in the carriage without even a bench.
When the man went to pick up the child, he knew that there could only be three people in the cab, but he still went with his wife, and there was no bench, thick quilt or anything like a bench in the carriage.
After picking up his son and daughter at school, the man squeezed into the cab with his wife and daughter, and the son could only sit in the unobstructed carriage.
Not only that, there is no bench to sit on, only to sit on the beam of the car, and there is no quilt or thick coat to block the wind. The boy sat alone in the carriage, his hands in his sleeves for warmth.
Looking at the younger daughter, she is comfortably lying in her mother's arms, sitting in the cab with her father, and the family status of her son and daughter is clear at a glance.
Maybe the parents think that the son is rough and raised, and it will be more skinny, who let him be a leather jacket?
But obviously the father can pick up the child himself, so that both children can sit in the cab, and I don't know why the father should take the mother with him.
Even if you want to train your son to be a man, you can put a bench in the carriage and have a place to sit. And it is a cold day, and it is also okay to take a thick coat to shield your son from the wind.
The difference in treatment is so obvious, will the son feel sad in his heart? In the past, it was all patriarchal, and now it is a preference for sons and sons, obviously conditions permit, why can't a bowl of water be flat?
Netizen comments
Some netizens said that dad is the top pillar of the family, without dad car does not go, the mother also has to take care of the little daughter, as a manly big brother has to pick up the beam, like when he was a child sitting in the carriage himself.
Some netizens said that sitting in the carriage should sit in the carriage, so as to give a stool.
There are also netizens who feel the same way, saying that if it were my father, he would directly let me walk home.
But some netizens said that they gave their preference to their daughters and gave their family property to their sons.
Long Moon view
Parents want to cultivate their son as a man, so that he can take responsibility, which can be understood, but it is best to level the bowl of water and not treat their sons and daughters differently.
Whether it is patriarchal or patriarchal, it is not worth advocating, and its nature is the same. As long as the parents are biased, the child will be hurt.
Do not suffer from widowhood but suffer from inequality, do not worry about the less, worry about the unfairness of the share, materially so, so is the love of parents.
Most of the contradictions between brothers and sisters are caused by the unfair handling of parents. Not only will those who are favored not be more filial to their parents, but they will not be favored, but they will complain.
Therefore, whether it is a boy or a girl, parents should be a bowl of water flat, treated equally, and treated the same.