Many people may feel that the biggest difference between a first-time woman and a menstrual woman is the cervical opening and the birth canal and the pelvic and other parts, in fact, not only that, there are many differences between the two. It is precisely because of this that doctors also have a big difference in the treatment of the two, especially on some key issues.
01 There is a big difference between the first and the most recent mother, and the doctor treats these questions very differently, and the mother should answer truthfully
If it is a first-time mother, then the doctor will pay more attention to the file during the obstetric examination, because this is the first child, and more detailed information must be recorded, so that a lot of information can be queried when the second child is born later, and when encountering some special circumstances, the risk can also be judged according to some data data when the first child was born.
For menstrual mothers, doctors will be more thorough in obstetric examination, because many second-born pregnant women are more likely to give birth to deformed babies, so they will arrange for some second-child mothers to do some targeted obstetric examinations, such as amniotic fluid puncture or more detailed teratology examination.
Just like my friend was arranged by the doctor to do the amniocentesis project when she was pregnant with the second child, my friend did not understand it at that time, because this project was not allowed to do when the first child was conceived, how to do it now?
At that time, the doctor gave the answer that this was the case, the doctor said that the second child pregnant women are more likely to be affected during pregnancy, coupled with the vulnerability to the fertility sequelae of the first child, so it needs more attention.
In addition, doctors for menstrual women, they will also pay more attention to the problem of fetal umbilical cord neck, in the obstetric examination will also ask pregnant mothers, in the first child when pregnant with whether there has been an umbilical cord around the neck, then pregnant mothers must be truthful to inform. Because if the first child has an umbilical cord around the neck, then the probability of the second child will be higher, then the doctor will make a risk assessment and make a contingency plan.
Secondly, for menstruating women, the doctor will also learn from the mother about the delivery method of the first child, because the delivery mode of the first child also directly affects the choice of the mode of delivery of the second child. Usually, if the first child is c-sectioned, then the second child is mostly also c-sectioned. Of course, it is not excluded that the mother's body is recovering well, and it is also possible to use the method of normal delivery. But if the first birth is a vaginal birth, then both the second vaginal birth and the caesarean section are possible, and they should not be too careless.
This is mainly because there may be some data that may be misrepresented, when the doctor does not pay attention to the incision of the caesarean section earlier, allowing the woman to choose a normal birth, then there may be a rupture of the uterus during childbirth, or the incision is damaged twice.
In addition, if pregnant mothers are new mothers, then doctors may not advise women and families to pay more attention before giving birth. Because if it is a menstrual mother, then whether it is the time of the fetus into the basin, or the opening of the uterine opening will be relatively short, if the mother does not pay attention, directly at home to open the uterine opening, not prepared in advance, then there may be a situation of emergency delivery, for the mother and the fetus are very dangerous.
But if it is a first-time mother, they are much less likely to have a rush of labor, and it takes a lot of time to open the uterus alone, and it is not easy to have some risks.
Just like before the daughter of a relative of mine, already a second-born mother, when giving birth to the third child, did not go to the hospital in time to wait for delivery, resulting in the final birth of the child on the way to the hospital, at that time because the surrounding environment is not sterile, resulting in the recovery period of the daughter of the relatives later became longer, and the newborn also because of the improper delivery posture, resulting in the occurrence of lung choking, it is still very dangerous.
Finally, for first-time mothers, doctors will do a better job of both mentality and many details. However, for menstrual mothers, doctors will feel that many women have experienced many things, so they will not deliberately remind them when there is no need, which requires the second-born mothers to have a good mentality and not be too nervous.
Some second-born mothers may also not take the advice of doctors and nurses seriously because they have experience in childbirth, which can actually lead to increased risks in many aspects.
Of course, there are also some doctors who will consult whether they have previously had a fetus when facing the first mother, which is also a very private question, but pregnant mothers must also answer, because it is also directly related to the safety of the fetus and the mother. If there is something to hide, it may be a relatively large price, but generally when asked this question, the doctor will let the family go out, so pregnant mothers can also rest assured.
Conclusion: In the end, there is still a relatively big difference between the first and the second time, whether it is the risk, or the mode of delivery, or the obstetric examination and other aspects, more or less different, pregnant mothers should hand over to the doctor according to their own situation, do not hide anything.