In the face of family resistance, many of them ended in divorce for no other reason

I don't know if you have found that men and women in love may not have reached the point where you do not marry. Once this time encounters external resistance, it will make the little couple cherish it more, and even promote their marriage. For example, one of Shakespeare's plays Romeo and Juliet.

The story takes place in 14th-century Italy, where Romeo, the son of two families, falls in love with Juliet. The two families have been fighting each other for a long time. Therefore, they are very opposed to the love family of the two. Romeo and Juliet face resistance and are determined to break through many obstacles and carry out love to the end. Interpret a human love tragedy.

Not only drama, but also in TV dramas, we will also see such plots. If there is a love enemy between the young lovers, on the other hand, they will be very nervous about the love enemy and have a more perfect feeling for their lover. There is a psychological basis for this phenomenon. Men and women in love will have a high degree of psychological resistance if they are forced to make a choice in the face of resistance. This resistance prompts them to make the opposite choice and increases their liking for their choice.

The psychology of love

We look at literary history with such examples and find that they abound. For example, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu in "Dream of the Red Chamber", Zhang Junrui and Cui Yingying in "The Tale of the West Chamber", Ferdinand and Luis in "Conspiracy and Love".

But there is an indisputable fact, these little couples who face the resistance of their families, although they have performed a vigorous love, but many of them have ended in divorce. The reason is not him, in the face of external resistance to stimulate the heating of love, in the face of the tediousness of life, many can not withstand the test. If you encounter some setbacks in life in reality, fierce quarrels will break out, and love will easily break.

When two people who like each other face external pressure and are forced to choose to break up, because they cannot change the status quo of this pressure, it will prompt the two people to deepen their feelings to overcome obstacles. Couples at this time will have an illusion that they mistake this power of overcoming difficulties for love. When life returns to peace, love will encounter chai rice oil and salt, only a momentary passion impulse, no deep emotional foundation, and eventually have to go their separate ways.

Therefore, when lovers encounter family opposition, or other external obstruction factors, lovers need to maintain a calm, peaceful mind to examine the feeling. Don't be carried away by love for a while, let love open with a vigorous opening, and end with the husband and wife turning against each other. If you face your own heart and make sure that this feeling really has a deep foundation, then try to fight for it.

In the face of resistance, we need to calm down, think hard, confirm whether this feeling is really as we think, and finally make the right choice.