I have seen a passage like this on the Internet:
"No one can interfere in your life, rather than caring about the betrayal and unkindness of others, it is better to manage your own dignity and beauty." 」 Do what you want to do, love those who want to love, sooner or later the wrong people will be separated, and the right people will eventually meet. ”
Indeed, feelings are like this, the wrong people will eventually disperse, the right people will eventually meet, it is only a matter of time, some people have a short time, some people have a long time. But as long as you haven't given up, I believe you will eventually meet the right person.
Some friends may ask, you always say that you will meet the right person, so what is the right person?
In my opinion, the so-called right person is the last person to meet after going around. They may have been separated before, but when they met again, they were never separated except for life and death. Such a person is the right person.
Like a movie I saw recently promoting "Ten Years like a Warm Word". After watching the pre-publicity of this movie, I deliberately went to see the book. This book is mainly about the male protagonist Yan Xi, the male protagonist Wen Heng's emotional bondage for ten years.
They fell in love with each other from a young age, although due to Yan Xi's physical reasons, they did not want to drag Wen Heng down, so they said the sentence "I don't like you, never." Because he loved her, he chose to give up the promise that he had once guarded each other and given each other a home. I also give up the good wishes of "going to see the sea together in the summer and snow together in the winter".
But in the end, the feelings of the two people did not lose time, because the two people loved each other deeply. In the end, they were happily together.
As someone once said, "As long as two people believe that they can last forever, they can last forever." If two people love each other enough, then no matter what kind of difficulties they encounter, they will eventually meet again.
Most of the people who miss it are not the right people, or they don't love deeply enough, they can only say that they like it a little, but they are not deeply loved, just like another movie I have seen, in which the male and female protagonists can be said to be young plum bamboo horses, who grew up together since childhood. Only later, because the other family was going to another city. The two were separated.
Later, although the two people met together, no one said it, and perhaps the feelings of youth could only be feelings. So this time the two people missed it again, and the two people went to different cities because of their work. But years passed. The two meet again because of a class reunion, and by this time the two already have their own families.
In fact, in the end, it is still two people who do not love deeply enough, so they can only miss it, because they really love someone and can't help it. You know, the people who can miss out are not the right people.
Why do you say so, ask everyone such a question, like a person, is it regrettable to say it, or not to say it will be regretful, I think it must be a pity that it is not said.
So have you ever thought about another question, why didn't you say it, in fact, it is still not enough love. Since you are in love, you must express it. The worst-case scenario is simply rejection. But what if the end of the effort is agreed.
Therefore, the two people can not go all the way in the end, in fact, the root is not enough love, the rest is an excuse for themselves. If the two of you love enough, you will be able to face any difficulties.
It is like Yan Xi and Wen Heng, although they are not forgiving in their mouths, but after the delay is lifted, they can still be very happy together, because they have never forgotten each other in the past ten years, and they have never given up their love for each other. They loved each other so much that they were able to walk together in the end.
It's just that not everyone is Yan Xi and Wen Heng, a love is more than ten years, it is true that there have been flaws and cracks among them, but they can still continue to walk.
The reason is that the two of them love each other deeply, and they believe that each other is the only one in this life, even if they go around and there is separation in the middle, they will still find each other in the end, because they have never forgotten that they love each other the most.
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