For children, there is one thing that is very important, that is, "collecting the old money". After all, this is the most important source of income for children who do not yet have any source of income.
In fact, children do not care much about the amount of money pressed, but what they care about is the content of the adult's speech when pressing the old money, and sometimes because the adult says the wrong thing, the child is unhappy in the New Year.
When giving red envelopes, the elders said the wrong thing, and the reaction of the juniors embarrassed everyone
Soon it is the New Year, I began to prepare for the family relatives and friends of the child's pressure money, when preparing red envelopes for children, I also specially asked my mother not to talk nonsense when giving red envelopes, because last year there was a bad experience.
Last year's New Year's Day, relatives at home brought their children to the door to visit the New Year, and the mother also took out the red envelope that had been prepared and stuffed it into the child's hand, during which she did not forget to say a sentence: "Come, this is the money given by the grandmother, save it, don't spend it randomly."
"Give is mine, I want to spend as much as I want, why don't I keep it"? The children of the relatives replied disapprovingly. The child's answer to this kind of answer, let the adults present feel very embarrassed, relatives are even reprimanded the child for talking so rude, although the adults a burst of giggles and laughter passed, but the mother is very uncomfortable, because she gave money, but also received a reprimand, it is really "spend money is not flattering."
Adults to send red envelopes to children are also exquisite, after giving red envelopes in the way of speaking should also pay attention, not everything can be said, because some children receive money, but hear some words they do not like to hear, small temper will come up, it is easy to make a very embarrassing situation.
Don't say these 2 sentences when giving children money, it is easy to "spend money and not please"
"Don't mess around"
When many elders give money to their juniors, they will always say "don't spend it randomly". Of course, the original intention is not to let the child spend money, but to hope that the child will use the money in a reasonable place.
However, children cannot understand the "good intentions" of their parents, and they will understand that they do not let themselves spend money, and even get angry about it, thinking that it is better not to give money to themselves than to spend.
In fact, it is not strange that children will have such ideas, after all, in their world, the ability to understand language is still relatively low, and they can only understand according to the superficial meaning, and naturally they will misunderstand the good intentions of adults.
So in order to better please the children, parents in the child to press the old money, it is best not to say this sentence, the reason why the children have expectations for the New Year, this is because the New Year can get the "right to dominate" money, if a sentence to break this right of domination, it is indeed a little "cruel".
"I'll take it for you"
"Press the old money to mom and dad, I will keep it for you." This sentence should be everyone's childhood memory, after all, almost every child will be ruthlessly asked to leave by their parents when they are pressed for money, and they will keep it for themselves in the name of it.
Nowadays, the number of children's pressure money is also quite a lot, as little as a few hundred, more than a few thousand, which is really a lot of money, and for so much pressure money, parents are naturally not at ease to hand over the money to the child for safekeeping, so there is a "substitute for custody" words to fool the child.
And many children are naturally unhappy when they hear that their parents keep the pressure money for themselves, after all, the custody is equivalent to nothing, which is no different from not receiving the pressure money.
Therefore, if parents really want to keep the pressure money for their children, they may wish to take the child to open a bank account, store the pressure money, and use it in later life and learning, of course, for older children, parents may also wish to let the child freely dispose of it, which is also a kind of improvement for the child's ability.
What should the child say after receiving the money?
In fact, for the elders to give the old age money, the adults are shouting don't want it, and the children want it in their hearts, I don't know if others are, anyway, when Kojima was a child, he wanted the pressure money given by the elders, but every time the mother said not to let me take it, and then every time it was in the elders and parents in each other", the pressure money was stuffed into my pocket.
Such a scene will appear almost every year in the link of giving the pressure money, and there is no exception to the repeated performance, it seems that when giving the pressure money, everyone must first resign.
Relatives to the child to press the old money, in fact, do not have to hinder the affection, generously accept it, after accepting, the child should say some words of thanks, so that the person who gives the money feels comfortable, like a child can not speak, you can simply express gratitude, and like those who have a rich vocabulary of the big children, may wish to send some blessings to the elders, the Anger of the New Year to the peak.
Kojima would like to say:
Giving children money is originally a thing that makes children happy, and adults should also pay attention to the content of their speech, and do not let the good atmosphere be destroyed by their own "inappropriate remarks".