Recently, Mr. Cui of Zhoukou, Henan Province, sent a video saying that he had just returned from the field, and some neighbors felt that he was not small enough to let him go on a blind date, so Mr. Cui held a try-and-try attitude, rode an electric car to the woman's home, and as a result, after an hour of queues in front of the woman's house, he was told by the woman's parents that his daughter wanted to marry and drive, because Mr. Cui's conditions did not meet, and finally the woman's parents did not even let Mr. Cui in.
The thing about queuing up for blind dates is actually very rare in our real life, even in film and television dramas.
Many years ago, Guangzhou's rich people held a blind date, and experienced the selection of 40 beautiful women in thin, bright evening dresses to line up to accept the first test of "marrying into the rich door" - eye to eye with the rich. But the protagonist of this blind date is male, and the blind date with female protagonists is afraid that it only exists in film and television dramas.
Many people may be more impressed by the Princess of Xixia in "Tianlong Babu", Menggu, the King of the Southern Courtyard of the Liao Kingdom, the Shizi of the Dali Kingdom, the Prince of the Tubo Kingdom, and the big people with heads and faces on the rivers and lakes, in order to marry the Princess of the Western Xia, they even did not hesitate to fight.
However, the blind date Mr. Cui encountered did not know what kind of identity he had, so as to attract people to gather at the door of the house to queue up for a blind date during the epidemic prevention period. To say that the woman's conditions are particularly superior seems to be somewhat unreasonable. The fact that the woman's parents can propose that "the daughter should marry and drive" is enough to show that the woman's conditions should be very general, at least not a highly educated or wealthy family.
In fact, this point is also very easy to understand, or this matter also presents a social phenomenon.
People living in the city do not seem to have a particularly obvious feeling about the topic of imbalance between men and women, and even sometimes feel that there are more women than men, such as some schools, there are only a few buildings in the boys' dormitory, and the girls' dormitory is often a few buildings. Especially when eating, the boys in the whole restaurant are obviously a minority group at a glance. Even in various forms of blind dates, there are more women than men.
People living in the countryside are actually the most emotional, because the social viability of girls is more competitive than that of boys to some extent, even if they have no education and no financial resources, but as long as they have emotional intelligence and appearance, they can still mix with each other, and their families will eat and drink spicy. Therefore, more and more girls are not willing to live in the countryside and are crowded into the city. This has led to fewer and fewer young girls in rural areas and a marked imbalance in the ratio of men to women.
It can be said that the older leftover women in the city and the older leftover men in the countryside have become one of the most prominent marriage problems in society, and the phenomenon of cold at both ends can be said to be everywhere. The former longs to enter the giants and fly up the branches to become a phoenix, while the latter regards finding a wife as a milestone event. In short, both face the same problem - difficult! It's hard! Hard! Especially hard!
It can be seen that even if Mr. Cui knows that it may be fruitless, he still holds the attitude of trying it out, which is indeed a helpless move. Unfortunately, the woman's parents did not explain the "blind date conditions" clearly in advance, and also turned a "blind date" into a "job search conference", which made Mr. Cui confused and could not even enter the door.