On January 22, when a girl in Xinyang, Henan Province, returned home, she saw a "tragic" scene. Her room was disturbed by children brought by relatives, full of snacks and garbage, cosmetics and cosmetics, and the girl collapsed on the spot. The girl said that she was not at home at the time, and her mother could not see the 2 boys when she cooked, so with this scene, netizens saw it and called out that blood pressure soared.
Behind every bear child, there is a parent without quality, Lao Tzu did not raise the child and did not have a tutor, and the poor parents of the child were hateful. It doesn't matter if something is broken, don't break the character of yourself and your child, come up with an attitude of apology and compensation, and bear the consequences for your mistakes. There is a high probability that parents will not take responsibility, usually like to shirk responsibility, this kind of person on the road, even if they are fully responsible, they have to blame the other party for not looking at it.
Since you are uncomfortable in your heart, you really can't just count it out, your own children don't teach, then let others teach you a lesson. If something is damaged, it is best to discuss it, and if the other party is sincere and acceptable, then it is enough. If not, then do business, don't leave any affection, this kind of person has no need to communicate.
To put it more, whether it is what parents buy for their children or what children buy at their own expense, they are their personal belongings. Parents can not give people casually, someone borrowed to ask the child's opinion, others accidentally damaged, do not say that it is okay to forget it, let the child make up his own mind. Not only show respect, but also exercise its comprehensive ability, if the other party shirks responsibility, then do not interact, so that children can learn to see people, is also a very meaningful thing!
Parents usually do not educate children well, children go to other people's homes and can not see, damage other people's things, want to rely on the face of the past, this is the child's connivance and irresponsibility, the child will eventually leave the parents to the society to stand on the ground, there will be no one in the society like the parents to get used to him!
Bear children are ultimately parental education is not in place, for example, shouting in public, going to other people's homes to see what they like and wanting, love to interrupt other people's conversations... Every child has its own nature, but how to guide education requires the efforts of parents. The upbringing of children is the concentrated embodiment of the success of family education. Teach children to observe order, use polite language, and not be noisy in public
Parents also need to know how to guide and regulate their children's behavior, and how to let their children learn to be independent, which is far more important than academic performance.