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He was a very sunny boy, and wrote in his suicide note:
I hope that when I die, I will leave half of all my savings to my beloved grandparents, because they only have my two uncles, and although the money is not much, they can make up for themselves. The remaining half, I donated to the Shijiazhuang Orphanage to buy some beautiful clothes and good food for the children.
He was filial, kind, loving, these ordinary words, closely around him, before his death he left his greatest wish: may there be no more traffickers in this world.
He was abducted three months after birth and began to live in the second grade
For 15 years, he did not know his birthday, because he did not know what year and month he was born, and judging from the information he was looking for relatives, the time he was taken away should be around 2015.
3 months after his birth, his parents put Liu Xuezhou in someone else's house because of poor family conditions (parents' words), he was just a baby, and was taken to a strange family life.
Figure | Liu Xuezhou about 3 months
After he began to know the world, he only remembered that his parents were very good, loved him very much, bought him good food, bought him a lot of fun toys, but the weather was unpredictable, when he was 4 years old, his parents because of the fireworks business, an accident came, his father unfortunately died, his mother was seriously injured after rescue, and later unfortunately died.
The night before the accident, he wanted to go to his grandmother's house, but his parents did not let him be naughty, let him get out of the car, he grabbed his grandmother's electric car and did not let go, that night, he and his grandmother lived together, but did not expect that in the morning heard a huge sound.
Before her mother died, she called the child to her side with severe burns all over her body, and on her deathbed, she instructed: You should study hard, listen to your grandmother's words, and when your mother is well, you will buy me good food.
His mother's instructions he remembered very clearly, more than ten years have never forgotten, and after a few days, he became an orphan, in the eyes of children of the same age, he was a person without parents, no one would sympathize with him, bully him together, reject him, only 4 years old He endured the sneer that he should not bear.
In the second grade, his grandmother told him that he would learn to go to school on his own, so she sent him to a boarding school more than ten kilometers away.
He didn't dress well, he didn't eat well, he was always bullied by his classmates at school, without the protection of his parents, he seemed to run in the heavy rain every day, no one handed an umbrella, and no one comforted him. During more than 6 years of elementary school, he was forced to transfer schools five times.
He didn't know who to tell about everything he had suffered, only his own aunt would listen to him say two words, during that time, he regarded his aunt as his mother, and he would tell his aunt about everything, but the weather was unpredictable, and his aunt also left him, and at that time he knew that his grandmother was even lonelier than him.
In the sixth grade, he began to become extroverted, began to talk to his classmates, and the change of personality made his life usher in the sunshine, and many classmates were willing to make friends with him. But after spending a long time with children of the same age, he will be very envious when he sees so many classmates with parents.
If I had my own mom and dad, after junior high school, he overheard the old man in the village saying that there were many children in the village who had been abducted and sold, and he seemed to be too. He couldn't believe this fact, so he asked his grandparents hard, and they admitted that they had been "bought" and didn't know anything about what their biological parents looked like.
When he learned of all this, he was completely unconvinced that he had become depressed because of this incident, and why my biological parents would sell themselves to others. During that time, he had always believed that human traffickers had abducted him, and his own parents must have been trying to find him.
Finally, he registered his family search information online and collected blood samples through his uncle the policeman, but he did not hear from him for several months. He also knew that very few parents could be found now, and he saw the children who had successfully returned home crying with their parents in their arms, and he had imagined many times whether he would be so touched when he found his parents.
However, it took no effort at all, and just when he was about to give up, he learned by asking his grandmother that there was a vaccine book in the family, which had recorded his own life. Sure enough, after rummaging through the boxes and cabinets, he found that the book had his name written on it, his surname Ding, and the name of his biological father.
This news made him overjoyed, he looked up his father's name on the Internet, and sure enough, there was such a person in this area who matched his information very much, he dialed the phone through the mobile phone number above, because it was a tentative question, and the first sentence he said: Please ask if you have ever lost or sent a child in the past.
The other person said, "No, no, you made a mistake." "He was very sad to get such a response. Rest assured of everything in your hands, plan to accompany your grandmother more, your life may be like this.
However, after ten minutes, the other party called back, and the other party said, You are indeed my son, and my father was forced to do so. Hearing this sentence, Liu Xuezhou immediately cried, for him, he did not hope to find out what his parents could do, but wanted an answer, years of grievances and bitterness, at this moment has a special meaning.
Recognizing my biological parents, the waves are everywhere
After recognizing his parents, Liu Xuezhou learned some details of that year, according to his father, he was born in Gansu, because the family conditions were not good, he was fostered in a friend's house with good conditions, did not expect that the child was resold by human traffickers, they expressed great regret.
Seeing that his parents sincerely admitted their mistakes, Liu Xuezhou was sad and happy in his heart, and on the evening of December 15, 2021, dna comparison had come out to confirm the parental relationship between the two.
It was a great joy for an orphan to recognize his parents, and he thought that his next life would return to a beautiful state, but it backfired.
Liu Xuezhou, who has been admitted to a secondary school, works part-time at the school, and he very much wants to meet with his biological parents and tell him about his grievances over the years. His biological father told him that he would not let him run back and forth, so he personally came to see him, and that day was the happiest day of Liu Xuezhou's life, and his father gave him living expenses.
After a long time, his father contacted Liu Xuezhou by phone, because his father was busy with work and rarely spoke to Liu Xuezhou, but after a long time of communication with his father, the details of that year slowly surfaced, and his father told him that he was indeed forced to do so, but there were also subjective wishes.
This news shocked Liu Xuezhou, who could not believe that his parents would bear to abandon their children. However, when the police came to investigate, there were many abducted children that year, and there was not much evidence, so Liu Xuezhou posted a video on the Internet hoping to punish the traffickers.
Unexpectedly, this matter caused an uproar on the Internet, and many people said that he was brushing up on the sense of existence and hype. Liu Xuezhou, who just passed his 15th birthday, does not know how to face such a cyberattack.
However, a wave has not fallen, a wave has risen, it is really a mountain rain to come and the wind is full of buildings, on January 17, Liu Xuezhou poured out on the Internet that his biological parents blacked themselves. After this incident, public opinion became more intense.
The party said that Liu Xuezhou wanted his parents to buy a house for himself, and according to Liu Xuezhou himself, he wanted his parents to find a place for himself, whether it was to buy or rent, as long as he had a home. However, the other party said that Liu Xuezhou had come to "ask" for the house, so he blocked and did not contact.
In fact, more than ten years of upheaval, Liu Xuezhou wants to rent a house here in his biological parents, such a request is not very excessive, at that time his biological parents had told him that now they have a new family, Liu Xuezhou's sudden appearance, more or less have an impact on this family, so Liu Xuezhou is very understanding, never mentioned any requirements.
Figure | Liu Xuezhou and birth mother
Sadly, this incident caused a lot of network public opinion, and even personal attacks, which made a 15-year-old child simply unable to bear, from childhood was snubbed and ridiculed, he bought a lot of high-imitation clothes by his own part-time income, but was said to be a brand-name dress, saying that he was a "heart machine man", in the face of all kinds of pressure, Liu Xuezhou did not know how to be good.
On January 23, 2022, Liu Xuezhou wrote his last words, posted on the Internet late at night, this long article describes his 15 years of growth experience, through simple and plain language to record the right and wrong before and after recognizing his biological parents, at the end of your article, he revealed his idea of not wanting to "live in the world".
Netizens immediately called the police after seeing this article, and many people who cared about Liu Xuezhou immediately called him, but the phone has not been answered.
In the early hours of the morning, bad news came. A 15-year-old teenage boy turned into a butterfly and disappeared.
Figure | Liu Xuezhou's previous post
People who care about Liu Xuezhou said: I didn't expect it
Liu Xuezhou said in the article that he learned in a conversation with his biological father that because his biological grandfather's family wanted the dowry money, the biological father could not sell him and used the money as a dowry. This matter has not been confirmed so far, but for Liu Xuezhou, this blow is huge.
Liu Xuezhou recorded his life situation over the years on Weibo, he said that he was invited by his birth mother, at his brother's 12th birthday party, his birth mother also hugged him, and also left a group photo, and later lived in his birth mother's house for two days, but at that time, although Liu Xuezhou was very happy, but this strange environment, he was very confused.
Liu Xuezhou has a lot of people on Weibo who care about him, and he himself, as an abducted child, he has also liked Lu Dawson many times, and also liked Lu Dawson's suicide note, in the face of this tragedy, many caring people who care about Liu Xuezhou do not understand, and do not know how to face it.
I remembered the wish expressed by Liu Xuezhou in his suicide note, hoping to severely crack down on human traffickers, and wishing that there would be no abduction in the world and that more people would cry. Liu Xuezhou has posted his life photos many times on Weibo, looking very sunny, in the caption he successively used English letters to accompany the text, careful netizens found that these letters combined together is an English word rebirth.
And what Liu Xuezhou was thinking before his death, no one knows, the right and wrong on the Internet is still continuing, he just chose to be quiet.
I think of a poem by Tian Wei: If there has never been me in this world, then what regrets and sorrows. Life is the twists and turns of stumbling, and death is the star of tranquility. To the dust, to the rain and dew, there is no longer me in this world, but everywhere is me.
Liu Xuezhou's suicide note has only four words: born light, and also pure. It is hard to imagine how much bitterness and helplessness these four words include, and it is difficult to imagine that this kind of age-transcendent perception of life comes from a 15-year-old teenager.
Liu Xuezhou said that from childhood to adulthood, he has only had two birthdays, once at home, once in the same school, the previous birthday has always been September 28, and later through his biological parents to know that his real date of birth is April 12 of the lunar calendar.
Liu Xuezhou wrote in his suicide note: If I have a chance next year, I still think about my birthday on September 28.
Reference: Upstream News "Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, committed suicide: after breaking with his biological parents, he was attacked by the Internet, and complained that he was molested and depressed when he was young"
Wikipedia: Liu Xuezhou