Just a few years ago, a news about the contradiction between doctors and patients appeared in people's field of vision.
In 2007, an elderly man with a disease was sent to the hospital for medical treatment, and although the doctor said that the doctor had done his best to rescue the elderly, the old man died forever because of his serious condition.
What everyone did not expect was that just after the old man's death, several of her children under her knees not only did not handle the aftermath for her at the first time and let her burrow for safety, but also left the old man's body in the morgue of the hospital and refused to take it away.
The old man's family claimed that the old man's death was all the fault of the hospital, and if the hospital did not pay them a hundred million yuan, they would not take the old man's body away.
The matter dragged on for ten years, until ten years later, the hospital once again sued the old man's children in court, and the old man's body was properly resolved.
What exactly did the old man die for? Why is her son reluctant to take the old man's body and insist on letting the hospital lose money?
Sudden illness admitted to the hospital
In the past, when people mentioned doctors, they would think of angels dressed in white, and indeed, doctors were great men who saved patients from illness. However, in recent years, many news of discordant doctor-patient relations have frequently broken out in society.
The emergence of these news has also directly caused distrust and incomprehension between doctors and patients.
According to the 2004 "Doctor-Patient Relationship Survey Report" of the Chinese Medical Doctor Association, not only 3/4 of doctors believe that their legitimate rights and interests cannot be protected, but also more than 60% of doctors believe that the current professional environment of doctors is poor.
The increasingly tense doctor-patient relationship has not only impacted the medical service market, but also directly caused the loss of medical staff, according to media surveys, today, more than half of the medical staff are reluctant to let their children re-apply for medical schools.
The reason for this situation is naturally not empty.
Whenever there is a doctor-patient conflict, many people will preconceived that it is caused by the inaction of the hospital, but after we read the following news, it is not difficult to see the difficulties of the doctor.
Time back to 2007, there was an old man at home and family chat, suddenly felt a dizziness, the original family did not care too much, originally thought that the old man was old, rest and rest is good, but the old man sat on the sofa for a long time, the symptoms of dizziness is still not getting better.
Just when the old man was about to stand up to drink a cup of water, she suddenly saw a black eye, fell down, watched her mother fall, and the children around her were impatient, and quickly helped her mother up and sent her to the hospital.
After sending his mother to the hospital, Song quickly called several of his brothers and sisters, and after some rescue, the doctor told Song and others that their mother had a sudden cerebral infarction and was now out of danger of life.
Because the old man's condition was more serious, the doctor said that they should be psychologically prepared, and the old man would be hospitalized next.
When several children heard that their mother had such an illness, their faces changed, and they quickly begged the doctor to save their mother.
In this way, the old man was left in the hospital, because several children in the family are very busy, so everyone was originally planning to ask for a nurse, but in order to treat the old man, several children have spent a lot of money, so after some discussion, several people finally made the decision to take turns to take care of the elderly.
Treating cerebral infarction is a lengthy process, at the beginning, several children are still doing their best, they take care of the elderly's living, cook for the elderly, but as this matter drags on longer and longer, several children gradually lose patience.
The mother looked at the way the children in the family ran for themselves every day, and her heart was also very uncomfortable, but the disease had already been cured, and the old man did not know how to be good.
That day, when it was Song's turn to take care of the elderly, an accident occurred.
After entering the door, Song Mou as always and the old man nagged about the family, when talking about the condition, the old man suddenly said to Song Mou, she felt that her legs were not very comfortable, a little swollen and painful, Song Mou quickly opened the quilt to check the situation of his mother's legs, this look does not matter, he found that his mother's legs were swollen up.
After discovering this matter, Song Quickly found the doctor, asked him the reason, the doctor checked it, and said to Song: "You can rest assured, this is all normal, you find a hot towel, just apply it." ”
Song Mou agreed with a full mouth, and after putting his heart at ease, he found a hot towel and put it on his mother's leg, but after a while, the towel should be changed.
After not changing several times, Song Mou felt impatient, at this time, he suddenly saw the hot water bottle that had been placed on his mother's bed. He thought about it and felt that the hot water bottle had been kept warm for a long time, so he went outside and filled the hot water bottle with boiling hot water, and then placed it directly on his mother's swollen leg.
As soon as she put it on, my mother felt that something was not quite right and asked, "Is that really what the doctor explained?" Doesn't this burn the legs? ”
Song replied impatiently: "You don't care, just say it." ”
But the hot water bottle on the leg is too hot, the mother can't stand it, quickly let Song take the hot water bottle away, but at that time Song was playing with the mobile phone, no time to take care of the mother, he said vaguely: "It is normal to be hot, you endure, endure it." ”
But her mother's leg was so sore that she struggled to get the hot water bottle off her body, but because she was delivering water, she couldn't remove it herself.
Later, she even begged for the child, at this time, Song Mou stood up and reached out to take the hot water bottle away.
It didn't matter, and that's when he realized something was wrong, and his mother's leg was not only scalded, but also a small blister.
A blister causes a dispute
When he saw his mother's legs bubbling, he realized his stupidity, and the hot water he had just received, let alone a patient, even if it was placed on a normal person, it would definitely cause problems.
Looking at his mother sweating in pain, he was worried that several brothers and sisters would blame themselves for not taking good care of their mother, and subconsciously shirked their responsibilities and said: "Mom, don't blame me, it's not that I have to give you a compress, it's the doctor who told me to take a hot water bottle to put it on you, you wait, I'll go to the doctor now to see." ”
After saying that, he quickly ran out and brought the doctor back, and when he returned, the doctor did a check and said, "It's okay, you can rest assured, the bubbles on your mother's legs are scalded by hot water, there is no big problem." ”
When asked by the doctor, the mother is lying on the bed so well, how can it suddenly be scalded, Song Mou also panicked, he said: "Obviously you told me, take the hot water bottle to my mother, I did as you said, now there is a bubble, do you come to ask me?" ”
As soon as the doctor listened, he knew what was going on, and returned: "What I just explained to you is that you let you use hot water to make hot compresses for patients, and you directly take a hot water bottle and put it on it. ”
The doctor said, while finding disinfection tools, to the mother to treat the wound, originally this matter is Song Mou's own fault, Song Mou should be finished, but what the doctor did not expect is that Song Mou actually made a more excessive move.
When several relatives in the family learned of this matter, they rushed to the hospital to visit the elderly for the first time, and Song was worried that several relatives learned that they did not take good care of the elderly, so they shirked all the responsibility to the doctor, who said that it was because the doctor mishandled that blisters appeared on the old man.
Hearing the news, the relatives in the family suddenly caught fire, at that time and the attending doctor in the hospital quarreled, in the face of this family of people stirring up the behavior, the hospital is naturally very headache, but in order to make the family's mood stable, but also in order not to affect the normal treatment of other patients, the hospital also made concessions, saying that it is willing to suspend the collection of medical expenses for the elderly.
Song Mou looked at the doctor who comforted them and thought to himself, if he insisted that this matter was the responsibility of the hospital, then would he not have to pay his mother? After this incident, Song Mou has been pestering with the hospital and asking them to lose money, but this time, his mother also died forever because of illness.
What is even more tragic is that just after the death of Song's mother, Song's father also died in the hospital due to a sudden illness.
After the death of his parents, Song Not only did not repent, but quickly handled the aftermath for them and let them get rest, but also insisted that the reason why his mother would die was because of the blister that was originally burned.
Song Mou's words are really ridiculous to the extreme, not to mention that the old man originally died normally, and the way they used to plant stolen hospitals is also very ridiculous, seeing that the doctors are not willing to lose money, the Song family played the previous set and began to make trouble in the hospital.
The hospital did not pay attention, but appealed to the relevant departments, asking experts to examine the elderly to see if it was the responsibility of the hospital.
As soon as they heard the doctor say this, several children were not happy, and the children who had been indifferent to the remains of the elderly before, at this time, they remembered to care about the remains of the elderly, saying that the elderly had died and should let them get rest, so they refused to be identified.
As a family member of the elderly, several children are reluctant to do identification, and doctors naturally cannot force them, so this matter has been delayed, in order to deal with this matter as soon as possible, the hospital has also specifically found the Health Bureau, expecting the Health Bureau to mediate from it.
However, after conducting an investigation, the local health bureau said that there was no medical accident in this case and asked the hospital to deal with the doctor-patient conflict as soon as possible.
Refusal to enter the soil for selfish desires
As we all know, since ancient times, Chinese is very particular about the roots of the fallen leaves, into the soil for safety, the hospital has also found the family many times, coordination said: "No matter what, or should let the old man into the soil as soon as possible is better." ”
But this group of people who only want money, actually abandoned their parents, used their corpses as chips, and continued to threaten the hospital, so that the hospital would pay them 200,000 yuan.
The hospital naturally will not lose them this money, so this matter was so delayed, as the matter further fermented, Song Mou also became more and more excessive, and later, he actually opened his mouth and said that he wanted the hospital to compensate him 1 million.
The doctor here is not willing to lose money, and Song mou is not willing to take away the remains of his parents, so the remains of the old man are placed in the morgue.
It was not until 2018 that the hospital took the Song family to court with a complaint, saying that they threatened the hospital for no reason and asked them to pay the cost of the elderly being placed in the morgue for ten years.
Soon after, the court made a judgment report, expressed support for the court's appeal, it is reasonable to say that the court has already made a judgment on this matter, Song should also stop the point, let the old man into the ground for safety, but Song actually openly abandoned the judgment and ignored it, and made a fuss.
In the follow-up trial process, Song even shouted at the case-handling personnel, saying that there was no room for negotiation on this matter, that he had fought a lawsuit in the court, and that the money had to be compensated, and this time, Song even shouted out that the hospital wanted to compensate him for a high price of 100 million.
Just when Song was clamoring, the eldest brother of the Song family also protested against the court's judgment, and because Song's attitude was extremely bad, the court imposed judicial detention on Song for 15 days according to regulations.
After being detained by the judiciary, Song finally quieted down and talked about the lawsuit with the case-handling staff, and the person handling the case asked him: "Since you did not obey the verdict, why didn't you appeal?" ”
He said that because his previous minimum guarantee had been cancelled and he now had no money, he had no way to hire a lawyer, and when it came to the specific amount of compensation, he said that he wanted a million.
The case-handling staff said to him in a kind voice: "You want 1 million for no reason, the hospital will certainly not compensate you, how is the 1 million in your mouth calculated?" ”
Song mou said that when his mother was hospitalized, she spent 100,000 yuan in the hospital, and the remaining 900,000 yuan was the mental loss fee that the hospital should pay him in these years.
Talking about this step, the case-handling personnel in Chongming City, Shanghai, also know in their hearts that Song Mou is going to extort money, and they know that it is difficult for the hospital to reach an agreement with Song Mou, but according to the regulations, if you want to take away the remains parked in the hospital, you must get the signature of the family.
In the end, they set their sights on several other children of the Song family, and after reaching an agreement with them, several people finally took the old man's body back, considering the family's family situation, the hospital did not ask the family for ten years of parking fees.
During these days in prison, the judicial personnel also conducted legal education for Song, and after he was released, Song did not mention the appeal again.
For the sake of their own selfish desires, the Song family could even ignore their parents.
It is precisely because of these people that the current doctor-patient contradiction will be so sharp, and it is only hoped that with the improvement of the medical system and the improvement of relevant laws and regulations in the future, the doctor-patient relationship can be truly improved, and doctors and patients can also drive away the common enemy - disease.