Text/Zhang Chenxi
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Living in this world, we are like a lonely boat adrift on the vast sea, often shaken by the wind and waves, and shrouded in fog.
Everybody is looking for that harbor where they can dock.
However, the true harbor is not something that others can give, but it comes from our inner understanding.
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On the road of life, we will always meet all kinds of people.
Some are kind, some are mean, some are sincere, and some are hypocritical. Some make us laugh, some make us cry.
In order to maintain the apparent harmony, we often tolerate and compromise again and again.
However, is such a life really happy?
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As the old saying goes, "Be forgiving and forgiving." ”
Once, we were convinced.
We always think that tolerance and tolerance for others are virtues, respect and care for others.
As a result, we retreat without a bottom line and make compromises, thinking that in this way we can gain the understanding and gratitude of others.
However, as we get older, we gradually realize that this is not the case.
Some people are accustomed to seeing your kindness as weakness and your forbearance as incompetence.
They trample on your dignity and take without hesitation, but never think of giving.
It turns out that some people and some things, if they are repeatedly tolerated, will only make them more unscrupulous.
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Only when people live and understand can they see the true face of the world and understand the complexity and contradictions of human nature.
We will understand that not everyone is worthy of our habits, and not all efforts can be rewarded accordingly.
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When people understand it, they know that there is only a thin line between tolerance and connivance.
Instead of being wronged in someone else's world, it is better to be free in your own world.
We don't need to lose ourselves in order to cater to others, but we should learn to protect ourselves and learn to refuse.
Because only when we dare to say no, can we win the respect of others.
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When people live and understand, they know that it is better to rely on heaven and earth than on themselves.
We should learn to be independent and learn to be strong.
Because, only when we are strong enough, can we be fearless of wind and rain and challenges.
When people live and understand, they will not get used to anyone.
In life, you must first be worthy of yourself in order to be worthy of others.
We will live our true selves and be brave enough to pursue our dreams.
Because, this is what life should be like most.
Life is not an endless compromise and concession, but a process of continuous self-pursuit and self-realization.
In this process, we must learn to stick to our bottom line and cherish our own value.
Only in this way can we live our true selves and have our own happiness and joy.
Life is short, and there is no need to compromise in order to cater to others.
Stop punishing yourself for the faults of others, and stop swallowing your anger for the vexatious actions of others.
It's about following your heart and living your life to the fullest.
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