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It is undeniable that in the traditional concept of Chinese, men are the head of the family, and their status is much higher than that of women, so the concept of son preference has been implanted in people's hearts for many years.
However, with the development of the times, many people's ideological concepts have also changed.
Especially in today's more stressful life, more and more young people not only abandon the old concept of son preference, but also begin to emphasize women over men, inheriting the status of men and women for thousands of years, and also began to undergo a major reversal in the eyes of their parents after the 90s.
If you often brush videos, it is not difficult to see such news.
A father originally thought that his daughter-in-law gave birth to a pair of twin sons, but it turned out that it was two little girls, and the father immediately danced happily at the door of the delivery room.
The reason is actually not difficult to understand, the high housing prices and education expenditures have made young parents hesitate in raising children, suddenly there are two more sons, as the top pillar of the family, the pressure on the father can not be ignored.
In Gansu, the father thought that his wife gave birth to a boy, but after learning that the baby was a daughter, he was surprised and surprised, and began to kiss his daughter's face.
This scene amused many netizens, and the father was also ridiculed as a natural daughter slave.
It is a good thing that parents love their daughters, which also reflects the progress of society and the transformation of feudal thinking.
But I don't know when the preference for sons has become more than men, the birth of boys and girls has become the same theory of guilt for having sons, and even many parents with children and daughters have begun to upload videos that treat their children differently, in order to achieve the purpose of pleasing the audience.
The phenomenon of "favoring daughters over men" in parents has risen, and how absurd is the theory of guilt in having children?
Some netizens posted that their homework tutoring their two sons was very broken, and they thought they could get some sympathy and comfort in the comment area, but the result was that the message made her scalp tingle:
"Don't collapse, the days of collapse for having two sons are still ahead..."
"Tutoring homework is nothing, two suites plus two daughters-in-law, think about it is exciting!"
"Sympathize with you, one son is enough to choke, two can really die, in the future when the mother-in-law will be more annoying, now having a son is the original sin." 」
Once watched a video online.
A young couple especially wanted to have both children after giving birth to a son, fortunately, two years later they finally ushered in a daughter, the father became a daughter slave, loved the daughter in every way, and the 2-year-old son was naturally ignored.
At night, when the father puts his daughter in his arms and very patiently slaps his daughter's back to coax her to sleep, while the son is left to the side, at this time the son also learns to slap himself with his small hands like a father, trying to coax himself to sleep.
Many people are amused by this scene, but in the message area, some netizens answered: Forgive me for not being able to laugh, is this obvious preference for women worth showing off? Have parents ever wondered what kind of harm their actions would cause to their sons?
On the Internet, a picture of a "happy family" has been widely circulated, and through the hierarchical division, we can see that in the hearts of many people, the status of daughters has far exceeded that of sons.
In the old society, it was sinful for a woman not to have a son, but in the new era, giving birth to a son has become the original sin, which is really shocking.
Boys and girls are the same, and the parents' "preference for daughters over boys" mentality is dangerous
As we all know, son preference is a feudal idea, with the development of society and the improvement of women's status, this feudal idea is being abandoned by young people, but in its place is another very unfair phenomenon, that is, to promote high girls and step on boys.
For contemporary parents, raising children is important to education, and both boys and girls should enjoy equal family education and schooling.
In family education, parents of families with many children should give equal love to boys and girls, and in one-child families, regardless of boys and girls, parents should dilute the gender value of their children and devote more energy to their children's education.
After all, only if the child's education is successful, the parents will enjoy the old age in peace.
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