There are many people who care about world peace and are always worried about the beautiful country on the other side of the world, but an American in Chengdu has made many people put their hearts at ease. Let them feel that the world is the same.
On January 17, a Chinese mother in Chengdu uploaded a video, her husband is an American, tutoring her son to write Chinese characters, angry to the point of collapse, netizens laughed and commented: You see what it is like to force the American people!
The man in the video taught the child for a long time, angry to the point of incoherence, according to the mother, completely out of control, and then indignant and bizarre.
This proves that regardless of nationality or race, there is no know-how in tutoring homework, children do not want to write for you, really do not write to you, whether you are a bully or scum, Chinese or American, children all over the world are the same.
I think this American father must have learned well Chinese, so when he saw his child write a few Chinese characters for 3 hours, he was speechless, feeling so simple, why didn't his son learn it?
In fact, no matter what, it is the same in the tutoring homework, and can only be patient, patient and patient.
The reasons why children don't want to write homework are mainly the following situations.
1, children do not like to learn
For children who love to learn, parents do not need to say too much, or give a little reward, children can feel the pressure of the teacher, take out the homework to complete the homework first, in this winter vacation, it is also a good habit to write their own winter vacation homework every day.
For children who do not like to learn, or even hate learning, doing homework is equivalent to a kind of torture, so they can drag on the drag, grind on the grind, and consume until the parents can't survive and succeed.
2. Caused by parental pressure
Every parent wants their children to be outstanding and have a comfortable life in the future, so they will more or less expect their children and compare them with others. However, whether the child will have a future appearance is not something that parents expect to achieve, and parents also need to educate and cultivate according to the actual situation of their children.
Some parents have high expectations for their children, and they always compare their children's grades and learning attitudes with other classmates every day, hoping to stimulate their children's enthusiasm for learning, but the reality is very cruel, and some children have a lack of ability to withstand pressure, and finally subconsciously avoid writing homework.
3. The child is in a bad mood
This reason is easy to understand, because adults will often be in a bad mood, children's mood is not good, Biaoxin in life is not willing to learn and write homework, which requires parents to understand and enlighten.
4, children are lazy and do not want to write
Whether it is an adult or a child, they all like to enjoy, and no one is a naturally diligent person, who is unwilling to work and likes to be lazy. But self-disciplined people know what they should do when. If the child is not self-disciplined enough and holds the idea of pleasure, then the tiring work of writing homework is of course not willing to do.
Is there a good way to not write homework? Here are a few ways you can try.
1, give children a certain amount of free space
Children are actually the most annoying parents staring at their homework, always staying by their side, all kinds of uncomfortable. And some parents find that the child wrote wrong, will not be able to help but correct, in fact, at this time to calm the mind, after he finished writing and then tell him that it is better.
2. Rewards and penalties are clear
Parents can help their children to do a good job of time planning, what time to do something, and then set up rewards and punishments, rewards for rewards, criticism of criticism, so that children can clearly recognize the disadvantages of not writing homework, and the value of writing homework. In fact, this is the most important method, and it is also the best way to go beyond violence and cold violence.
2. Treat people separately to see if they can adapt to unconventional education methods
As this netizen said, some children do need special treatment, non-contact education does not work, you can consider taking appropriate measures, as to whether it is effective or depends on their children, but this way can only be used occasionally, can not be normalized, so that the gain is not worth the loss.
Have you ever had a situation where your child doesn't write homework?
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