The state vigorously promoted the "three-child policy", and all regions responded positively, and for a time roads and communities hung eye-catching banners. Although the publicity is in place, most parents, especially young people, are still reluctant to give birth and dare not give birth.
The cost of raising a child is too large, and the burden on the parents is also much heavier. Just to say that the cost of education is not small, every parent hopes that their children can get ahead in the future, so at a very young age, they enrolled their children in various extracurricular cram classes.
The beautiful name is to cultivate interests and remedial lessons, such behavior will only make children, from childhood, busy, lose the childhood time of happy games. For this situation, parents are also helpless, because not tutoring means being left behind by others.
Now the "double reduction" and a series of system reforms, so that the burden on the parents is slightly easier, but having one more child means that parents will have to pay double the energy, for the topic of having three children, most parents are still rejected.
The old man in the family urged the third child, saying that it was just a matter of more than one pair of chopsticks? After reading the kindergarten payment list, I didn't say a word
Giving birth to three children is not something that can be done with a single finger, let alone a lot of chopsticks on the dinner table at home, as many people of the older generation say. Parents not only have to bear all kinds of expenses, but also take time out of their busy working life to accompany their children to grow.
Every time a child is raised as an adult, the process is bound to be accompanied by countless burdens, pressures and expenses. In the case of education, from the beginning of the child's kindergarten, this fee has been spent continuously, like flowing water.
Kindergartens are divided into public and private, the cost of public kindergartens is very reasonable, most families can afford it, but public kindergartens are not able to enter if they want to, so many parents can only send students to private kindergartens.
Compared with public kindergartens, the biggest feature of private kindergartens is that they have a good environment and are close to home, but the cost is high. Many families can't afford it. However, in some places, if you don't go to kindergarten, you can't successfully enroll in primary school, so parents can only grit their teeth and insist on providing for their children to enter private kindergartens.
A private kindergarten, the cost of one semester added together, often tens of thousands of dollars, three years of kindergarten, 6 semesters down, the cost may reach a staggering hundreds of thousands. This is only the most rudimentary cost.
Behind the kindergarten, there are elementary schools, junior high schools, high schools, even if it is a public school that carries out compulsory education, there will still be book fees, food expenses, etc., if you go to a private school, the cost is even greater.
Now the state has stopped making up classes, but for some parents, the cost of education is still high and they cannot afford it. Now it's not like before, having a child is as long as you make sure you live.
Now raising children, we all hope that children can develop morally, intellectually and physically, not just with an extra pair of chopsticks. Each stage of a student's growth is bound to cost parents a lot of money and energy.
Even if parents "have a heart", in such a reality, they have to bow their heads. Everyone hopes that they can have both children and children, and the family is lively, but in such a social environment, the pressure of life and the burden of education weigh on parents.
For the response to the "three-child" policy, parents can only seek truth from facts and do what they can. Is it any wonder that in the face of the birth of the elderly, parents will say, "Do you dare to have three children in this way"?
The concept of only "born" and not "raised" is outdated, and parents should pay more attention to education
The process of raising a child is long, and the education of a child should be continuous. Parents should pay attention to the details of daily life, but also to set a good example for their children to help him establish the correct three views.
Whether it is an only child, or a second child and a third child, the burden on the parents is also not light, especially if there are several children in the family, parents should try to be fair, and cannot favor one party because of their young age or good grades.
This will lead to the arrogance of the favored party, and it is likely to become an irresponsible person when it grows up, while the party that is not favored may form an indifferent or even extreme personality to family affection in a long period of neglect and suppression. This is not conducive to the growth of children.
Nowadays, parents are busy with work, and it is becoming more and more difficult to decide whether to focus on the education of their children or on work. No matter how you choose, there are pros and cons, which depends on which aspects parents pay more attention to.
But in any case, a family environment is extremely important and even decisive for the growth of children. Parents should try to balance the energy placed in the family and work, although it is hard, but for the sake of their children's learning and growth, parents should bear the heavy burden and continue to move forward.
I would like to say to the students:
Many college students do not want to have children, or even want to get married, in large part because of the increasing pressure to survive and the pressure of education. After all, they know that education plays an important role in a person, and they must not be sloppy. Therefore, they are even more reluctant to give birth and dare not give birth. If the real problem can be solved, the three-child problem will naturally be solved.
What do you think the pressure on parents after having a child comes from?
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