In the world of feelings, every woman wants to be the only one in the heart of the lover. However, in the face of love, women are also the most prone to gain and loss. Because women's dependence on feelings is far higher than that of men.
Once they fall in love with someone, they want to live a happy life without abandoning it for the rest of their lives.
But sometimes, not the person you fall in love with will love you as well. Some men swear in front of you, and there are endless sweet words, but as soon as they turn around, the same words are said to other women.
Therefore, women who take love too seriously are often the most insecure and do not know very well whether the other party is worth a lifetime.
In fact, judging a man's feelings is not so complicated, when he identifies you, he will take the initiative to send these "things".
01 Companionship
It is said that companionship is the longest confession of affection. A person who says he loves you, but can't find time to spend with you in any way, then the weight of this love is also questionable.
Because no matter how busy you are, you always have to eat and rest, time is like water in a sponge, and there is always a squeeze. If you're really distracted, it doesn't take much effort to make a phone call or video for a few minutes.
The so-called busy person who has no time at all, to put it bluntly, is just making excuses, and you are not important in his heart.
Love is a matter of two people, not one side is always accommodating to the other. He can't accompany you, but you have to take the initiative to divide time to him, such feelings, after all, it is difficult to go farther and longer.
After all, this life is long, and there is a lot of time to accompany each other and face each other. Can't give you company, but put everything on you, do you believe he can give you true love?
People who love you, no matter how busy they are, will spend time with you.
Because he will give you full security, will not leave you alone in the relationship, let you feel his reliability.
He understands that feelings can be further developed in exchanges and communication, so as to enhance mutual understanding and cultivate trust and dependence on each other.
The lack of companionship in love often makes people feel that they are obviously two people, but they are more lonely than when they are alone.
He's not with you when you need companionship; he doesn't show up when you want to rely on him; he doesn't show up when you need comfort, but you can't find him anyway; you're lonely and helpless, and he pretends not to see.
This way for your people, if you are reluctantly together, it is doomed that your feelings will be full of disappointment and pain.
02 Door key
I saw a girl asking, "He just gave me a door key, what does that mean?" ”
When a man voluntarily hands over the door key to the girl, her position in his heart is usually not ordinary.
For a house contains all that a man has, his state of life and his privacy, his secrets. He is willing to be unguarded from you and let you walk in without any obstacles, and he has decided that you are the person he wants.
Women must understand that what a man gives is not just a key, but his love and his heart. He wants you to be in his life at all times, to be able to see you at any time.
Don't underestimate the distance of this door, people who don't love you will not easily let you break into his world, after all, there is something behind that door that you don't want to know, it will always be his secret.
In the heart of the man who loves you, everything about him is open to you and welcomes you into his world.
03 Bank cards
It is said that where a man's money is spent, his heart is there.
Although men who are willing to spend money for you may not all really love you. But the man who can hand over the bank card to you, he has already determined in his heart that you are the most important person in his life.
He is willing to spend the money he earns on the people he loves, and he wants her to dispose of his income and plan for their lives.
In "Why Sheng Zhen Mo", on the first day of marriage, He Yichen told Zhao Mosheng the bank card and password, if it was not because he loved her deeply, why did he make this move when the misunderstanding between the two had not been solved.
After all, although Zhao Mosheng's income was not as good as his, he would not live without money. He regarded her as the most important person in his life and was willing to trust her unconditionally, even if there was still a gap between the two at that time.
Money is often the best touchstone for feelings.
No matter how much a man says "I love you", but when spending money for you, he is calculating and weighing all kinds of trade-offs, then your love for you is also measured.
The man who loves you may not have enough money for you to spend recklessly, but he will give you the greatest sincerity and give you the greatest decency within the scope of his ability.
There are often some lovers in life who love sincerely, but they fall apart when talking about marriage. Obviously, he has the ability to pay the woman's reasonable request, but he repeatedly avoids it, comparing the conditions proposed by the woman with several years of love.
Such feelings, or a good reflection, and then make a decision on whether to be together for a long time.
Shakespeare said that true love cannot be expressed in words, and that deeds are the best illustration of faithfulness.
A man who loves you, maybe he doesn't say too many sweet words, and even a little clumsy in expressing feelings, but his actions represent his heart.
He is willing to let you feel his heart in love, and will not easily make you question your feelings. He gives you enough security to do what you can for as long as you can bear.
He recognizes you, so he will not hide everything from you, but will guide you to understand His world little by little. He will prepare you for the future and will deliver everything he has to you.
Some people say that the phone should be made to the person who will be answered as soon as it is called, the message should be sent to the person who will return after a look, the feelings should be left to the person who will not leave, and the gentleness should be left to the person who deserves it.
If the man you love can give you these "things" without reservation, please believe that he must be sincerely in love with you.
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