Text: Demon Wolf Voice: Doraemon
Many female friends say that after getting married, they become less happy than when they were single before marriage.
Marriage is a big event in life, some people get married, deeply immersed in the life of chai rice oil and salt, since then romance and themselves have no relationship, and even ambiguity has become less and less.
When you get married, love seems to change.
Is this the case with all marriages?
Of course not, at least many people still enjoy romance and happiness after marriage, but many people do not understand that they are unhappy, not because of marriage, but because someone has met PUA in marriage.
Lily and her husband met in high school, but they didn't formalize a relationship until after college.
Just when the two people were not young, they were about to turn thirty, and under Lily's active confession, the two people got married.
Married, had babies, had babies, and got a low-paying job at home, Lily, like most married women, lived a dull life.
However, Lily has never understood why after having a husband and children, she has become more and more depressed.
After more than two years of marriage, she has not celebrated any festivals, nor has she eaten outside alone, nor has she even gone to the cinema, and her husband has given her the following statement: They are all married, don't care about those who are vain.
However, the husband always praises other people's wives in front of her, who has a daughter-in-law who can earn money, or how rich the mother's family is.
Every time she heard such words, Lily felt that she seemed to be quite bad, not making money, not capable, and would only become a burden for her husband.
But isn't it to better take care of the family as he is now?
However, she did not realize at this moment that she had been PUA, puA by her favorite husband.
When a man, who will only dislike you for all kinds of bad things, begins to praise other women in front of you how good they are, and even ignores your feelings, and no longer creates any romance and surprises for you, how much love for you can he leave?
In fact, love is not something that can be proved by two marriage certificates.
Marriage is also not a tool to forcibly bind two people together.
A good marriage is not a graveyard of love, but a fortress of happiness.
If a person really loves you, whether before or after marriage, he will spoil you to the end.
If a person doesn't love you so much, marriage is just another burden in your life.
A happy marriage can make you happy and make you a confident woman.
And all your grievances and complaints are just because this marriage is not your best destination.
Even the person you love the most is in PUA, who else can you rely on?
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