I heard about this great work when I was in school. It wasn't until this winter break that I had the privilege of borrowing a friend's book to read. The novel is written deeply and feels oppressive. But I have to admit that it is a wonderful work, and it is also very realistic. After reading it twice, write your own feelings. Sometimes I have to believe that fate has a sense of belonging.
1. Death is not the antithesis of life, but eternal existence as part of life.
Kizuki and Naoko are two pairs of no guesses. Without warning, without leaving a suicide note, without any motive, Kizuki committed suicide on a calm night. In the days to come, it seems that there is no Kizuki, but Naoko's heart cannot be released after all. He first took a break from school to go to a nursing home, and then he also committed suicide. It was as if two people who were born to be together could not survive without either. But in fact, they may be so familiar with each other that they can no longer be familiar, and their habits can no longer be changed. A little off the beaten track of what love is supposed to have.
2. Some people are really talented, and many people work hard to reach it in their lifetime.
Nagasawa is a classmate of Watanabe's dorm building. He was handsome, well-off, cheerful and talented. Constantly taking friends in and out of bars, playing with beautiful girls, a playboy style. But there is a clear distinction between effort and labor. He has his own career plan and his own direction of effort. He took the foreign civil service recruitment examination and was successful. If you want to be sent abroad, you learn Spanish, English, German, French, and Italian in advance. This is the result of his efforts after life planning. Ordinary people do not have such a vision, can not plan such a life, naturally will not learn so many necessary skills. What it takes is vision, knowledge, effort, talent. I have seen too much in order to test for civil servants, and go all out, but still no results. I'm afraid that's fate. Sometimes it's not okay to believe it. But after the effort, don't regret it, it's better to try it than to say you want to take regret medicine afterwards. So you still have to try, try harder. Maximize your energy.
3. Growth is a process of self-healing.
Watanabe is Kizuki, Naoko's best friend. After Kizuki committed suicide, he was bent on guarding Naoko, wanting to love her as a lover and protect her thoroughly. However, Naoko could not get out of the shadow of Kizuki's death. Step by step, she forced herself onto the path of suicide. Watanabe was overwhelmed and went on vacation to heal his wounds. Along the way, all the way through, and finally on the way to growth. What has been experienced has become a memory, happy, sad, all unforgettable. What can be released is written in the diary, and what cannot be put down becomes a potential threat to the disease. We should grow all the way and heal all the way. Experience all the way, forget all the way, so that it can be a healthy and optimistic path to life.
4. As for Reiko and Midoriko, the paths of life are different, stick to their own direction, and bravely face the challenges they should have.
Walking at the end, I've seen too many partings. Maybe the parting is for a new reunion. Around the corner of the road, there are no more than blessings or blessings to friends. To get to the road is to go by oneself, and people are to get acquainted with themselves. Those who shake hands and say goodbye are those who are away from others in front of them, and there are also the glorious or bleak days of the past. Human fireworks, although warmer!