Many girls in love will fall into such a problem:
"Does he really love me?"
There are even many girls who frequently ask boys this question.
But silly girl, love or not, by asking can not ask.
After all, anyone who says 'I love you' will say it, but whether his words are true or false still needs to be learned by yourself.
We have long passed the age of hearing love, love or not, can not rely on a mouth.
The man who has done the following things for you is the one who really loves you.
Makes you feel happy
Haruki Murakami said:
"The criterion for judging whether something is necessary is whether you feel happy when you do something."
I think the same applies to love.
If a person, he always brings you painful and unhappy experiences,
It is obvious that his love for you is very shallow and not deep in the heart.
Feelings like this simply cannot withstand the wind and waves, nor can they last long.
The person who really loves you will definitely find ways to make you happy.
He will care a lot about your emotions, and whenever he notices that you are not in a good mood, he will try to make you happy.
Maybe sometimes his approach is clumsy.
But in the clumsy movements, what is hidden is the inexhaustible love for you.
Although you will also have quarrels together, there are always many more happy times than unhappy times.
His constant love for you will make you feel at ease in your heart.
With him, even if you don't do anything, if you don't say anything, you will feel very good.
As Gu Cheng wrote in the poem:
"The wind is shaking its leaves, the grass is laying its seeds, and it is very beautiful for us to stand and not speak."
Being with someone who loves you is a blessing in itself.
Whatever you do, it's all in silence.
Reject all ambiguity for you
In this world, there is no so-called 'straight man of steel'.
As long as he likes you enough, he knows everything.
He knows you're insensitive, vulnerable, and cranky.
After being with you, he will try to give you as much security as you want.
He will reject all ambiguity for you, and will never be confused with the opposite sex around him.
That's how her friend Xiaoyu's boyfriend treated her.
Xiaoyu has been hurt in his feelings, and although he still believes in love, he does not believe that he can meet love.
Until the appearance of her boy, she regained her confidence in love.
At first, Xiaoyu was resistant to the boy's pursuit in his heart and would always deliberately escape.
Because the boy's conditions in all aspects are very good, there is no shortage of girls around him who pursue him.
The boy knew that she had been hurt in her feelings, and did not force her, but slowly waited for her to accept herself.
For the initiative and overtures of other girls, boys will resolutely refuse and never drag mud and water.
He will not say 'I love you' to Xiaoyu while being ambiguous with other girls.
With his gentle thoughtfulness, he melted the hard shell of the little fish little by little;
In the end, under the boy's unremitting gentle attack, Xiaoyu finally fell.
Indeed, as long as he loves you enough, he will carefully protect your sensitivity.
He knows what you want and will go to great lengths to do everything you expect.
After an argument, they will take the initiative to give in to you
I agree with this sentence:
"A boy who argues with a girl and never loses must not have a girlfriend."
Indeed, in life, there are no couples who do not quarrel.
But what is different is that some people can't control their emotions after a quarrel, and they pick each other's sore spots to poke.
Hurt each other with the most aggressive words.
There are also people who will be angry and angry, but they will know how to exercise self-restraint because they love you.
Therefore, even if you are angry again, you are not willing to speak ill of you, and you are reluctant to say even one excessive word to you.
The person who loves you to the heart is like this, although he also has his own temper, but everything is less important than you.
After the argument, when he calms down, no matter who is right and who is wrong, he will take the initiative to submit to you.
Zhang Zhilin, a model couple in the entertainment industry, also said in an interview:
Every time there is a conflict with Yuan Yongyi, he will first ask himself, what is the desired result? Break up?
If not, then don't continue to blame.
When two people quarrel, one party must compromise first, and the feelings can continue.
Compromise first, not because of mistakes, and not because of encouragement;
It's that I love too deeply and don't want to lose you.
So, if you meet someone, he's never going to leave you up all night after an argument.
Well, there is no doubt that he must have loved you miserably.
Love does not need to be asked, it can be perceived with the heart.
If it's not perceived, it's not.