Positive thinking leads to a positive life, and negative thinking leads to a negative life

The ancients often said: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black." The environment deeply affects a person's growth. For children, the family is the child's first school, and the parents are the child's first teachers.

Life learns to follow fate in order to live freely. Not to follow, but to go with the flow, not to resent, not to be impatient, not to be excessive, not to demand; to be casual.

It is to grasp the opportunity, not to be pessimistic, not to be rigid, not to be flustered, not to forget the form; to follow is a kind of enlightenment, a kind of freedom, a maturity of life, a practice of human feelings.

The philosopher Schopenhauer said, "When talking to others, we must restrain the impulse to correct others, even if we do so out of good intentions." ”

In the face of different views, many people like to persuade and correct in the name of being good for each other. As a result, there was a dispute.

In a period of communication, it is never by imposing one's will on others, but by seeking common ground while reserving differences, giving others the right to speak, and giving others a step down.

As a person, sharpness is not necessarily talented, and great wisdom and foolishness must be wise. An adult's ability to control himself from correcting other people's desires is the rarest form of self-discipline.

Fools are good at correcting, wise people know tolerance, and I remember that in many meetings or gatherings, some people will not forget to be humble at the end: if there is something wrong, please criticize and correct.

In other words, if there is indeed a mistake, often no one will correct it in person. Because everyone understands that this is a polite sentence, not the original intention of the person.

Confucius once said: "His body is upright, and he does not act according to orders, and his body is not right, although he does not obey orders." Roughly speaking, if you have to correct others, you must be impeccable.

However, in life, those who are good teachers often have omnipotent mouths but empty brains.

The reason why it is convincing is that in the final analysis, it is to show desire to do evil; aggressive, nothing more than to want to occupy a place in the crowd.

As everyone knows, when a person's bosom cannot support desire, no matter how superior the momentum cannot hide the fragility of the heart.

The wise man, gentle in speech, majestic in aura, and the fool, who has the upper hand, has no wind. When Wang Yangming was serving as a county commander in Luling, he caught a thief who committed heinous crimes.

His men tortured the thief, who resisted strongly and never gave in. Wang Yangming decided to interrogate him personally, and the thief, with a posture of a dead pig who was not afraid of boiling water, said: "If you want to kill, you have to kill casually, don't talk nonsense!" ”

Wang Yangming said, "Well, I won't try it today." But it's hot, you take off your coat, let's talk. The thief said, "Take it off." ”

After a while, Wang Yangming said: "The weather is really hot, so why not take off your underwear?" The thief still didn't think so: "Bare arms are also common things, no big deal." ”

After a while, Wang Yangming said again: "My arms are all bare, so why not take off my underwear as well, and I won't feel comfortable without hanging on at all?" The thief was not "bold" this time, and hurriedly waved his hand and said: "Inconvenient, inconvenient!" ”

Wang Yangming said, "What's inconvenient?" You are not afraid to die, do you still care about a pair of underwear? It seems that you still have a sense of shame and conscience, not nothing. ”

When the criminal heard this, he immediately gave in and confessed to the law. You see, the heinous criminals are not undesirable, and Wang Yangming has only taken it in one fell swoop by digging up the shame of the great thief with a broad mind.

In fact, being recognized is the weakness of most people, and the most powerful thing to surrender a person is not the depreciation of killing determination, but the gentle and mighty appreciation.

There is a thought-provoking sentence in "Cai Gen Tan": "Do not blame people for their minor transgressions, do not send people to be selfish, do not think of old evils, the three can cultivate virtue, but also can be far away from harm."

And by correcting others to show that they are better, such a way can not avoid making people feel that the means are inferior. True high-ranking people will not use their mouths to cover their mouths and express their chests directly, so as to achieve the purpose of conquering people.

They just see through but don't say it thoroughly, in order to save face for people, but also to leave a way out for themselves. Mr. Zhang Daqian, a famous master of ink painting, once painted a vivid "Green Willow Singing Cicada".

He gave the painting to another master, Qi Baishi, to taste, and Qi Baishi first expressed great affirmation for the painting: Mr. Daqian's painting is extremely evocative and is a superb masterpiece. ”

Then, a little hesitantly, he said: "I used to draw cicadas, and I once asked an experienced farmer for advice, and he said that when cicadas are singing, their heads are all up, and there are very few cases of downwards."

Of course, this is only the farmer's side of the word, I have not personally seen it, and it is not necessarily correct. ”

Zhang Daqian put these words to his heart. When he went to the mountains to sketch, he deliberately observed carefully, and the cicadas were indeed singing with their heads held high.

Later, he told Qi Baishi about this experience. Qi Baishi smiled relievedly and said, "I have also observed!" ”

Zhang Daqian understood that there were no farmers at all, but a euphemism for Qi Baishi to correct his mistakes. I have to admit that Qi Baishi is clever. In addition to the timeless works, the character is a model for future generations.

If a person can say whatever he wants, leave no room for it, do whatever he wants, regardless of the consequences. Even if his words and deeds are universal, they will hurt the innocent.

Nietzsche said: "Do not judge others indiscriminately, do not judge others easily, and do not gossip behind people." Thinking less about how others are is what good people do. ”

People intersect with each other, in fact, it is difficult for good people to do, they never talk and do things at will, but go into the mind, more bends, more kindness, more consideration of other people's situation. Prudence in words and deeds is a kind of wisdom.

The ancients said: "Shallow and deep, gentlemen abstain." "In exchanges, no matter how close you are, if you don't choose your words, you may incur a vendetta, and if you speak reliably and have a rigorous attitude, you will be convinced and unquestionable for a long time."

But those who are a little wiser are all cautious in their words and deeds, careful everywhere, they keep their eyes tight, open their mouths slowly, and think twice before acting There is such a story in the "History". Fan Ju (jū) came to the Qin kingdom, and King Qin Zhao greeted him at the court.

The King of Qin told everyone left and right to retreat, leaving only him and Fan Ju, and he knelt down and begged, "What does the gentleman take to teach the widow?" Seeing this scene, Fan Ju didn't say anything, only replied, "Yes, yes." ”

After a while, the King of Qin requested again, but Fan Ju still only said, "Yes, yes." After three rounds of questioning and answering, the King of Qin knelt down and asked Fan Ju, "Won't sir give the widow a lesson?" Fan Ju apologized and said, "It is the courtiers who dare not do this." ”

It turned out that Fan Ju understood that being a lobbyist was not an easy task, and if he didn't get it right, it would lead to the disaster of killing himself. He had just arrived in the Qin Kingdom, and he was a cloth cloth, and he had no friendship with the King of Qin, so he did not dare to make the mistake of "making shallow and deep words".

Therefore, he deepened his temptation and first found out what the King of Qin wanted to hear and what he wanted to do, before he dared to give his own opinion. "Ghost Valley" has a saying: "Inside his body, those who speak outside his words are sparse; outside his body, those who speak deeply, are dangerous." ”

The translation is: the relationship is close, but the words are not intimate, the exchange will gradually drift away; the relationship is far away, but the taste is too heavy, and if you go deep into the internal situation, you will attract danger.

Walking in the rivers and lakes, no matter what you do or say, you can't be less worried and awe-inspiring, which is the golden key to ensure the smoothness and safety of life.

As the saying goes: it will be said to be ability, not wisdom, but the right silence is more reassuring.

True wise men, say three points, do seven points, point to the end, be careful in words and deeds. In the "Augmented Sages", it is said: "Rebuke yourself with the heart of those who blame others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiveness."

If you can reflect on yourself when you blame others, you will understand that everyone has their own difficulties. If you can tolerate others as much as you tolerate yourself, you will have a lot less calculation in life.

It is said that good medicine is good for the sick, and advice is good for the ear. In fact, it is not, the harsh "advice" hears too much, like a chronic consumption, deeply eroding us.

Correction cannot save a man, you are bitter, he is bitter; only gentle and elegant will not hurt. In this world, everyone is an island, has their own position, has their own way of thinking.

The philosopher Immanuel Kant said: The so-called freedom is not arbitrary, but self-mastery. In this materialistic age, everyone wants more.

I want everything I need, and I want the richest emotions. Beautiful chinese clothes, can not bring eternal beauty, self-discipline can make you have a unique charm.

Lingering in various parties, will not win high-quality friends, deep ploughing themselves in order to harvest excellent self. Living in the 21st century, we need to streamline our lives too much, because the simpler the happier, the simpler the richer.

Thoreau said: The more a person puts down, the richer he becomes. When a home is occupied with a lot of useless things and has nowhere to go, when we look for clothes in the clothes pile in the changing seasons, is it fun or painful?

Many times, we may not even know what we need, but we buy a bunch of things that we can't use at all. After more than two years of seclusion on the shores of Walden Lake, Thoreau wrote a collection of essays, Walden.

For two years, he lived in a wooden house built by his own hands, planting in the spring and harvesting in the spring, working at sunrise, resting at sunset, becoming one with nature, and living a simple and quiet life, which completely changed Thoreau's life - life and the essence of life, in fact, is a process of "simplifying complexity".

Too much material may not make us truly happy, money is a thing, enough to spend, clothes are not much, enough to wear.

Thoreau said that most luxuries, most of the so-called comforts of life, are not only unnecessary, but also a great obstacle to human progress. "There are thousands of mansions, sleeping five feet at night, and people live for a lifetime, but three meals a day."

Sometimes we buy a lot of clothing, but at the end of the season, we often wear only three or four pieces, and the rest is just lying in the corner of the closet with ashes, and some even don't even cut off the tag.

The house does not have to be too large, enough to live on the line, too large a house does not gather popularity, it is easy to appear deserted, and it is easy to be reduced to a "warehouse".

The car does not have to be too expensive, it is just a means of transportation, it is a person driving, not a car driving people, too expensive car consumes a lot of time and money maintenance, with this money it is better to do something meaningful.

When we are not burdened by material things, when we are able to calm down and pay attention to the growth of the self, can you say that our lives are not rich?

Life cannot lose its luster in the midst of complexity and trivialities; life must rise and fall in the quiet of the years. When people reach middle age, they feel that the best life is to live a simple life, to live simply, the simpler it is, the richer it is.

The man who is truly rich at heart never shows off everything he has, he does not tell others what cars he has driven, where he has been, how many pieces of clothing he has bought, because he does not care so much about these external things.

The human heart is always unsatisfied, and if you can take the initiative to cut off these material desires, you can return to your true nature from the outside and the inside. The simpler a person's desire for material things, the richer and richer his heart becomes.

Interpersonal relationships are simple, people's lives, in fact, do not have to invite too many people into life. We may all have made the mistake of ignoring our loved ones.

But we love those who ignore us, treat our families as friends, and treat our friends as family. Wang Han was hotly discussed by netizens because he deleted Chen Kun and Qian Feng's WeChat, which made people incomprehensible.

But Wang Han said with relief: "When the number of people in the circle of friends reaches more than a hundred, I feel a little terrible, and I want to delete some meaningless things." Since deleting many people's WeChat one after another, Wang Han feels that the whole person is suddenly cheerful.

Since then, Wang Han's life has become very relaxed, and his whole life has changed, and he can devote himself to his work.

In Sarah Knight's book The Art of Disruptive Relationship Cleansing, she argues about the complexity of human relationships.

You need to be clear about what you don't need to care about, and only paying attention to a small number of things that you need to care about will make your life change dramatically.

We will meet countless individuals in this life, do not need to invite everyone into their own lives, delete WeChat does not mean that we have cut off contact, when necessary, you can also contact by phone.

People only have 24 hours a day, in addition to sleep, there is very little time to focus on career and schoolwork, time and energy are lost, and you must be clear about what you really need.

Film emperor Liang Chaowei is notorious for not liking socializing and socializing, and has never forced himself, but has maintained a certain degree of alienation from the outside world, focusing on acting, integrating himself with the role, and receiving one award after another.

Minimalist relationships can make us feel relieved, like a new life, especially after middle age.

Be a simple person, live a simple life, subtract all kinds of boring and meaningless social interactions, only retain the necessary connection between work and life, subtract the cumbersome time, enjoy the simple beauty, and make yourself a focused person.

Mader once said: This world seems to be surrounded by complexity, all kinds of people, etc., and the mud and sand are all underneath. But in essence, it's your world alone. If you are clear, the world will be clean, and if you are simple, the world will not be complicated. ”

More than 30,000 days of life, neither to lose the enthusiasm of relatives and friends, nor to please anyone's indifference, arrogance.

Share a little story: The little monk asks the old monk, "What do you do before you get enlightened?" Old monk: "Chop wood, carry water, cook." The little monk: "What about after attaining enlightenment?" Old monk: "Chop wood, carry water, cook." The little monk: "Then what is the Tao?" ”

Old monk: "Before attaining the Tao, when chopping firewood, I worry about carrying water, and when I carry water, I worry about cooking; after I get the Tao, when I cut wood, I chop wood, I carry water, and when I cook, I cook." "If the mood is simple, life is simple."

The road to simplicity, people's state of mind also needs to be minimalist, simple to focus on one thing in a lifetime, focus on personal learning and growth, in order to achieve success in life.

A life that wants to do everything is doomed to achieve nothing. Dong Biwu said: Proficient in a discipline, God must concentrate, and he must have spare strength, but he can take care of it.

Jobs was a man of great concentration, he was a well-known minimalist, and for more than a decade from 1998 to 2010, he was always the iconic black top + jeans, as if picking more clothes was superfluous to him. Don't put too much energy into the material, let the mood be simple, and only focus on the cause.

Jobs's lifelong pursuit of "less is more", put all his energy into what he considered important business, and founded a great company like Apple.

In a complex modern society, being able to be a simple person is the real high realm. Simple people know how to simplify complexity and maintain inner peace in a complex world.

Simplifying complex things is an ability, but also a kind of wisdom. If you see the world as complex, your heart will become impetuous, and if you see the world as simple, your state of mind will be calm.

Read a good book, make a good cup of tea, let the ink fragrance float all over the house, let the tea fragrance into the heart and spleen, the other side of the heart, the heart desires, ignore the complexity of the outside world, purify the heart, only pay attention to the self, fill the heart, the simpler the happier, the simpler the richer!

In life, we will meet many people, but there are very few people who can really walk into the heart, and there are even fewer people who know how to cherish each other.

The world is complicated and people's hearts are unpredictable, and we have to take the initiative to wear a mask and face the world with a hypocritical face, to win people's hearts and minds, and to compete for interests.

But in fact, whose heart does not desire a piece of peace? Whose heart doesn't long for a true heart?

After all, complex relationships always annoy us, and bad people and bad things always upset our mood.

In the face of complex interpersonal relationships, in the face of bad people and bad things, learning to let go is the right solution, and the most straightforward way to let go is silence and disregard.

Life cannot always be smooth, there are always times when there are winds and waves; life cannot always be satisfactory, there are always times when it is not perfect.

Life just needs to rise and fall, through the ups and downs to the end. It is inevitable that there will be times when you can't bear it, there will inevitably be times when you think too much, there will inevitably be times when you will be sad and lost, and there will inevitably be times when you will be confused and decadent.

But if we keep a good mood on the road, then life will be full of sunshine everywhere, and we will believe that the desperate road will enjoy the scenery along the way, rather than complaining about the sky!

Having a good mood in life is the happiest thing in life! Don't live more than money and less money, it depends on whether the mood is bad or good.

I always envy the rich man's money, but I can't see the trouble of his turning around, and the rich man's face may not have a smile every day.

You envy the scenery of others, he is jealous of the warmth of your family; you envy him for wearing gold and silver, he longs for you to sleep at dawn; you envy him for having a lot, he envies your children and daughters.

In life, it is difficult to buy good health, and it is difficult to change the mood of power and happiness. There is not enough money to refuel and earn, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will have income. Money can buy a house.

But you can't buy a home; you can buy marriage, but you can't buy love; you can buy clocks and watches, but you can't buy time; you can buy a lot of things, you can't buy health.

You must have a good attitude! The most important thing in a person's life is to live well, take care of their families and love people who deserve to be loved, and forget what they should forget and let go of people who should be let go.

Many of the world's sorrows and joys are all doomed in the dark, so why care so much and be so upset? Some people and things are actually self-inflicted troubles.

Look away from gain and loss, look down on the face of reunion and parting, nothing can belong to anyone forever, no person and love can always be around.

Cherish when you have it, let it go in time when you lose it, and let everything go naturally without causing trouble!

There are thousands of paths to happiness, and there is one way we must take, and that is the path of a good mentality. People with a good mentality, big things and small things do not care, everything must be done to the best of their ability, and everything is heavy on the process and light on the result. People with a good attitude don't like to compare themselves with others.

It is better to become impetuous than to become more anxious than to be in vain. A good attitude can be happy and less troublesome! Life is only a few decades, a good mood and a good attitude can have a good life! The most important thing for people to live for a lifetime is to live happily!

There is a saying that goes like this: "The highest punishment is silence, and the most reserved revenge is disregard." "It's true, facing people and things that don't matter.

Silence and ignorance will not waste their time and energy, in order to go faster and farther on their own life path.

The most senior punishment is silence. Wang Xiaobo wrote in "The Silent Majority": "The world around me is too absurd, so I am secretly determined to remain silent. ”

Silence is not a kind of cowardice, but to maintain one's true self in a world of strife, and is more willing to enjoy loneliness than to indulge in the bustle of illusion, and more willing to be alone than blind quarrel and justification.

Yang Dai once said: "We used to look forward to the recognition of the outside world, and in the end we realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others." ”

In the final analysis, in this world, there are only a few people and things that are really closely related to us, and the things that are next to us have nothing to do with us.

Along the way, we always make mistakes, for example, to dig out our hearts and lungs to be good for a person, and eventually develop a white-eyed wolf, and the other party stabs him in the back.

Our kindness sometimes becomes a tool for others to hurt us, in fact, this is not our fault, but the fault of others, but, eat a long and wise, and we should be more vigilant when getting along with people.

There is no need to be a virgin, there is no need to explain ourselves clearly, and remaining silent is our punishment for others.

The more you try to explain, the more reasons others will have to pestering you, hurting you, and constantly asking for you, until finally, completely controlling you in the palm of their own hands.

On the contrary, the more silent you are, the more harmful it is to those who try to take advantage of you, because you have long been out of their control, your heart is no longer affected by gossip, and your life can still be colorful.

As the saying goes, the depth of the water is silent, and the people are steady. Truly powerful people know how to remain silent and precipitate themselves in quiet time.

The most reserved revenge is to ignore. Yi Shu once wrote in "The First Half of My Life": "The best revenge is not hatred, but the coldness of the bottom of the heart, why spend energy to hate an irrelevant person." ”

When a person has become the past, when a person has nothing to do with our future, that is an irrelevant person, and in the face of irrelevant people, hatred will only make us live in the past, deviate from the track of life, in the long run, our life will be completely destroyed by hatred.

Living in this world, we will always experience some gratuitous doubts and malicious ridicule, regardless of the antecedents, their ultimate purpose is to hurt us.

And in the face of doubt, in the face of gossip, explanation is actually the most powerless thing, because you can't explain clearly, every word you say will be over-broken down, and there will be various versions of what you mean.

In fact, the more misunderstood, the more you should remain calm, ignore their accusations, and abandon their trust. You know, a person who doesn't trust you will never trust you from the heart, so why waste time and entangle with them?

As the saying goes, Tao Li does not speak, and the next is self-made. If you are sincere, you will naturally be understood by those who treat you sincerely; if you have strength, you will naturally be discovered by your own Bole. And the superfluous explanation, in the eyes of others, is nothing more than a kind of sophistry, which has no effect, but only makes oneself sullen.

In the face of irrelevant people and things, the most reserved revenge is to ignore. From then on, you walk your Yangguan Road, I cross my canoe bridge, and when I say goodbye, I am just a stranger who was once familiar.

Cultivate virtue with self-respect, damage to morality with self-contempt, morality is heavy on people who believe in it, and morality is light on people who abandon it. For the sake of Virtue and Day, gradually breathe with everyone and share the fate.

For the sake of virtue and day light, gradually parting ways with the crowd. Like-minded people, I am for everyone, everyone is for me, and practicing morality together is for comrades.

Only when you are strong enough will the world be pleasant to you. And when you have a bumpy life, others will treat you as garbage.

This is true not only between people, but also between countries. As long as you are content with being weak, then you are doomed to be bullied and ravaged. The last thing people like to hear is such a truth, but this phenomenon is played out every day.

Rules are only a service to the strong, only a tool to imprison and suppress the weak. When you become stronger, you will find that you do not have so many shackles and chicken feathers on yourself, but instead have great freedom and happiness.

When your career is at a low ebb, you can only rely on yourself to be strong, without any tears; when your life is up and down, others will only mock you and will not give you any sympathy.

If you want to break the game, don't look miserable all day, please put away your worthless tears, and don't let anyone feel sympathy for you.

The life of a chicken feather in a place comes not only from your poverty of having nothing, but also from your long-hidden cowardice, ignorance and inferiority.

In a world dominated by the law of the jungle, there is no essential difference between humans and animals.

If you have to distinguish, it is nothing more than that animals do not need to be disguised, and humans need to pretend to show that they are very righteous. Compared with the former, the latter is inevitably more frightening!

Regardless of the success or failure of the final outcome, in the face of great right and wrong, please do your best. Only cherish the time, wake up early, constantly reflect, and constantly think.

Only by aligning with the good ones can you improve your cognition and possibly get rid of the chicken feathers of married life. Otherwise, what awaits you will be a wave of remorse and helplessness in your old age.

The advantages and disadvantages of the growth environment determine whether you can raise an excellent child. In other words, whether a child is good in the future depends largely on whether the original family is nourishing the child or consuming the child.

Tolerate the faults of others, and win the hearts of people. In fact, there have been people who have very much hoped to get the tolerance and friendship of others, and hope to get the opportunity to repent and rehabilitate.

To be lenient, to tolerate the transgressions, to remember the merits of others, to forgive the shortcomings of others, and to promote the strengths of others, we will surely be rewarded by the efforts of others. King Rong Tang of Chuzhuang was drunk and played with concubines, and Tang Cunning struggled to kill the enemy in revenge. Show his tolerance and generosity.

Zhuangzi said, "It is better to rest in the shadows, to rest in the shadows, and to rest in silence, and to be foolish." Standing in the shade to rest, the shadow is gone, the footprints are gone, to relax and work. Truly intelligent people, when confused, will not rush to toss themselves, but quiet down, rely on wisdom to turn defeat into victory.

Everything in the world seems to be unpredictable, as long as you master the law, you can use it for yourself, and with a gentle force, it is "four or two strokes of a thousand pounds". Mixed society, it is better to move than to be still.

Families with dirty rooms can't raise diligent children. As the saying goes: "If a house is not swept, why sweep the world?" "The room condition of a family often hides the appearance of a family life and hides the future of a child.

Life is like climbing a mountain, you can only enter, can not stop, can not retreat, do not climb to the top of the mountain, can never see the beauty of the mountain. Mountaineering is to love while walking, and every step you take, you love life even more, and you love everything that is inadvertent in life.

Live like a mountain climb every day, climb slowly and persistently, but also remember to enjoy the scenery that passes by every moment, life needs continuous climbing, footprints will only appear brighter at the peak, let's climb together!

After tea, we always say that this person is blessed and that person is not blessed, but how is the blessing obtained?

Almost all people pay great attention to their own blessings, and even during the New Year's Festival, they will stick the word of blessing on the gate to pray for their blessings in the new year and live a smooth life.

"Blessing" has never been biased toward anyone, praying is not coming back, only starting from oneself, starting from good deeds. There is rain in the sky, and there is disaster in the madness of people", this sentence says the conditions of force majeure.

However, as long as we ourselves insist on doing good, even if there is a reward, at least there will be no bad things. Only in this way will your life go smoothly and without troubles.

When we accumulate virtue and do good deeds, blessings naturally come, we may encounter all kinds of people, we will also encounter all kinds of unfair things, and it is impossible to demand that all people be the same, let alone require everyone to behave with consistent moral standards. We can at least do as much as we can every day and accumulate blessings for ourselves.

There was once such a poor person, who went out to work all year round, and often helped the people around him, and the money he lent out was almost never recovered.

Later, there was a colleague who often lacked money, and often borrowed money, and later repaid it, but because the number of borrowings was too frequent, many people were worried that he could not afford it.

Later, when they borrowed money, many people avoided it for various reasons. However, he didn't ask anything, so he lent it to the colleague and said: I believe you can live better.

Later, the colleague who often borrowed money left his job and left, not knowing how much money had passed, and the poor man was still working in this unit. He invited his still poor colleague to work with him, promising to triple his salary. He aroused the envy of everyone, and many people said that he was good and rewarded.

Humble people, natural popularity, there are always people who like to elevate themselves, in the crowd to claim the king and hegemony, as a blessing. In the end, they tend to have a bad time.

People get along with people, pay attention to an equal, who hates proud people. Proud people, even if they are good people, are often more angry in the eyes of everyone than despicable villains. Therefore, it is best for us to be more modest, low-key, and maintain a good posture.

The blessings of a person's life are actually "saved up", and there are good rewards for good, and evil has evil rewards, not for not repaying, and the time has not yet come." This sentence is actually very meaningful, and it also illuminates a part of the microcosm of life.

Dignified character and high moral standing, it is not formed in a day or two, often people accumulate over time, and all their behaviors are evaluated by others.

Master your own words and deeds, try to stimulate the nerves of others with words as little as possible; master your own actions, try to do as many good deeds as possible, and help those in need.

Between the heavens and the earth of life, if the white colt crosses the gap, it is suddenly enough. "Life comes and goes in a hurry, you need to manage it well and think seriously, otherwise it will be like a white colt crossing the gap, and with a flick of a finger, it will pass in one fell swoop."

Life is like chess, chess is like life. Life is like chess, you need to be clear goals, if you have played chess with the master, you will find that they often give up the car and horse in order to protect the general.

For chess players, the general coach is always the most important. Protect the generals and then win, that's their goal. The same is true of life, a small boat without direction, no matter which direction the wind blows from will not be a tailwind. ”

On the road of life, there will be all kinds of situations and temptations, if there is no clear goal, it is easy to lose the direction, let alone success?

In 1984, at the Tokyo International Marathon Invitational, an unknown short runner in Japan defeated the other runners in one fell swoop and won the world championship.

When asked by reporters how he succeeded, he said: "Defeat your opponents with wisdom." "It turned out that before each race, he had to take a car and look at the race route carefully.

And record the more eye-catching signs along the way, such as the first sign is a bank, the second sign is KFC, so that it is recorded until the end.

In the race, he did not aim at the finish line, but rushed towards the first recorded target, reached the first target, and then rushed to the second target.

More than 40 kilometers of travel were easily completed by him breaking down into a small target. When we are clear about the goal and constantly compare the goal with the action, it is like going up the stairs, step by step, and the goal can be completed quickly.

Zhou Hua, a student of Peking University, wrote a book "From Bicycle to Bentley", saying: "I have a clear goal, I believe that I will be very successful in the future." I am willing to work tirelessly and hard for this day. The efforts and results I have made in the past are one of the sources of my confidence. ”

With a clear goal, you will not be like a headless fly, bumping around, in order to make the right plan and fight for it. Without a goal, geniuses will also work in vain in the confusion of contradictions and uncertainties.

Life is like chess, it needs to be improvised, when playing chess, it needs to be improvised, if it is unchanged, it is easy to be spied by the opponent to play chess rules, and thus be defeated. The same is true of life.

In the "Outer Collection of Ancient WeiTang", it is said: "The law does not change for a long time, and the luck does not return." "In life, we must learn to be flexible. People who don't know how to change will be at a loss when they encounter complex and sudden things.

Once a hotel recruited waiters, many people came to apply, and the boss wanted to test them: one day when you walked into a room that was supposed to be empty and cleaned, you found a lady bathing. What should you do?

Everyone rushed to answer, and some said, "I'm sorry, Miss, I didn't mean it." Some said, "Miss, I didn't see anything." ”

The boss kept shaking his head when a young man stepped forward and said, "I'm sorry, sir." When the boss heard this answer, his eyes lit up and he hired him on the spot.

Because he pretended not to see the lady clearly, he called her "sir." "The improvisational approach has lifted the embarrassment of the guests.

People who are adaptable to change are more diverse in their work to achieve their goals; in life, they get along with people more harmoniously; when dealing with problems, they can bend and stretch when they encounter things, and they are flexible and flexible.

Therefore, life is like a chess piece, and it needs to be adapted. Life is like chess, if you want to be fast, you can't reach it, when you play chess, some of the drops need to be considered again and again, otherwise you don't want to be fast.

A really good game of chess will not end hastily in a short period of time, and each step must be carefully considered to be flawless. The same is true of life.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, when Qi Jinggong was playing in the East China Sea, an envoy reported to Jinggong that Xiang Yan was seriously ill and was dying, and asked the king to rush back, otherwise it would be difficult to see the last face.

Jing Gong listened very anxiously and asked the servants to prepare for the horse to return quickly. Groom drove about a few hundred steps, and Jing Gong felt that Groom was too slow to catch the car, so he grabbed the reins and personally picked up the car.

In the process of returning to the city, Jing Gong jumped off the carriage four times, but slowed down the speed of returning to the city, and by the time he reached the capital, Yan Bao had died. Ancients Cloud: If you want to be fast, you can't reach it, and if you see small profits, you can't do big things.

The meaning is that it is too eager to be fast, but it cannot achieve the goal, and blindly pursuing the small interests in front of it will affect the success or failure of things, but it will not achieve the ultimate goal. Life is like a chess piece, there is no regret, and every step needs to be carefully considered.

Life is like playing chess, one wrong step, full of losses. Therefore, life needs to be clearly purposeful, adaptable, and deliberate. Years pass easily, and time is easy to throw people away. May you and I live like chess pieces, and have no regrets.

Part-time work is no longer the best choice in this society.

Robert. Mr. Kiyosaki's rich father once said, "When I pay you a salary, you think like an employee." The moment you accept your salary, your brain stops functioning and you fall into a trap. ”

The poor have always been there, just falling into the trap of thought. You just have to keep hungry and thirsty and think about how to make money.

Why are poor people poor because they don't have money? No. The poor are poor only because they have fallen into the prison of ideas. They have a poor mindset. This kind of thinking has led these people to be poor all the time.

Why are people poor. Because people always put my "can't afford" on their lips. And we should say how I can pay for it. When you say, "I can't afford it, you're mind off." Don't think about how to get rich. When you say "how to pay up" you think about how to make money hard.

But when you want to make money, then you have to have your own team and learn to use external forces to make money. When you don't have talent, you look for talented people, and when you're short of money, you find some rich people to invest in you.

Making money is an empty glove white wolf, the more you have no money, you have to go to business, if you have money, you are a successful person and still use it to do business.

Among the Jin merchants in our country, those who are rich merchants are not all rich at the beginning, they are also pushing carts to do business step by step to become rich rich people.

And why everyone is reluctant to do business now. Because it hasn't started yet, they're going to think what if they lose? They are always afraid of failure, but want to be rich who have not failed several times.

Failure is not terrible, all great people have achieved their current success after countless failures. Now all people always want to ascend to the heavens one step at a time. But if you want to make money, you have to start small and don't be afraid to fail, because he has increased your knowledge for you.

There are very good money-making experiences and business models in Jinshang, and they are most suitable for big business. You can't do business on your own, learn to find a group of like-minded partners.

They can always give you wise answers in the confusion of your life, and give you solutions to problems when you encounter problems in your business.

How to go from nothing to the rich. First of all, you must learn to find opportunities, this unique vision and thinking ability must not have the ability of normal ordinary people to think.

All opportunities exist at risk, and they just pretend to be defeated or languish to confuse people.

And intelligent people tend to find and look for opportunities in the undervaluation of the market. But I don't recommend you go to the bottom because most people think that way.

If you want to make money, you can't be too anxious, as long as we find an opportunity to work hard, making money is really easy.

You have to believe that you are rich, and that money is just like you, but you haven't met yet. You are now constantly learning to make money. Teaching people to fish is the best way to make you money.

Only you master the law of making money. Let them be your own product, and whenever you are penniless now, you will be able to achieve wealth freedom.

Get rid of our own bad habits, and we must dare to make mistakes. In fact, most people don't succeed because they never dare to make mistakes, they are always careful, which leads to them not having a chance to learn anything. The wisdom we draw from failure is something we can't learn from anywhere.

So we should find our own life, our own goals. There is no fastest way to gain wealth than to invest in yourself. Let yourself have a clever mind and an eye for everything.

Holidays, exuding a thousand kinds of fun, you who smile lightly in the mirror, and I who are with you, the days that I have bloom out of the beauty of the years, dyed snow, and colorful life.

The clouds are rising, and the sunset is bright and the winter atmosphere is varied. The ticket stub of the movie is casually parked on the table, recording the ups and downs that have just been experienced, and also exuding the faint fragrance of coffee that has not dissipated.

Holding the hand on the way back, chewing the story repeatedly, frame by frame into the heart of the picture, constantly wrapped around the heart, wrapped around the eyes. So remember a pot of wine, get drunk and pick up the lamp, and talk about life.

Blooming days, twilight flirts with turbid wine, and the ambiguous colors in the tavern linger in front of the neon-covered floor-to-ceiling windows. The moon, shallow hanging in the sky; snow, silence on the street corner. Everything is simply owned, this slightly drunk pleasure, and cherished.

When awake, executions follow the joys and sorrows of gain and loss, brush away the chaos of right and wrong, live up to the days they have, and do not miss the beauty of blooming.

At this moment, there is no need to persuade people to drink, and the hot wine, such as a seductive kiss, is drunk with the dreams in the light and shadow of the fool, which is addictive. Use wine to dissolve the knots in the heart, and the heart is unharmed, in order to pick up the beauty of the days in the branches of the years.

I want to hide my drunkenness, so the future of tonight's talk will be a little subtle. This distant day, which is a hazy glimpse, will make the heart feel a little uneasy, but I am afraid that it has not yet bloomed, and it will become a withered appearance.

Seize the time, love life, live the moment, and let go of the rest of your life. There's too much uncertainty, setting traps where you haven't set foot. No one can dominate the impermanent life, only in the drunken tincture, drunken speech, writing today's mood.

Light days, shallow beauty, long flow in every corner of life, perched in every serious life.

The four seasons of twilight change and repeat, the spring flowers and autumn moon are as usual, and what we can do is to learn to appreciate, appreciate the beautiful days we have, and appreciate the little scenery in the days.

Hustle and bustle of the pub, taste the strong taste of wine, that is a touch of color in the light life, do not indulge, do not covet the cup.

Sit warm wine, talk about the plot in the movie, lay out the picture of the future, the rest of your life is small, the dream is a lighthouse, even with a strong drunkenness, you have to shake the oar in your hand and go in the direction guided by the lights.

The cold winter is cold and lonely, so I prefer to be close to the warmth, melt a frost, and cover the heat and dye the snow. The real years are quiet, not flowers, tea, books, wine.

Instead, we must have a quiet and clear heart, walk on the road of simple life, wait for the dusk when we meet the sunset, and appreciate the clouds and clouds when the wind rises.

Or, like this moment, just when a pot of wine was needed, he walked into the tavern, accompanied by the dim and warm light, and slowly drunk.

Swallow the grievances of the floating world, accept the bias of the world, record the sparse joys in life, and let the days of possession bloom beautifully.

Winter is deep, the warmth is thin into the yarn wings, and the end of the year is like aging, thick and heavy. The dregs at the bottom of the cup are unforgettable stories that have been formed over the years, with mixed emotions, bright and gloomy.

In the dim light, a pair of drunken people support each other, turning their backs from the proofing tavern, facing the warm home, walking in the moonlight with messy dance steps, drawing a perfect rest note for today.

The calendar is torn page by page, and time flows by little by little. Even if you are unbearable, you must love life and let the most mediocre fireworks in the world embrace the days and blossom.

Zi Yue: "Shooting seems to be a gentleman, losing all the right hooves, but asking for his body "shooting" refers to archery, the ancients can hold a brush, but also can hold a sword. Confucius's skill in driving chariots is very strong. The Confucian martial arts of Confucius's time were basically very strong.

In this sentence, Confucius said: "The matter of shooting swords is very similar to that of a gentleman, the archery did not hit, should he complain about the target, or should he complain about the bow?"

Definitely complaining about yourself. "If the gentleman does not shoot an arrow, he does not complain about the target, and the second does not complain about the sword, but thinks about how to improve his level of archery."

The appearance of the outer world that we feel is a reaction of the inner world. "The benevolent see the benevolent, and the wise see the wise" means this.

In life, you can often look in the mirror to see if we are smiling in the mirror, or are we frowning? When we complain about human indifference, try to take the initiative to smile at others.

You will find that when you smile, the people around you begin to change, and they also open up smiling faces to us, and so should the family, respect each other as guests, and let us face all people with a smile.

Sometimes the same thing, because of the difference in individual thoughts, opinions and realms, positions, and experiences, will produce completely different views, and good people think that it is a good thing.

For example, Jiang Ziya and Shen Gongbao studied the Tao with their teachers in Kunlun Mountain, and when they came down, the master gave them the same book, and After Jiang Ziya read it.

Decided to help the king, a Dao Ming jun, to establish a country with splendid mountains and rivers, and The country was safe and peaceful; and Shen Gongbao, after reading it, was determined to turn the earth into a battlefield full of blood and corpses. Master Fa Hui paused and said:

"Things in the world are very complex, multi-faceted, we must observe from the side and from many angles, in order to see clearly, just as the Song Dynasty scholar Su Dongpo Shiyun 'looked horizontally into the peak of the mountain side, far and near the height is different, do not know the true face of Lushan Mountain, only because of being in this mountain'!" Man lives a long life

Often tired, whether men, women and children, from this moment to the world, destined to spend a long life and countless experiences of disasters, walking in the journey of life, will meet a variety of people, there are friends, there are enemies, there are confidants, there are lovers.

No matter what kind of person you meet, make friends with fate, that is your fate. When good karma comes, treat it well; when it comes, dissolve it well; when the Buddha-edge comes, follow the Buddha to find our true Buddha-nature!

To live is to use wisdom to overcome troubles, people live is to like to be angry, qi is born, you do not give birth, there will be no qi, qi is an illusory substance, Einstein's theory of mass energy conversion, energy will be converted into matter, the wish of the Buddhist people can also be converted into strength, that is your behavior.

We often control our sorrows and joys by others, our hearts turn with the situation, we listen to an uncomfortable word, we are very happy, we immediately feel angry, turn to sadness, a small thing will make you sad and painful.

The Dharma says that by adding a concentration, you will be one point less suffering. If you don't want to be miserable, you have to settle down, no matter what others say about you.

No matter what, if you don't move, if you can settle down, the pain will be far away. Don't compare yourself with others, and if you don't compare yourself with others, you will be far away from the suffering of the world.

The scenery outside the colored glasses, "the benevolent see the benevolent, the knower sees the knowledge", in the past said "the dragon gave birth to nine sons, each one is different", the dragon king has nine sons, all look different, the personality characteristics are different, the boss is called a prisoner cow, like music.

Wherever there is a concert, go wherever you want to join in the fun. Later Chinese musical instruments, all with dragon heads, such as the best erhu, will be carved with a dragon on the curved part of the head, which is the boss of the Dragon King's old prisoner cow.

Dragon Elder Ii is called Jing Wei, it is narrow-minded, there is revenge, so there is an idiom that Jing Wei must repay... In short, these nine little princes in the Dragon Palace were all different. They were all born of the Dragon King, why are they different?

Everything between us and the heavens and the earth is born of the Dao, so why is it different? It is because your choices and your habits are different, so the appearance is different.

The benevolent see the benevolent, and the knower sees the knowledge", for example, the beautiful see the beauty, the ugly see the ugly, the good see the good, the evil see the evil... Wait a minute.

Speaking of this, I am reminded of two ancient poems: "A thousand rivers have water, a thousand rivers and a thousand moons, and there are no clouds in the sky", the artistic conception of these two poems is very high, and the language expression is also very in place! There is only one moon in the sky.

But underground, wherever there is water, you can see the moon, whether it is rivers, lakes and seas, or in the small water in the doorway, you can see the moon. Although the moon can be seen where there is water, the realm embodied in different places is the same.

When we were young, we didn't like to take a bath, and on summer nights, adults would move a big bath tub in the yard and coax us to say, "Come and see, there's a moon in the basin, go down and fish!"

When the child stripped naked, he jumped in, reached out, and the moon was gone, and when the water stood still, the moon came out again. Playing like this, the bath is also washed. This is the state embodied in the moon in the bathtub.

What about the moon in the pond at the door? It reflects the pure realm of the lotus pond moonlight. Zhu Ziqing has an essay "Lotus Pond Moonlight", which is very beautiful and elegant, and it is still quite comfortable to read.

If you go to the river to admire the moon, the artistic conception will be broadened, reflecting the realm of the moon reflecting thousands of rivers. If you are on the sea, it is even more different, what you see is "the sea is born bright moon, the end of the world is at this time".

In the vast ocean of smoke, you see a bright moon rising on the boundless open sea, this realm, of course, is very broad, broad, and open-minded.

It is also very important that whether in rivers, lakes and seas, or in ponds, the water quality is different, and the clarity of the moon in the water is also different.

So when we look at the right and wrong of a thing, good or evil, it is also closely related to the pure state of our own hearts. This is a very relevant experience of "the benevolent sees the benevolent, and the knower sees the knowledge".

Glimpses, floating lights, fingertips Shaohua. Purple mo, red dust, wind and smoke flow for years. How many deceased people, hurriedly scattered, how many old things, hidden in the years. How many pretty red faces, early births, how many handsome boys, eyebrows stained with wind and frost. Floating like a dream, the wine is happy, the dust is silent, and the heart returns to the paradise. According to the background of the years, find the true nature of life.

Life is a tree that blossoms. There are fresh and elegant first makeup, there is also the joy of dancing in the wind, there is a mellow and rich warmth, there is also a delicate breeze, there is a tranquility when the flowers bloom, there is also the elegance when the flowers fall, not humble, not arrogant, not impatient, not worried and not complaining, the heart belongs, the body has a perch, according to the cycle of the seasons, waiting for the cycle of years.

At the beginning of man, if the sun is shining, like a jade, gentle and soft, fresh but not colorful, bright but not alarming. Tranquility nurtures a steady stream of power, and in the brightness there is endless hope.

It is the touch of goose yellow in early spring, smart and cute, ready to come out. It is the smoky willow of the spring dawn of Su Causeway, hazy and picturesque, romantic and poetic. It is the pair of spring swallows that returned to the old court, delicate and lively, and the eyebrows are as good as ever.

And standing, like the sun, thick accumulation, quiet and far-reaching. There is the excitement of the sea, there is also the majesty of the mountains, there is the qingyuan of the bright moon, there is also the indifference of the light wind, there is the elegance of plum blossoms, there is also the grace of green bamboo, there is the breath of orchid grass, there is also the simplicity of autumn chrysanthemums, there is the daily life of fireworks, there is also poetic joy, there are endless scenery, and there is also an ageless style.

At dusk, the sun is tilted. A thousand sails have passed, washed away the lead, indifferent to sorrow and joy, and spent the years in peace. There is no rush of wind and rain, and there is no glitz and glamour.

There is no sorrow of widowhood, there is no lonely height left behind, only the transparency of the moon and the white wind, only the kindness of picking flowers and smiling, only the simplicity of the autumn water, only the open-mindedness of the snow falling in the wilderness.

Greeting the color of time and shade, draped in the brilliance of the sun and the moon, holding the neon clothes of the flowing years, listening to the whispers of the years, walking through the wind, walking through the rain, walking through the long thorns, looking at the mountains, looking at the water, and looking at the long scrolls of heaven and earth.

The clouds and smoke dissipate, cover up the contemplation, only the harbor of the soul is the most beautiful hometown of life, only it can give the soul the necessary freedom and nutrition.

The harbor of the soul, the dwelling place of the soul, the place of Qinghuan. It has no fixed place, no cookie-cutter form, but all have a simple and simple texture, and all have warm and flexible strength.

It may be in the time of a cup of tea, perhaps in the tranquility of a book, perhaps in the tranquility of a landscape, perhaps in the compassionate eyes of a man.

Red dust, three thousand troubles. Everything is opened, gathered and scattered, the heart has a paradise, and the joy is always at peace. Even if life is difficult, there must be a moment to look up at the stars.

Even though life is busy, don't forget the moment when you listen to the wind by the window. Let that beautiful and short time shatter all the unbearableness of life, release the burden of the soul, and return to the abundance of the body and mind.

The heart has a paradise, and the floating world is happy. Beautiful garden of hearts, dark fragrance of the soul. Let the days no longer be desolate, let life no longer be monotonous, let the heart no longer be tired.

There is the fragrance of flowers, the green of leaves, the alcohol of wine, the clarity of water, the distance of mountains, and the warmth of the sun. It accompanies you through the mountains and rivers of the years, accompanies me through the fine pieces of chai rice oil and salt, let us go through a thousand sails, and return is still a dashing young man.

If you don't have personal experience, you may never know how terrible a self-disciplined person is, and some people say that people who can't discipline themselves can't control their own lives.

No matter which aspect of food, clothing, shelter and transportation, often we need a certain degree of self-control or have a certain amount of Taoism to control our body and soul, so that we can survive calmly and calmly in this world.

Just like the concept of wealth, sometimes a person's destined wealth is often limited, and once this boundary is exceeded, it often means disaster.

As the old saying goes, knowing and then being still, being still and then being able to be quiet, being quiet and then being able to be at peace, being able to be safe and then being able to worry, and being able to worry and then being able to get. Things have an end, and things have an end. If you know what you have done, you will be close to the road.

A very important wisdom in life is to stop in time when the development reaches a certain level, otherwise it may face endless disasters.

A person's desires are never-ending, and when our desires are smoked, we are often not our true selves, or more of a puppet of wealth.

There are always some users who are insatiable and greedy, and the cases of petty officials and huge greed are always impossible to come out, and the end of life is often in vain.

If everyone can look at the end of their lives from the perspective of things, I think everyone can't be so overly greedy.

Once people become slaves to wealth, it often means the disaster of life. Sometimes it is said that we are ourselves, but you in the present moment are not necessarily the real you.

We can often hear such a sentence in life, saying that a person is like losing his soul, when our own soul can not control their own body, the path of life will naturally deviate.

But throughout our lives, it is not so easy to be able to control ourselves intact, and it is difficult to practice in life, and it is difficult to understand in life.

The difficulty in life is in cultivation, and all of this requires us to have enough concentration to control ourselves, otherwise even if we exhaust our efforts, we often cannot be reborn. Let's take a more common example in life.

For example, for weight loss and body shaping, it seems that many people are doing a thing, but whether they can control their own bodies has reached our original ideas, and different driving abilities naturally have different corresponding results.

Just like some people evaluate Wang Shi, people who can control chopsticks can control life, for Wang Shi to say that do not eat and do not eat life concentration, this itself is not a very easy thing, only by effectively controlling ourselves, we can break through the limitations of life.

In life, there are rich theories of the mind as support and guidance, there are enough abilities to guard the peace of life, and we can be prepared in life by practicing both inside and outside. Everything often has a certain life decision, and it is a regret of life to be too late.

And if you can grasp the right and go with the flow, it is the best wisdom of life. Just as for speech, more words must be lost, and the highest state of speech is the highest level without saying that the purpose of speaking is achieved.

There are always many people in life who talk endlessly, thinking that this is a manifestation of eloquence, but in essence, they do not have a good grasp of the true meaning of life, and naturally they have not effectively controlled themselves.

When a person is deeply lost, but often does not know himself or can never find a way out, this is often the biggest sadness of life. If you can control yourself in life, it is the best practice.

As the saying goes: "Life has a degree, and if you live, it will be a disaster." "A person, doing things as a person, can leave a little leeway for others, leave a way out, in fact, it is also to leave a way back for themselves."

In the "Art of War of Sun Tzu", it is said: "The division must be quenched, and the poor must not be forced." "Pressing on others step by step, even "rabbits", will bite people when they are anxious. Being able to be "generous" to others is both a kindness and a wisdom.

Don't do absolutely, good things don't occupy the end of the "Vegetable Root Tan" said: "When the taste is strong, minus three points for people to eat." "A person's success or failure is half providence and half man's plot."

Foolish people exaggerate their own abilities, so that when they are satisfied, they are insatiable, taking the path of others, leaving others with nowhere to go.

In this way, in fact, it is overdrawing one's future blessings. When they are defeated, they must be pushed by the wall. The wise man is not.

They understand the truth that when the water is full, the moon is overflowing, and the month is profitable, so the more they are satisfied, the more modest and cautious they are, the more humble they are, and they try to share their blessings with everyone, and dare not enjoy it exclusively.

The ancients said: "The poor are good at themselves, and the poor are good at the world." "Foolish people, poor people do what they want, and da is bullying others, so their "reach" is difficult to last.

The wise, the poor are happy and happy, waiting for the opportunity, and the da is helping everyone and standing on their own. So, even if they "fall to the bottom" one day, they will have a soft landing and be able to get the support of the crowd. This is the kind of good cause, the good result. Don't do anything, blame people to leave room.

The ancients said: "Blame people do not have to be harsh, and harsh is far away." "Who can not make mistakes if man is not a sage?" As long as a person can recognize his mistakes and is determined to correct them, then he does not have to be too harsh. Some people just like to be too harsh on others. Is it because they hate the faults of others? not necessarily.

Just because, blaming others, is their pleasure. They gain psychological pleasure by criticizing others, even taking others' small faults as a fulcrum, and blaming others.

Kind people, helpful people. They, on the other hand, take pleasure in bullying others. Such an act will inevitably lead to the alienation of the multitude.

Of course, some people are not happy to blame others, but they can't control their anger, so they blame others more than enough.

A person can control his emotions, blame people do not have to be harsh, is a self-discipline, but also a kindness.

Don't do anything, and don't do all the bad things. There is a word called "bullying the soft and fearing the hard." In fact, fear of hardness is the common sentiment of people. However, bullying is a shameful and cowardly act.

Lu Xun said: "The brave are angry and draw their knives to the stronger; the cowards are angry, and they draw their knives to the weaker." "Bullying someone weaker than himself cannot prove that he is strong, but only proves that he is also a weak person."

The real strong, in the face of the weak, will show a gentle side. In their view, showing a sharp edge before the weak is as shameful as an adult, in front of a child, boasting of his own strength.

Moreover, no matter how cowardly a person is, his endurance is also limited. If a person is forced to retreat, even a cowardly person will erupt. If the rich and noble are not willing to help the world at the same time, then it is also a good thing to keep to themselves and not to deceive others.

If we bully others, bully people with wealth, and press forward step by step, then even the poorest and humble people will become braver.

Guo Degang said: "Very capable of making seven points, leaving three points for children and grandchildren." All the abilities are exhausted, and the children and grandchildren of the future generations are inferior to others. ”

Do things as a person, be able to leave a little leeway, eat meat by yourself, and let others have the opportunity to drink soup, then, the future road, you can go further;

On the contrary, if you eat meat yourself and do not leave any meat residue for others, then the road ahead will gradually be cut off.

To be good to others is to be good to oneself; to love oneself is to love oneself. May you and I, both "narrow in the path, step back with the people." "Let yourself go, and let others go."

Everyone needs to succeed, but we need to understand the meaning of success, many people say that success is to beat others, that is, to make yourself high, in fact, this is not the case in our lives.

Success is just to say that you have a better life and are happier, in fact, there is no point in you beating others, because in this world, if you do this, there will be more grudges in the world.

Success is not about beating others, but about changing yourself. Success is to make their lives better, a successful person actually lives a relatively happy life, in fact, we do not need to have too many ideas.

Success is to make your life better, make your family more united, have a warm and romantic family, and then live happily with your partner.

Success does not require jealousy In this world, everyone needs to be successful, but don't understand the successful things too distortedly, otherwise there may be many problems in life.

Success is based on failure, so success may experience a lot of failures, so we don't need to be too sad, as long as we persevere, success will not be far away from us.

Success is about making my life better and having nothing to do with other people, so I don't need to think too complicated.

There is no secret to success, it only requires us to work hard, and many things in this world are because we have not worked hard, and eventually there are many problems that should not occur.

Success is not about beating others, but about changing yourself. ‬想要生活过得很美好，我们就必须尝试着改变自己。

Don't try to change, and don't try to change the world, because there are some things you can't do at all, and even if you give it all, you won't necessarily get the approval of others.

Our life itself is such anything, we need to adapt, we need to adapt to the environment, we need to adapt to life, we need to adapt to this society, and we also need to adapt to ourselves.

Living in this world itself is very meaningful, there is no need to fight with others, because you fight too much, and you can't let yourself live in a happy world.

We must understand the meaning of success in this world, not that we can succeed at once.

In life, many times many things are actually very simple, try to change their own life will be more satisfactory, try to change others will only bring pain to themselves.

Success is not to defeat others, it may be to defeat yourself, you can only make yourself tougher, make yourself more backbone life will be better, no success there is no failure.

Therefore, only by practicing yourself to be pure fire can you achieve success. Life should be less jealous, even if others steal your job, as long as you work hard, it will change the ending.

In our lives, there are often many people who pride themselves on being smart, but what is smart people each has their own different opinions.

But even if a person is smart in life, in many cases when facing some problems, there will be a sense of heroism uselessness, such cases we can find too many vivid examples in history.

Just as we like to read the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, in such a turbulent era background, the story of cooking wine on heroes and dividing the world has given us too much attraction.

Those endless strategists not only make our eyes light up all the time, but sometimes not only lament that even if a self-proclaimed hero is not assisted, it is difficult to break out of a world of life in such a complex era environment.

Mr. Ma Weidu said that no matter how smart a person is, there are not enough brains, even if you are smart, there will be dead ends in your mind, you will have unexpected things, wise people have a thousand worries, there will be a mistake, if you are around, there are really a few good staff.

If you are determined to help you come up with ideas, you will be superior to others, and your ideas will be superior, and you will be able to win. In fact, people and people are not fighting for physical strength, but fighting for intelligence, and the people who can succeed in this society today are all superior in intelligence, not physically superior.

We see a lot of successful entrepreneurs, even if the body is relatively thin, can not fight at all, he can not move with you, but he can give you a brain, this is often the most important strength in life.

There is never a shortage of intellectually superior people in life, many times they are the people who design the chess game, they are often the people who stand outside the system and look inside the system, or we say that many times you may always be a pawn in the chess game of others.

Even such a character in life is often unaware that such a high-IQ struggle is the most terrifying. The development of the times and the future trend of the demand for intelligence, creativity and knowledge are obvious to all.

If you still choose to paralyze yourself in such an era background, this is the greatest disrespect for your future future, if you do not choose to invest in your own wisdom, you may only be able to survive in this society for a long time.

Without the background of wisdom, where is the direction of our lives, I think this is a question worth thinking about each of us.

When we are in the dark, or fall to the bottom of life, the wisdom in your mind is always the best light to illuminate your way forward.

As the old saying goes, if you are poor, you think about change, if you change, you will be general, and if you are general, you will be long-lasting. We have enough wisdom to find a workaround and a path, otherwise it will always be a battle of trapped beasts.

It is always like a headless fly facing a piece of bright glass but never finding a place to stand out. One state in which one becomes more and more powerful is enlightenment, which in Buddhism is called enlightenment.

Enlightened people know how to reflect on themselves, seek inward, and seek internal causes, so as to conform to the philosophical saying that qualitative change determines quantitative change. Why was Liu Bang able to defeat Xiang Yu that year.

A big reason is that he is good at using people, and Liu Bang tries his best to exert the wisdom of the people, and these wisdom mobilizes the strength of the people.

However, Xiang Yu hated to adopt the wisdom of the people, was proud and arrogant, and only played a personal role. Those who are good at exerting the wisdom and strength of all people can win victories, and they are bound to fail by relying only on their own wisdom and strength.

In today's society, character is also a topic that people often mention while enjoying a good life.

Character is actually to regard individuals, relatives, groups, all living beings and other motivations for survival as a whole, and to pursue all this and create the highest level of rationality for survival.

Character is, in a sense, reason. The highest level of character is in all the motivations for survival.

The idea of long-term survival with minimal destruction. If you examine the truth of this fact in a more rational way.

We can immediately get the answer, although dishonest behavior can lead to short-term benefits for individuals or groups, but long-term dishonest behavior will cause individuals or groups to fall below the emotional gradient.

Therefore, dishonest behavior is detrimental to survival. All people are interacting with each other.

Any irrational behavior can be called non-moral behavior, because these irrational behaviors can seriously hinder the development of individuals or groups and inhibit the future of the organization.

Keeping one's oath is an act of survival in real life, because the person will be trusted, but only if he keeps the promise he made.

In fact, non-character behavior is an act of destruction and an expression of fear. Man lies because he is afraid of the consequences of revealing the truth.

Therefore, the liar must be a timid person, and the weak person must also lie. Therefore, at the level of character, there is a distinction between character and non-character.

Sometimes we confuse character with morality, but the two words are not interchangeable.

Morality is a code of good conduct based on human experience as a unified measure of individual and group behavior. Such a norm has its need.

The content of the code of ethics is derived from practical experience. When people find that a certain behavior is more detrimental to survival than it is beneficial to survival, the behavior is prohibited.

In the case of rational thinking is not yet complete, as long as moral norms can provide people with better survival.

It is an integral part of any culture, yet morality, once it becomes obsolete, is replaced, or it becomes a burden.

If a moral code is perfectly rational, we can say that it is also perfectly moral. However, it is only in this highest realm that morality and character can be equated.

Each of us is struggling, struggling, and making progress, so we are rational in ourselves.

The highest state of reason is the highest state of existence, so on the road to constructiveness, we all have our own inner superior generator - noble character.

Stillness is a realm. Impetuousness and uneasiness are suffocating. "Restlessness wins cold, quiet victory over heat, purity is the right thing in the world", calm down, break through the self, in order to achieve the realm of not being alarmed, panicking and not afraid.

Stillness is an attitude. Harassment and unrest are frightening. "The quietness of the earth is the reality of the yin; the movement of the earth is the essence of the yang", the harmony of yin and yang, and the attitude of facing life is also the same.

Stillness is a force. Static is the process of accumulating strength, and between the square inches, everywhere does not panic. Attack it with all your strengths and win with your advantage.

Stillness is a reward. Quiet to cultivate the body, frugal to cultivate morality. In a society that is eager for success and quick profit, there is an undercurrent everywhere. Only by stopping statically and advocating frugality can we achieve "wisdom of those who know others, and those who know themselves", which is also a kind of praise for personal experience.

Wang Yangming said: "If you don't stand up, there is nothing in the world that can be accomplished." "Making great ambitions is the starting point of all great undertakings. As big as the ambition is, how likely the future is, do not be arrogant.

Wang Yangming said in the "Records of Transmission and Practice": "A serious illness in life is just an arrogant word. He believes that the biggest problem of people is that people are prone to pride and complacency, and most people who are arrogant and arrogant cannot forget a "me".

Pavlov once said, "Never be proud." Because as soon as you are proud, you will be stubborn on occasions where you should agree.

Because as soon as you are proud, you will reject the advice of others and the help of friendship; because of pride, you will lose the objective criterion. ”

A truly cultivated person knows that the world is big and there are people outside the world, so he is always low-key and humble, always very humble in doing things, never rests on his laurels, and always continues to learn and improve himself.

It is precisely because of this humility that they can walk for a long time, go farther and farther, get closer and closer to happiness, there will be rain in the sky, there will be disasters in people's madness, for people, do not be smart, do not be superior, modest and low-key, is a kind of wisdom in life.

Throughout the ages, the more powerful people are, the more they know how to lower their posture. Quit your pride, restrain your sharp edge, always remain humble, the road of life naturally goes farther and farther, people have strong bones, settle down.

Some people are self-pitying and self-harming in adversity, giving up hope; others are scrappy, silently accumulating strength, waiting for the opportunity to turn over, and those who have ambition will never be defeated by external pressure. A low can destroy a person, but it can also shape a person.

Long-term concentration, professionalism, in this fast-paced era, everyone is anxious in their hearts, no matter what they do, always look at a mountain high.

Afraid of being a little inattentive, missing the hitchhiker to success, in fact, the real success often depends not on a momentary luck, but on a long period of concentration, the accumulated professionalism, only to do one thing, to achieve professional standards, better than perfunctory to do a lot of things.

Instead of spending a lot of time and effort digging many shallow wells, it is better to spend the same time and energy digging a deep well. May you know how to concentrate, be professional enough, dig a deep well, get a piece of heaven and earth, and treat work as a practice, and you can achieve your heart.

Wang Yangming also said: "People need to grind in things, and only then can they stand still and be fixed, and only then can they be still and fixed." "Focus on the matter in front of you, there is no reason outside the heart, there is nothing outside the heart, the party can do the ultimate; focus on the heart, unswerving, do not give up, the will can get what you want."

The highest is to establish virtue, followed by the establishment of merit, and then to establish speech, never abandoned, people always want to realize self-worth, to obtain immortality,

"Sanli" is a benchmark set for us by the ancients, although we do not expect that everyone will be like Yao Shun "Lide", Wen Wang Zhou Gong "Li Gong" and Sima Qian and other "Li Yan", even if only ordinary people, this society will become a better place.

Life is like climbing a mountain, people are like this, over a mountain, always want to know what another mountain looks like.

Sometimes you will find that it is a quagmire swamp, a cliff, which makes it difficult to walk, but if you want to go back, there is no way back.

A mountain is higher than a mountain. People are always chasing, trying to make themselves better and better. I want to prove myself to myself, and I want to prove myself to the world, and I used to be like this.

But when you stand at the top, you will find that you will be in a desperate situation, because no matter which direction you go, it is a downward trend. And those who climbed up the hill.

They grit their teeth and hate that they can't swallow you alive. Everyone who climbs up wants to drag you down, even to kill you.

In this world, when the water is full, it overflows, the moon is full, and things are extremely negative, but unfortunately most people in this world cannot understand, and when they understand, they often have fallen into a desperate situation.

Became the target of everyone, was besieged by everyone, cut off the back road... Unless the hero can break his arm and bear a painful price, the end will not be good.

In this world, career is like this, and so is between people. Whoever it is, as long as they meet, they are destined to have a day of separation.

No matter what kind of brothers and friends, whether they are relatives or confidants, they are destined to leave one day.

What you can do during this time is to leave as many wonderful and stories as possible, so that you can recall everything that happened when you look at it later. Remembering the spirited self that used to be, this is an extremely luxurious thing!

Over the years, I have seen many storms and waves in my life, and I have seen more horrors and cunning in people's hearts, but sometimes I still can't help but be touched in my heart.

Since ancient times, every time there have been many slaughtered dogs, the negative hearts are mostly readers. Sometimes I want my brothers and friends around me to be smarter.

A little more planning, being able to be on my own, can provide me with more powerful help. But such a brother is destined not to stay around for too long, and is destined to leave.

Because no one can stop their progress, no one can stop their ambitions, and no one can stop their financial path.

This is a very contradictory psychology, just like parents raising children, just ask which parent in the world is not willing to let their children get ahead? To be honest, they are willing, but the more successful the child, the better they tend to develop, the farther they go, and the less time they have to come back.

It's like people's desires, more and more, never stop, to a certain extent will overflow. Whether it is for financial gain, for the sake of future destiny or for their own safety, it is difficult for people to stop.

And those children who have nothing to show up for are often plain and indifferent, and what parent does not want their children to stay by their side more? Since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have been a dilemma.

People are like this, it is impossible to do the best in everything, it is impossible to get everything, it can only be a trade-off. No matter when, people always have to see through this truth. Even if you have been obsessed with not realizing it and not being able to see through it, the reality will always make people see through it one day!

Life is like climbing a mountain, at the foot of the mountain everyone is full of passion, climbing to the middle of the mountain is exhausted, most people can't hold on to it and stop there, so the half of the mountain is always the most crowded. A small number of people, persevering to the end, enjoy the beautiful scenery at the top of the mountain.

Everyone longs to enjoy the beauty of the mountaintop, but some people spend their lives doing nothing and eventually can't reach the top. And those who reach the top of the mountain have more persistence than the average person.

The uphill road of life is often the most difficult to walk. If you can't hold on, maybe walk and walk, and then you retreat. Looking at your current self, living like this, who can blame you?

On days of running in heavy rain, I often cry while running, because I know that there is no way back, and once I stop, I lose. Therefore, even if it is difficult, it can only be insisted.

Sometimes also envy peers, have a good background. At least then, you will live less tired. But when you look back, there is no one behind you. This is truly ridiculous, what reason is there not to work hard, and what qualifications do you have to complain about others?

Since you have chosen a path that you want to take, you must persist no matter how difficult it is. If you don't want to stay in the middle of the mountain, you have to climb up bravely.

If you have tried hard and tried your best to do something, you will not be able to accept your fallen self. The days of hard work are simple and fulfilling, and after the fall, you will be flustered. Others are trying to move forward, but they are always where they are.

Envy others for what they have, complain that they have nothing. I think others are just lucky, and I haven't met good luck once.

At the end of the day, good luck never meets people easily, it only creeps down on people who work hard. In life, most people pass by, and only a few people who insist on changing their lives once have good luck.

If you feel that you are tired of studying, working and living now, then you are walking on the upward slope of life. With every step forward, there is an improvement.

The uphill road is very difficult, and may be paved with thorns, but as long as you insist on moving forward bravely, you will always usher in beautiful scenery.

Put your mindset in balance, put away all your complaints, be down-to-earth, and work hard little by little. If you are not satisfied with your current life and do not want to live your life without doing anything, then work harder. Maybe, you can't live the life you want with hard work, but if you don't work hard, your life must be terrible.

There is no easy way to go in life, and it is especially difficult to choose the path you want to take, but as long as you choose it yourself, you are willing to accept it.

Let go of laziness, block out meaningless social interactions, and light a light on your heart to illuminate the way forward. The uphill road of life must also strive to rush forward. Amazing scenery at the top of the hill that has been waiting for you.

There is a difference in quality between people, and this quality is the difference between good and unkind.

A person who is kind and not kind, as long as he looks at his words, he can know from it that a kind person can control his mouth, do less and do more, speak instead of doing, speak with deeds, and speak with actions, such a person is a kind person, a kind person, and a blessed person.

On the contrary, a person who is not kind is a hypocrite, and such a person always does what he says instead of doing, and only says and does not do, and such a person is not a kind person, a person who does not pay attention to honesty.

The ancients said: "Gentlemen are frank, and villains are long-standing relatives." That is to say, a kind and generous person has a broad heart, can tolerate people, understand people, and do not argue with people when things happen.

More do not fight with others, can control their mouths, restrain their emotions, do things honestly, be serious and serious, be quiet as water, be good as water, have no quarrel with the world, and be the best of yourself.

Villains are different, getting along with people, always selfish, like to talk about others, talk about other people's shortcomings, expose other people's pains, a word of discord, is the combination of bad words, arrogant and domineering.

Being on top of the world, having a few dollars in your hands is great, and such a person, who has heard about it in the news media from time to time, has opened people's eyes.

In the beginning of man, nature is good. People have a good nature at first, but some people are affected by the environment, and some people make some money because of it.

People's hearts have also begun to change, from being kind to being unkind, becoming self-righteous, becoming superior, and so on is the villain Dezhiya!

Unkind people can know from the way he opens his mouth, saying that others are short, talking about their own strengths, in order to elevate themselves, demean others, the purpose is still personality flamboyant, such a person is not kind, people are not kind, do not get good, will develop in the direction of the evil, then can not be restrained.

If you can't control yourself, you will be punished and punished, and you will regret it. Therefore, as a person, we must control our mouths, speak cautiously, and speak well, so that life can be blessed, otherwise, there will be evil retribution.

To control one's mouth is to talk less and do more, people's energy is always limited, everyone's time is equal, 24 hours a day, this is the fairness of god.

A person should spend his energy on doing his work, less singing, there will be no time to gossip, happy to squeeze time to do what he likes to do, and his eyes do not smell things outside the window.

Concentrate on reading only the books of the sages, so that you can clean yourself up and have no time to gossip about others. This is also the dialectic of being a person, the kung fu of being a person lies in being a person, only by saying less and doing more, can you achieve your dream of life.

To be a man is to be afraid of not being diligent, always idle, people will have nothing to do when they are idle, and disasters will come out of the mouth. The ancients said: "Whoever is behind him does not say people, and who is behind him is not said." People have a mouth to speak.

Idle people talk about others, not about their own shortness. Only good people can speak fairly, self-knowledge, and unkind people always speak out of nothing, provoking right and wrong, so as to achieve the purpose of their own selfish desires.

Since ancient times, the sages have warned people to control their mouths, and the ancients said: "Mo said that people are short, Mo Dao is long, every person should not talk randomly, when things are encountered, there is more than one wrongdoer, and there are thousands of friends." This is the wise words of the ancients, bearing in mind the many benefits.

To be a man, you must control your mouth, be a practical person, only say less, control your mouth, you can say less and do more, people will be half kind, and if you only try to be happy on your mouth, you will be troubled from your mouth, and you should learn from it.

Know how to bow your head, not admit defeat. Such a person is strategizing and will surely win a decisive victory! Wise men and wise men never bother with villains.

Don't argue with fools, spend your limited time and energy where it's worthwhile, and bow your head. Only by looking down can we see the road under our feet, and only by looking down can we raise our heads again.

One day, when you understand the true meaning of bowing your head, then you are not far from happiness. Blessed will come, good luck will come, and one after another will follow! As the saying goes, you know how to bow your head to get out.

In life, sometimes, look down to see their own happiness, in order to see their own inadequacies, look up to the happiness is not happiness, look down, the most ordinary life around you, will be full of real happiness.

If you always hold your head high, you will not see your shortcomings, think about it at the right time, reflect on yourself, and find deficiencies, in order to improve yourself, pride makes people backward, and modesty makes people progress. Only by acknowledging the excellence of others can we see our own shortcomings and find our own room for progress.

Know how to bow your head, not admit defeat, let people understand that those who bow their heads are also crossers, but also great wisdom! Know how to bow your head, not admit defeat. Those who have become big things can bend and stretch, and those who do big things are not afraid to bow their heads.

Bowing one's head is an attitude of not arguing in the face of interests and giving in when quarrelling. Bowing down to the people who care about you is a kind of sincere response, and bowing down to the people you care about is a kind of true affection. It's all about respect and respect!

Therefore, sometimes lowering your head and letting go of a step is not a loss, but a disaster. Always remember: don't compete with the garbage guys. As the saying goes: there is steel to make the blade, and it is the pearl of the night and the pearl that shine everywhere!

When it is time to bow your head, you should bow your head, admit that the excellence of others is not shameful, arrogant, and no one in sight is truly ignorant. Bow to people who are better than yourself.

Is a strong person at heart. Learn from good people and be the best version of yourself! Bowing your head in a good situation is a kind of humility, a pattern, and being able to bow your head in times of adversity is a kind of toughness and a kind of strategy.

Know how to bow your head, do not admit defeat, people's life to learn to bow their heads, bowing their heads is a kind of generosity, but also a kind of tolerance, although bowing down is very wronged, but it is a smart choice.

Don't argue with villains, don't argue with fools, and spend your time and energy where you have it. Bow your head, what a compliance. A hundred steels are not as gentle as around the fingers, and the gentleness of the bowed head can just solve thousands of worries.

No old or young in the family bowing their heads is the protection of wisdom, the annoyance of withstanding the humiliation of the crotch has a general who gallops on the battlefield, and the mutual observance of the humble bamboo and the proud bone plum is a universe that bows down and does not bend down, looks up to be a person, and bows down to do things to harvest richly.

People should be able to afford to put down, be upright and upright, bow to excellent people is humble, bow to relatives is for harmony and love, and when encountering villains, bowing their heads is a kind of open-mindedness and open-mindedness.

With a big pattern, a big general demeanor, knowing how to bow your head, you can look up, the grain is ripe, you lower your head, the sunflower is ripe, and you also bow your head. Only when people know how to bow their heads can they raise their heads and judge the hour and size up the situation is the manifestation of the great wisdom of a wise person.

Understand the bowing of the head, not to admit defeat, can become a big thing, not afraid to bow down, bowing down is a state of mind, a measurement, a kind of heart, a kind of understanding, one day, bow your head because you care.

It must be the person you love, who can bow your head is a person with wisdom, be humble and generous, and live a comfortable and relaxed life. When you understand the true meaning of bowing your head, then you are not far from happiness.

When people are at a low point, they struggle hard and ask for help, and there will always be a time to get through the difficulties. Don't give up on yourself, strive for the light, improve yourself, and get better and better! The author's writing is delicate, borrowing things to refer to people and analyzing life.

Showed us the way forward!　Animals know how to bow their heads, but what about that person? Socrates said: The heavens and the earth are only three feet, and man is five feet away, so everyone must know how to bow his head.

In this life, there will always be different bad encounters, different situations, the wind is good for the boat, and the adversity is difficult to survive, so we must understand the benefits of bowing our heads.

Know how to bow your head, not admit defeat. People should know how to bow their heads in life, bowing their heads is not giving up their dignity, and bowing their heads is not humble begging.

Bowing one's head is an attitude, not to argue in the face of interests, to give in when quarrelling, everyone has shortcomings and deficiencies, because of stubbornness, doing wrong things, because of arrogance, hurting people, so sometimes bow your head, let a step, not to suffer losses, but to hide from disasters.

Bowing one's head is a kind of generosity, but also a kind of tolerance. Although it will be very wronged to bow your head, it is a smart choice. We bow our heads, not because we are weak, to fate; nor because we are strong, we do not bow our heads.

The reason why the wheat ear rice bows its head is not cowardice; It is a kind of ability, a kind of character, a kind of demeanor, a kind of open-mindedness, but also a posture of dealing with the world, a strategy of moving forward.

Personality independence, economic independence, only if there is a condition not to bow down, it is possible not to lose. Study, work, as long as you work hard enough to get what you want. However, love is a luxury that you may not be able to get no matter how hard you try.

To bow your head is not to concede defeat. There is a kind of bowing down that actually contains a kind of power, and there is a kind of silence that is a shocking confession! A stupid person will be more truthful in everything, and he will not understand.

The troubles are all self-disturbance, and Wuyou just looks down and smiles. I will not understand, bow your head, not admit defeat, that is a kind of strategy of Taoguang yang obscurity, if you can endure it, bear it!

Instead of fighting with a dog, it is better to let it go first, because it is not honorable to defeat a dog, but it is very unlucky to be bitten by a dog. To be smart, we must learn to love ourselves, we must learn to talk about self-discipline, and we must learn to bow to stupidity!

Thank you for the insight of Junjin ideas, wake up the dreamer, adults know that it is important not to evaluate others, different positions of different cognition, do not comment, compatible and inclusive, gentlemen and different.

Evaluating the stupidity of others is a kind of arrogance, knowing how to bow your head in order to get out, sometimes lowering your head slightly is a kind of tolerance, a kind of competitive avoidance, and a kind of survival wisdom.

To bow your head is not to concede defeat. When one day, you know how to bow your head and be precious, you will find that there are so many vulgarities in this world. And our forbearance does not mean humility, because the one who laughs to the end is the ordinary winner.

Sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty, gathered into the marriage dish, only by tasting it yourself, you know how it tastes, bowing your head, is the tolerance of the countless shortcomings of your partner, everyone has an incomprehensible place, do not be harsh on others, do not have to blame yourself.

The first lesson of marriage should teach us how to understand and tolerate our partners. We need to learn to grasp the degree of bowing our heads, because our ultimate goal is to make our marriage happy.

There should be a bottom line to keep, and to bow your head when you should bow your head. The heart is bigger, and the complexity is simplified.

In the face of family members and elders, there should be a minimum of respect. Life should be good, words should be said well, and different concepts can seek common ground while reserving differences. Think more empathy, the world is beautiful.

To bow your head is not to concede defeat. People who know how to bow their heads are great people, they can do it to bend and stretch their husbands, it is really good to talk about it, there is a kind of bowing down that actually contains a kind of power, and there is a kind of silence that is a shocking confession! Humble bamboo has bowed leaves, and proud bone plum has no back flower.

The sign of realistic maturity is a state of softness around the fingers of a hundred steels, soft and rigid and advanced and retreated, is a humble posture, and the timely bowing of the head is a sign of maturity.

Is a kind of wisdom of trade-offs, sometimes there is a glimmer of light when looking down, looking down opens another window for yourself, if you know how to bow your head at the right time in life, there will be more resilience, a tension and maturity in life.

People who have the heart to be together, no matter how loud the noise, will find their own steps, and the speed will return to good; the centrifugal person, no matter how small the awkwardness, will also take the opportunity to find an excuse to slip away, he knows that you are not happy, but he does not want to coax.

When I think of a long life to spend with a person who can only worry about it, and does not know how to coax himself and let himself live, he feels full of sorrow and is not worth it for himself.

To bow your head is not to concede defeat. In fact, bowing your head is not necessarily low for yourself, who does not have a wife and children, old and young, because of the responsibility to worry, everything must be considered and thought twice, maybe your stubbornness, a willfulness, will make the original stability ruined.

When one day, your value and ability expand infinitely, do not choose the torrent to retreat and bow your head in time, you will become a potential threat, this threat feedback to the other side, that is, to divide it quickly.

Therefore, big things and small things have similarities, or it is better to bow your head and be a person, this conservative way of dealing with the world will bless you with peace in your life.

As the saying goes, he is crazy by him, and the bright moon shines on the river; he crosses by him, and the breeze blows the hills! Knowing how to bow your head and not show your sharp edge is a way of doing things.

Knowing how to bow one's head is to master a very high philosophy of handling things, pretending to lose, and being able to look at the appearance without sharpness, but the heart is full of contempt, I believe that he will use countless times to bow his head in exchange for the final success.

Know how to bow your head, not admit defeat. Yesterday can never become today, people are good and people deceive the sky, and those who understand the bowing of their heads are letting go of each other, but also letting go of themselves. He was crazy by him, and the bright moon shone on the river.

There is a kind of silence that is a confession. When things happen, they don't panic and don't shout, bow their heads and turn around wordlessly to avoid disaster. Know how to bow your head, not admit defeat.

It's not a fear, it's a wise choice. A good marriage knows how to bow its head, bowing its head is love, bowing down is understanding and tolerance, and only when couples know how to bow their heads can marriage be happy and satisfying, and it is easy to love each other.

It is difficult to get along with a harmonious family to rely on two people to tolerate, understand, learn to empathize and understand the feelings of respecting each other, and should know how to cherish. Marriages that know how to bow down to each other will be happy, and when we first got married, we all ran for a lifetime.

But a lifetime, how long. Two people always have one person to bow their heads first, as long as it is good for marriage, bow their heads first, in fact, there is nothing, learn to bow their heads, lose for a while and not lose a lifetime. That's a great quote!

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