Hangzhou's mother was shocked to hear that her daughter was watching "Norwegian Forest": "It's over!" There are large indescribable sexual depictions in the book, and she has seen them all! Oh, my God! "Her daughter is in sixth grade and has only just entered puberty. (Source: Qianjiang Evening News)
Norwegian Forest is a world-famous book written by the Japanese writer Haruki Harukami, who also helped Harukami to be nominated for the Nobel Prize in Literature. When the book was first released in China, it was also popular for a while, loved by young people, and its content was partly about sensitive adult descriptions, and it was also a topic of media discussion at that time. In my impression, parents at that time also discussed the question of whether such a book could be read by children.
As far as the law is concerned, the book "Norwegian Forest" is a regular translation, publication and distribution, and after three reviews and three proofreadings, it is a legal publication. Theoretically, as long as it is a legal publication, the child can read normally. However, the sensitive content in the book does belong to the category of adult reading, which is difficult for conservative parents to accept.
I think this topic can be said from both objective and subjective aspects:
From an objective point of view, our country's books do not implement a grading system, and although some books belong to legal books, it is obvious that there is a range of age. Adolescents' premature exposure to adult sensitive content, coupled with the restlessness caused by adolescent sex hormones, has a certain impact on the physical and mental health of adolescents. The content of written text is more likely to cause adolescents' sexual fantasies and curiosity than pictures, and when curiosity cannot be satisfied, adolescents are prone to take some actions that parents do not want to see.
On a subjective level, different types of children will inevitably take different ways of sexual enlightenment. For children who are more correct in words and deeds and treat sensitive topics more indifferently, parents are suitable for adopting a more open education method to let children understand the adult world as soon as possible. However, for children who behave incorrectly and learn badly when they encounter bad things, parents are definitely more willing to adopt conservative educational methods.
I think that this parent does not have to worry too much, the child is reading the world's masterpieces, love to read itself is a good thing, although the content of the book has adult sensitive content, but if the parents do not overemphasize, the child generally looks at it. The more intense the parents' reaction, the more sensitive the child feels that such a thing is, which is easy to arouse the child's curiosity. The more parents prohibit it, the more the child loves to see it, and in the end it avoids the parents to see it.
If parents are very concerned about their children's early contact with the adult world, I recommend that parents plan in their children's reading lists, usually prepare books for children according to their children's interests, and stipulate some reading tasks for children from time to time. Take up your child's reading time with books that you think are reasonable, and your child will naturally not be exposed to these books that surprise you.