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Before, a good friend posted two photos in the circle of friends, one is a photo of her current, and the other is a photo taken with her parents when she was a child, forming a stark contrast.
This friend is the kind of person who looks very good, basically can't fault anything, better looking than many celebrities, but her parents are really not good-looking.
Her father's face was long horizontally, and apart from his relatively straight nose, his mouth was quite delicate, and his eyes were almost invisible.
Her mother's face is very good-looking, but the bridge of her nose is collapsed, her lips are turned outwards, and her eyes are more beautiful.
As a result, this girl, big eyes and double eyelids, small melon face, high nose bridge, and a delicate mouth, the key skin is also very white, simply pick out the advantages of her parents.
Many friends left messages expressing incredulity, and she replied: "My parents said that when they gave birth to me, they were holding a ruler to measure, and there is nothing wrong with it!" ”
She is the standard will pick, specifically pick the parents of the advantages of the long, although the parents look medium and low, but gave birth to such a beautiful daughter as her.
Who is the longest of the "Second Generation of Stars"?
The second generation of stars has its own aura, and many of them have received everyone's attention from birth.
It is probably driven by curiosity to see what their children can look like under the genes of their parents.
Chen Kun, an immortal male god.
Of course, the immortal male god is not unexplained, Huang Xiaoming mentioned in the show before that Chen Kun applied the mask more times than the actress, which shows that the exquisite appearance is maintained with time.
However, although Chen Kun's son said that the image is good, it is incomparable with his father, but fortunately, after the boy grows up, he has self-confidence and charm, which is much stronger than when he was a child.
Sun Li, when he was young, was very stunning, Deng Chao was also a good image, their sons and so on did not surprise everyone, the appearance is still relatively average.
Speaking of the second generation of the president's star, it has to be mentioned that Dong Jie and Pan Yueming's son Dingding, and Cao Ying's son, these two children are really too long, the top comes with a melancholy temperament, Cao Ying's son comes with a "domineering president" temperament, simply not too good.
The son of "old cadre" Jin Dong is also a very long-term type of person, much better than his father.
Wu Jing's son may not have grown up, and the future is about to take the "tough guy" image, at present, it is still like a little more like the mother, but it has not picked the advantages of the mother.
Will there be a "bias" in heredity?
Regarding the inheritance of children, folk are more inclined to say "bias".
For example, a daughter's appearance is easier to follow her father, and her son's appearance is easier to follow her mother.
In fact, there is no scientific basis for these, but the experience summarized by everyone.
In fact, whether it is a boy or a girl, when genetic, it is random, and there is no sign that the boy follows the mother and the girl follows the father.
The child's face has the common characteristics of father and mother, so when viewed alone, the child is like both the mother and the father.
When the child grows up, the boy and the girl have more prominent characteristics, and the gap is still very large compared with when they were young.
Heredity is entirely dependent, and parents cannot interfere, because the child's physical characteristics have become a foregone conclusion from the moment the fertilized egg is formed.
Therefore, neither the diet during pregnancy nor the habits of pregnancy can change this established fact.
What is the acquired environment affecting a child's appearance?
Although the child's facial features and appearance have been determined from the beginning, the child's behavior habits and living habits will still affect the child's overall image.
For example, a child who sleeps with his mouth open for a long time, even if the facial features are very delicate at the beginning, as the child grows up, the child's entire face will become more and more collapsed, the face shape will become longer and longer, and the teeth, mouth, nose and jaw will be affected.
For example, if a child uses the habit of picking nostrils with little fingers, the nostrils will become larger and larger, and finally become "facing the nose", and the first thing a face will see will be a pair of large nostrils, which will also seriously affect the child's appearance.
In addition, some of the child's regular behavior habits will also affect the development of bones. For example, if a child likes to hold his chin and develops such a habit, the shape of the child's face is easily affected.
In addition, in terms of body shape, it has a greater impact on the overall image of the child.
For parents, instead of worrying about the child's facial features, it is better to worry more about the child's living habits and eating habits, so that the child can develop good living habits and eating habits from an early age.
From an early age, let children correctly understand the "appearance" thing
Appearance is not something that the child can decide on his own, nor can he or her parents decide, but looks do have a greater impact on the child.
If it is not handled properly, there will be problems with the child's three views, so the inferiority, sensitivity, or self-esteem will affect the child's fate.
We should instill the correct thinking in our children from an early age, so that children can correctly understand "beauty and ugliness", and will not be affected by it, let alone be affected by the evaluation of others.
If the child can do this, ignore the appearance, and move forward down-to-earth, it means that the parents have given the child the correct guidance and education.
How can children ignore their looks, whether they are beautiful or ugly?
For children with outward superiority: The first lesson on "appearance" given to children is that telling children that good looks does not mean anything, but is a disadvantage, and it is easier for people to ignore their innermost beings, so they must work harder to make themselves more fulfilling.
For children who look good, what parents should do is to try not to praise the child's appearance, but to praise the child's efforts, and often remind the child to be a person with a full heart.
In this way, although children will often hear praise from others in the process of growing up, they have preconceived notions and have a more correct understanding of their appearance, and they will not be affected.
For children who are not good-looking: If the child does not have a physical advantage, on the contrary, they look ugly, at this time, what parents have to do is to constantly cheer the child up and enhance the child's self-confidence.
Tell the child that the correct treatment of appearance, the correct treatment of others' attitude and evaluation, so that the child feels the praise and affirmation of parents.
The child will become a confident and optimistic child in the affirmation and praise of the parents.
Raising children requires patience, care, and methods, and I believe that when parents are attentive enough, children will grow in a better direction.