Parents are there, life still has a place to come; parents go, life is only the way home.
The fate of parents and children is only a few decades, and the time they really spend together may not add up to 10 years. As we get older, farther and farther away from our parents, and more and more time away, maybe one day we will look back and find that our parents do not know when they have left us.
We always think of our parents at some point, think of the happy times from childhood to adulthood, but some things can't go back no matter how beautiful they are, and some people can't see them anymore, such as our parents.
The man wanted to see his mother after drinking
On January 12, in Baoji, Shaanxi Province, a man in his fifties drank some wine. The man was a little depressed that day, he poured himself a drink at the dinner table alone, and his drinking volume was not very good, so a few glasses of wine were a little dizzy.
The man stood up, walked out of the kitchen, wanted to open the door, his wife sat on the couch chasing the drama, saw the man drinking with a flushed face to go out, his wife stopped him, asked: "Big night, where are you going?" ”
When the man heard his wife ask him, he turned around, looked at his wife and replied very seriously, "Go see your mother." ”
The wife comforted the man to accompany him to see his mother another day
The wife was a little surprised to hear this, because her mother-in-law had been dead for 8 years, how could her husband say such a thing? Did you really drink too much? So the wife asked again, "Where are you going to see your mother?" Is my mom still here? ”
The man did not realize that he said the wrong thing, or he may have really drunk too much, he could not distinguish between reality and illusion, he heard his wife ask, he did not return to God, and he also went outside, and his wife asked: "Is our mother still here?" ”
The man looked back at his wife, who didn't know the meaning of her question, and was a little puzzled, and replied, "Yes, in my brother's house." ”
The wife knew that he had drunk too much, and she thought of her mother, so she did not say broken, but said to him: "Now that it is dark, my mother has gone to sleep, you have to see your mother tomorrow, you go to sleep first, I will accompany you to see your mother tomorrow." ”
The man's brother lives in the countryside, his mother is not used to living in the city, so in his later years he lives with his brother, and the man will take his wife and children to the countryside every weekend to see his mother, and his relationship with his mother is very good.
8 years ago, the mother fell ill and died, the man was very sad, thinking of the mother on the tears, think that the time to spend with the mother before is too little, and the mother did not feel anything when she was alive, and when the mother died, she found that wanting to see the mother at a glance has become a luxury.
Maybe people are like this, when they have it, they don't cherish it, and they can't regret it when they lose it.
Some netizens said: He usually misses his mother, hallucinates after drinking, give him some comfort, don't let him go out, in case something happens, it is not good.
Some netizens said: Even if they are 80 years old, they are also their mother's treasure.
Some netizens also felt the same way, saying that their mother had also died for a few years, and it was okay not to return to their hometown, and when they returned to their hometown, they felt that their mother was still there.
Although the man thinks of his mother after drinking, the first person who thinks of him when he is drunk must be the person he loves the most in his heart. Although her mother has been dead for many years, she has always lived in the heart of a man, and her love has always been with him.
I want to hold your warm palms as before, but you are not by my side, take the breeze to go to health, time slow down, don't let you get old again, I am willing to exchange everything I have for your years
The most powerless thing in the world to change is that our parents are getting old, and there is nothing we can do but watch them grow old day by day until they finally leave us.
I think that since we can't let our parents stay with us forever, the only thing we can do is to do our best to give them warmth and companionship, and not to wait until they are gone before regretting it.
The tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, the son wants to raise and not to be close, filial piety to parents, accompany parents, from this moment on.