Want to talk and stop, the wind and waves of the skin bag, ah, all these years toiled themselves.
When it comes to marriage, there is no one who does not want to turn a new wine into an aging wine and taste its mellow taste.
But this fast-moving society, we are too busy.
With a family and children, time is even less time.
In order to earn money to support the family, busy at work, busy with business trips, busy with projects; in order to take care of the elderly and children, busy buying vegetables, tutoring homework, picking up various interest classes, but forgetting each other's hard work, grateful for each other's efforts.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: A person's loneliness is not terrible, it is terrible to have a partner after the loneliness.
Let's take a look at a case study
Zhang Yu worked hard in Shanghai at the age of 32, and after 5 years, he has also made small achievements, has his own company, and has his own world. In the past 5 years, my wife has been doing Taobao with her children in her hometown. The two are busy all over the place, do not interfere with each other, each has his own circle, and life has become what you look like I don't want to see.
His wife was worried that he would work hard at night, did not want to take his children to live in Shanghai, and said that he would be very good if he did not see it. Don't interfere with each other's business, just think of having a home.
Who has made money? Home is not home, life is not life, husband and wife are not husband and wife, not even living together.
Old age, who pays for life, children?
Behind the glamorous life is the bitterness that cannot be endured.
The desired result is not necessarily a satisfactory result, balancing the family life is a woman's lifelong career, tolerant of herself and kind to her lover.
Zhang Yu, who was slightly drunk, said: I wore a straight suit all day, talked with the big guys about the past and the present, sought the way of enterprise development, and also lived like a person, and returned to a person's residence every night.
Walking into the empty room, there was a lake of water in the eye socket. The cold room, the cool bed, the money in my hand can't be exchanged for the gentleness I want at this time.
Take a quick bite to work, drink a glass of wine late at night, and fall asleep only when you're drunk. The cutlery in the small kitchen has been thick with a layer of ash, the daughter-in-law has not come again the last time, and the last time it was, it seems to have forgotten.
Count the days on earth
Zhang Yu went home every half a month to visit relatives and also slept in separate beds, and the little thing between the husband and wife became a fulfilling job, and afterwards his wife insisted on returning to her room, and the name was so good that it was so difficult to sleep together with the bed for a night.
Zhang Yu watched the moment she walked out of the room door in her pajamas. Is he really in the human world, he pinched himself several times.
He followed her steps out of the room that was still warm just now, sat in the living room and smoked one cigarette after another, for the first time he found that the soot looked cool, and for the first time spit out the smoke in circles.
The sweetness of love fades, when the marriage is flat, the passion is gone in the chai rice oil and salt, and there is nothing left in life.
Get used to each other's habits, and life will not have a ripple.
The only thing that can recognize the legal relationship is a marriage certificate.
If you win the luck of love and the fruits of cash, do you really win life?
Zhang Yu said that the moment his daughter-in-law closed her door, all the loneliness was permeated with a trace of cool air on the back of her tight body.
He watched as her back disappeared from sight, and the woman seemed to walk into the room that was only hers without a trace of emotion.
He lay on the couch brushing various apps, when the phone slipped and when he went to sleep. It was as if the arrival of the night was only for tomorrow to pretend to be happy, and then to greet a late night that was not wanted and had to be wanted.
People look like they have a successful career and a happy family, fooling others into deceiving themselves.
The essence of forming a family is love, although it is busy and tired, do not forget to comfort each other, run life and marriage together, only in this way will love become more and more aged, and it will become sweet with time.