Remember in "Journey to the West", the Supreme Treasure said: How to save you without wearing a golden hoop? Wearing a golden hoop, how to love you?
In the same way, when people reach middle age and become parents, why not?
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A mother in the subway, because she was too tired, kept dozing off. The little boy was distressed by his mother and said to his mother:
"Mom, go to sleep, I'll call you when you get to the station."
Then he kept this posture, listening intently to the radio station.
Almost every parent is greedy and wants to earn the whole world for their children.
Cruelly, many parents have spent all their energy and time providing their children with the most basic life. But they still do their best to give their children the best they can.
An anonymous netizen in Zhengzhou wrote his story:
This time, I took a long vacation and returned to Zhengzhou to find a job. Mom and Dad worked on construction during the day, from 7 a.m. to 8 p.m.
After the project was completed, Dad took over the work of repairing the flower bed, and Mom was finally able to rest for a day.
One evening, my mother did not know where to learn that there was a job to do at night, 250 yuan for men and 180 yuan for women. When my dad heard about it, he agreed without hesitation. I was distressed, said don't go, it's hard to rest once, my mother said it's not easy to get the opportunity, can't miss ...
When I came back the next day, my mother only slept for more than 3 hours and got up to make dumplings because I would be going back to school tomorrow. My father continued to repair the flower bed, and did not close his eyes for two days and one night.
Every time I think of my parents saying that the food at the construction site is very good, how much money the two have earned in the past few days, and saying that the shoulder pain makes me pinch, my heart hurts.
Saying so much just want to record it, afraid that I only care about my own pleasure, afraid that I will not work hard after graduation, afraid that I will not be angry, afraid that I will forget the suffering of my parents.
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As a parent, for the sake of the years in the eyes of the loved ones, carrying the burden of responsibility like a mountain, it is most gratifying to be understood by children.
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It has been said that all love in the world is for encounter, and only the love of parents and children is for separation.
It's just that for some children, this separation comes too early and is too cruel.
Her name is "Plus One", and she was not yet 1 year old when her parents went out to work, and she and her brother have been living with her grandparents all these years.
Image from the public welfare documentary "Plus One"
When Kaichi's parents once again embarked on the journey back to work, Kaichi did not cry in front of his parents and begged them not to leave, but ran to the room alone, covered by a quilt, and sobbed quietly.
Grandpa comforted Jiayi: "Play with you at home, where there is money to build a house and build a house." ”
The parents outside the door also had red eyes, and even if they did not give up, they still embarked on a journey of separation.
When it comes to the two children left behind in the family, Jiayi's mother is very sad and feels that the husband and wife owe too much to the children.
But if you don't go out to work, where are the financial resources to support the family, and where do the children's tuition and living expenses come from?
"Only born and not raised? We are separated from each other and are forced to do so.
Working at night and staying up with angina, I couldn't help but cry at the thought of my children, just hoping that they would come out and never live a life like ours again. ”
There are no pairs of parents in the world who do not want to be with their children at all times and witness their children's growth, but life is extremely cruel to these left-behind families.
Giving up companionship does not mean that these parents are evading their responsibilities, they love their flesh and blood like the parents of the world.
For them, giving up companionship may be the best option when it comes to making ends meet.
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Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Fuping have been working outside for many years, and the two children who stayed at home were brought up by their parents. Whenever it comes to going out to work and leaving, children and the elderly are clinging to each other, especially children, crying a mess.
Zhang Fuping said: "When I left, I cried a little, the old one cried, we also cried, no way, the mother cried even more, and I pretended not to see it as a father." ”
In order to save money for the two children to study and build a house for the family, the husband and wife save money and can earn thirty or forty thousand yuan a year for the family.
They also want to end this kind of life as soon as possible, but there are still many places to spend money in the family, and they can't stop yet.
Only when you are old and can't move, maybe you can return to your hometown to reunite with the elderly and children.
Chen Han, a migrant worker singer in Shaanxi, is also deeply touched by this separation. The song "Concern", which he composed based on his own experiences and feelings, touched many people who went out to work.
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Would love to make a phone call
Boy are you okay?
I look forward to it every day
Dad wanted to go home too
Left home
Always concerned about you
No matter how busy you are
Always wanted to make a phone call
I often think of what you said
I often think of you hanging on your cheeks in tears
Dear baby
Are you tall?
Are you still obedient
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This year's Spring Festival, there is a video of the circle of friends, telling a train conductor because of duty, the Spring Festival can not go home, had to let the sister take her son to the platform to meet, the time is only three minutes.
The train arrives at the station, but she first needs to maintain order and beckon passengers to get off the train safely.
The crowd was bustling, and the child worked hard to come to his mother's side.
Mother and son finally hugged each other tightly, but the first sentence the child said was to start memorizing the nine-nine multiplication table...
She suddenly remembered what she said the last time she left her son,
"If you still can't remember the multiplication table, you can't go to the elementary school in our town, let alone see your mother."
As the minutes and seconds passed, there was only the sound of children reciting the recitation table on the platform.
She tried to stop it, and her sister said, "Let the child memorize it, he has been preparing for a few days and nights." ”
It was too late, the conductor was urging her, and she hurriedly hugged the child and hurried to get on the train.
The child stood where he was, and recited "nine nine eighty-one"...
Children, when you go out to work, you can't hold you, and when you put down your work, you can't raise you, I'm sorry.
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A netizen collected some of the statements made by the parents of migrant workers:
□ "There is no way to do this, ordinary people are like this, running around for the sake of their children and for their families." Work hard to earn money, go home early, strive to get back to your child as soon as possible, and don't miss the time spent with him. ”
□ "The two people are busy with their respective work every day, thinking of their mischievous son at home, a peaceful life. In order to give my son better, I desperately earn money, and everyone is the same. ”
□ "Time is passing, the thoughts are going on, child, may you be well, and my heart will be settled."
□ "It's really painful to miss your son, and my son's mother wants to see you asleep." The thought of what he said tickled my heart, and I longed to go back immediately..."
□ "Yesterday there was a day of strong wind, I also missed my son very much, I thought about going to the building after work to video with him for a while, I was notified of the meeting at dinner, the end was more than eight o'clock, the wind was still continuing, I couldn't wait to open the video, my son was particularly happy to see me, and then I didn't know if it was too late, or I couldn't touch me and cry, almost aroused my tears."
□ "Today is my son's birthday, the pain when I gave birth to my son eleven years ago is unbearable, and the pain of missing my son eleven years later is even more indescribable." Now, I can only silently wish my son a happy birthday in a distant place! Be in good health! Have fun every day!"
□ "Missing is torturous, I would like to fly home immediately, but life is realistic, in order to earn money to endure a lot, miss my son, I will soon try to take my son, live with us, away from the pain of this miss, live a happy life." 」
□ "On the 693rd day, it became a habit to miss my son. Some people laughed at me for being too contrived and exaggerated, but I could only use the daily check-in to dispel my thoughts about my son. ”
Survival is heavy, and the love for children is very heavy.
For parents, life is a difficult belief, and everyone's hardships are varied and endless.
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In the winter, next to a stall selling cakes, a couple is chatting with their children on video, they are shivering in the cold wind, but their faces are full of smiles.
No matter how hard it is to earn money outside, as long as you see the child, it is worth it to hear the child's laughter.
She carries a trip of building materials to the top of the mountain, she can earn 20 yuan, she can carry ten times a day, she can earn 200 yuan, adding up, she has to use her body to transport 2,000 pounds, that is, a ton of building materials.
She said, "The money is to provide for the doll to read, and the doll reads the book to have a future." ”
This sanitation uncle, for the gymnastics dream of the daughter of the garden, ate 2 tons of clean water noodles for 7 years, just to save two dollars a day. In order not to wronged the child, I had to wronged myself.
Seeing what a netizen said, I was touched and sad:
Out to dinner, a big brother in his 40s at the next table, every time he toasts to the customers in their 20s on the other side, the waist is almost bent into 90 degrees, and a glass of white wine goes down to the stomach.....
When I went to the bathroom, I saw that he was vomiting, and at this time his mobile phone rang, and the father, who had just whispered, said proudly at this time: "Girl, you can go abroad with confidence!" Don't worry about tuition! Dad can afford it! ”
In reality, why isn't this scene playing out all the time?
In fact, many parents know in their hearts that it is not easy to give their children an ordinary and quiet life.
But they will still try their best to do more for their children.
Parents raise us, protect us,
The best is always left to us;
Whenever danger comes,
They didn't hesitate to stand in front of us.
As children, we carry gratitude and guilt;
As parents, we know the difficulties and difficulties.
May every child who is not at the side of his parents,
Are healthy and happy to grow;
May every parent who goes out to work,
All persistence and dedication are rewarded;
May everyone who strives to live,
Can be treated gently by the world.
(This article comes from Henan Education Network, please indicate the source when reprinting)