"I thought love was too late, but in fact, it was too late."
In ancient times, there was Li Qingzhao, and nearly there was Lin Huiyin. There are not many excellent women in history, and Lin Huiyin should be one of them.
When you think of Lin Huiyin, what do you think, is it talented, is it beautiful and dignified, or is Lin Liang's good? The answer is disappointing, because now many people only know the story of Lin Huiyin and the three men, and know that Bing Xin has nothing to do with her old death, but this is not the real Lin Huiyin.
What is the word "sir", people say that the master is the first, And Lin Huiyin's achievements in literature can be called Mr. The belly has a poetic and bookish atmosphere, and the combination of appearance and talent is a goddess. Countless women in history, there are few people who can be called gentlemen, Mr. Lin Huiyin deserves it, you ask why, and listen to me to praise it.
There are not many people I admire, and even fewer people can be called "Sir" in my heart, and I have the privilege of knowing Lin Huiyin in my lifetime.
"The great concubine emblem sound, then the baisi man", this is the origin of Lin Huiyin's name (later changed to be in), does it feel very cultured at first hearing? But this sentence in the poem praises the fact that Da Ji can have a son, which shows lin Huiyin's parents' desire for a son. The fact is also that the mother's three children only survived, and when she was eight years old, her father Lin Changmin married another Chen family, but gave birth to four sons in a row.
The resentment of the mother's loss of favor fell on Du Lin Huiyin in his childhood, the only way to escape was to study, the Lin family is a family of scholars, and Lin Huiyin's aunt is also very talented, it is she who gave the unfortunate Lin Huiyin of childhood a place to rest her soul.
When she was sixteen years old, she traveled with her father to Europe, and these insights made her truly understand the world, and after returning to China, she often participated in the activities of the Crescent Society, and also performed dramas in English. During this period, she began to write new poems and became a well-known rookie in the literary world.
At the age of 16, he met the 24-year-old talented Xu Zhimo, the romantic Xu Zhimo, who retired from the original match, intending to pursue Lin; a few years later, the father of Chinese logic- Jin Yuelin (logic!). This is a really great discipline) appeared, also abandoned his American girlfriend Qin Lilian, and this chase is a lifetime of not marrying a red face.
But Lin Huiyin finally chose Liang Sicheng, the classic love story on the wedding day -
Liang asked, "Why did you choose me?" ”
Lin replied: "The answer is very long, I have to spend my whole life to answer." ”
"The answer is long, and I have to answer it with my whole life."
Lin Huiyin is happy, Xu Zhimo loved her all her life, Liang Sicheng accompanied her all her life, Jin Yuelin waited for her all her life...
Before the marriage, Liang Sicheng asked Lin Huiyin: "There is a sentence, I only ask this time, and I will not ask again in the future, why me?" Lin Huiyin replied: "The answer is very long, I have to spend my whole life to answer you, are you ready to listen to me?" After marriage, Liang Sicheng once wittily said to a friend: "There is a Chinese saying: 'The article is your own good, and your wife is the good of others.'" But for me, the wife is my own good, and the article is the wife's good. ”
One day, When Liang Sicheng returned from abroad, Lin Huiyin told him in frustration: "I am very distressed, because I am in love with two people at the same time, and I don't know what to do?"
Liang Sicheng was very shocked after listening to it, an indescribable pain enveloped him, after a night of ideological struggle, although he was in pain, but thinking of the strengths of another man, he resolutely told Lin Huiyin: "You are free, if you choose Jin Yuelin, I wish you eternal happiness." And Lin Huiyin, not only did not leave him, but was very moved to say a word to Liang Sicheng that all men in the world could not refuse: You gave me the unbearable weight in my life, and I will use my life to repay!
"It's often love that really changes your destiny."
Needless to say, the family is not a place where the full value of women is fully demonstrated.
Lin Huiyin is not trapped in this.
During her year and a half trip to Europe, she met the "architecture" she had worked for all her life.
Where she was renting at the time, the landlady was an architect and often spoke about architecture.
Greatly affected, Lin Hui often wandered the streets of London and was obsessed with the construction of various buildings.
As a teenager, in her grandfather's study, she had read books on architectural drawings, and now all of them had come to life in her brain.
But the theory of construction was only in the hands of a few craftsmen in China, and schools did not offer courses in this area.
Lin Huiyin was eager to achieve it.
It is often love that really changes destiny.
After returning to China, Lin Huiyin revealed this tendency in his conversation with Liang Sicheng.
Liang Sicheng fell in love with Lin Huiyin at first sight and also decided to study this subject.
He said:
"I didn't even know what architecture was, but Huin said it was a discipline that included art and engineering technology. I loved painting and then chose this major. ”
With the financial support of Liang Qichao, they went to the University of Pennsylvania to study architecture.
But at that time, women were not yet independent, and architecture departments in the United States did not accept female students.
Lin Huiyin had to curve to realize his dream, first entered the Fine Arts Department, and then entered the Architecture Department as a teaching assistant to achieve his wish.
Love let Lin Huiyin invest in the study, and even obsessed with Liang Sicheng happy marriage, honeymoon travel has also become an architectural investigation.
They played while drawing drawings, leaving valuable information for the future establishment of Chinese architecture.
After returning to China, Lin Huiyin and his wife founded the Department of Architecture at Northeastern University and trained the first batch of architectural talents in China.
She treats her students very strictly.
In addition to the mastery of theoretical knowledge, the requirements are extremely detailed, and the students' paintings are also required to keep up.
The student did not draw well, and she reprimanded her in person that "it was not painted by a person", which was far from the tender and talented woman in everyone's mouth.
But the students admired her so much that they called her "Mr. Lin".
As a woman, an intellectual, and a patriot, her life is perfect, just like Jin Yuelin wrote to her: "A poetic thousand waterfalls, a monthly day on earth." ”
I say to those who ignore the facts for the sake of eyeballs, yes, you have succeeded. Is it sad, yes, because no one wants to chase after the inner being anymore. But I am not sad, because I know, I understand, I call sir, this is enough, eight words: the private for a time, the public for eternity!
May the rest of your life be well and long-lasting!
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Author: Fifth Young Master. A young-looking old man who indulges in dreams every day!
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