Wen/Xiao Jia'er said
"No matter how bitter you are, you can't be bitter about your children, and no matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education" has become the creed of many parents to educate their children.
In today's society, there is competition everywhere, and if you are not careful, you may be left behind by your peers. Parents may also not want their children to repeat their mistakes, or want their children to become better than themselves.
So from the kindergarten stage began to look for the best for the child, want to let the child receive the best education. However, in addition to education, many parents are also worried about the safety of their children in kindergartens.
It has been exposed that kindergarten teachers have "bullied" students
The Internet is really a good thing, allowing people to understand things thousands of miles away at all times, and at the same time, some gray and dark events have been exposed, which has triggered controversy in the whole society.
Take the relevant kindergarten teachers in 2021 "bullying" students, which has also been exposed a lot. Some kindergartens are also scolded by society for the behavior of a teacher, which eventually leads to the reluctance of parents to send their children there.
In order to reassure parents, the kindergarten will install monitoring in all corners to facilitate parents to check the status of their children at all times. But in some small corners, there may still be no monitoring, and parents will start to worry about everything about their children.
However, in some cases, the excessive concern of parents will have a counterproductive effect, or directly chill the kindergarten teacher, and it is difficult to balance this matter.
Kindergarten teachers choose to leave after seeing what is in the pockets of students
Yingying is a kindergarten teacher, the reason why she chose to engage in this profession is also because she likes children, every day with these children to learn, play is a very happy thing, throughout the kindergarten Yingying teacher widely praised.
One day, when Yingying was playing with the children, she found that a child's pants were wet, so Yingying's teacher immediately took the children to change clothes, but found a problem when changing clothes.
When changing the child's clothes, he was shocked by what fell out of the child's clothes pocket, at first glance, Teacher Yingying thought it was a pen, but a closer look was indeed a voice recorder that resembled the shape of a pen.
At that moment, Yingying felt that she was very wronged, obviously she was already taking good care of the children, and the children in her class had never had problems, and the parents' behavior was not to worry about themselves?
Think of the fact that the child's parents were very reassured about themselves at that time, and the child ran and fell a few days ago, and he was not injured. But Yingying still apologized to her parents with great guilt, but the parents said very clearly that it was okay, and it was common for children to bump into each other.
But unexpectedly, the parents directly put the voice recorder in the child's pocket, and Teacher Yingying also began to think about her profession every day, but now she was suspected by the parents, and she decided to apply to the kindergarten the next day to leave.
Although the parents apologized afterwards, it also left a shadow in the hearts of the kindergarten teachers
On the day of the incident, the parents of the students knew about this matter, and also chatted privately with Teacher Yingying and apologized at night, Yingying did not say anything, and also expressed understanding of the parents' feelings.
But the next day she still proposed to leave her job without hesitation, and she herself said that she understood the parents' feelings of not trusting their children, but the thought of being so distrusted would still leave a psychological shadow.
In fact, this feeling has appeared in many kindergarten teachers, who know that their small salaries have to worry about such various things, and if they really don't like children, it is really difficult to stick to it.
Although the behavior of parents is understandable, after all, the child is the hope of a family, but this distrust will still increase the gap between parents and teachers, and even affect the feelings of teachers and students.
analyse:
If you stand on either side of the point of view, everyone is doing no problem, parents want to protect their children, teachers want to work well.
In fact, from my personal point of view, most teachers are serious and responsible, especially kindergarten teachers can better take care of children. As for why there was a crack between parents and teachers before, I think there was still no effective communication.
Parents and teachers, how to deal with the relationship between the two parties?
There is an old saying that "good things don't go out and bad things spread far and wide", and the reason why parents are wary of teachers is also because they are affected by these negative news, but in fact, these cases are only a very small number.
Every teacher enters the job the moment he or she enters the post for the sake of peach and plum instead of doing bad behavior towards children. It is good for parents to have a certain degree of vigilance, but also pay attention to the scale not to hurt the teacher's heart too much.
Again, communication is the lubricant between each other. If you want to maintain a good relationship between parents and teachers, you should actively communicate, after all, the ultimate goal of both sides is for the good of the child.
Parents can communicate with the teacher about the problems encountered by the child, and ask the teacher how to educate the child; the teacher can communicate with the parents about the difficulties that the child is encountering and help the parents solve the problem.
In short, as long as everyone can reassure each other, the other party will certainly be at ease. At the same time, I also hope that the kindergarten can give a better solution, do not let parents worry and teachers chill.
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