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Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman were both famous talented women and celebrities during the Republic of China, but their fates were completely different. Originally, their starting point was the same, both of them were born in a very wealthy family, but they embarked on a completely different life trajectory. Lin Huiyin married Liang Sicheng, who fought with her for the construction cause, while Lu Xiaoman married Xu Zhimo, who died young. A child in his old age is on his knees, and one is indeed lonely and old. So what exactly is the reason that caused the completely different fate of the two "rich adopted daughters"?
First, the way of education is different
Lin Huiyin was born in a family of scholars, and her father was Lin Changmin, a famous scholar in the early years of the Republic of China. Lin Changmin's education of Lin Huiyin was different from most of the children of the rich family at that time, and he paid more attention to the education of Lin Huiyin's inner cultivation and insight.
When Lin Huiyin was 2 years old, Lin Changmin went to Japan to study. Lin Huiyin has been in contact with Lin Changmin's correspondence since he was a child, including many of his father's high talk and ambitions. In such an environment, Lin Huiyin has been different from some women who only care about small families since she was a child, and her ambitions are more ambitious and open. When Lin Huiyin was 16 years old, Lin Changmin took her to Europe to study. Lin Changmin once said: "Ru temporarily left the tedious life of the family, so as to expand his vision and cultivate the insight and ability to improve the society in the future..." This shows that his educational pattern for Lin Huiyin is very broad, and he wants his daughter to have a broad vision and insight into the whole world and society. So under the education of his father, Lin Huiyin formed a more profound insight and concept than the average woman.
On the other hand, Lu Xiaoman received a completely different education from Lin Huiyin. Lu Xiaoman was also born in a very wealthy family, and her parents had a very good relationship. But the only fly in the ointment is that Lu Xiaoman's parents gave birth to many children and died prematurely, only Lu Xiaoman survived. This made her parents very fond of her, and even doted on her. This doting causes Lu Xiaoman to slowly become a very cruel big lady, although she later became a generation of celebrities, and even her fame is far higher than Lin Huiyin. However, Lu Xiaoman's cultivation and quality are far inferior to Lin Huiyin's, which is inseparable from her educational environment.
Second, the pursuit of life is different
In Lu Xiaoman's life, the most important person was Xu Zhimo. But her relationship with Xu Zhimo is not as good as imagined. In their marriage to Xu Zhimo, both were saddled with a sin. Lu Xiaoman abandoned his original match Wang Geng, and Xu Zhimo also divorced Zhang Youyi. In this unblessed marriage, Lu Xiaoman refused to give up the pursuit of a luxurious life, even if he was married to Xu Zhimo, he still liked to go out to live a happy life of celebrity socializing. This makes her marriage to Xu Zhimo full of contradictions, and even after Xu Zhimo's death, her pursuit has not changed.
Lin Huiyin actually had a relationship with Xu Zhimo, but when she knew that Xu Zhimo already had a family, she resolutely left him. Later, Lin Huiyin met Liang Sicheng and achieved a good story of a fairy couple. The two overcome difficulties together, pay for the construction cause together, and the life of the same advance and retreat makes them love each other more and be happier.
Not only in marriage, the two have different choices for careers. Although Lu Xiaoman is also full of talent, she does not use her talent to truly meaningful things, but blindly pursues a luxurious life. Lin Hui, on the other hand, is more inclined to develop his own career and make his life more plump, making countless buildings in China preserved and making great contributions.
Third, the difference in the circle of life
People often say that "those who are close to ink are black, and those who are close to Zhu are red". A person's circle of life plays a crucial role in the trajectory of her life. In Lin Huiyin's circle of life, it is full of the figure of literati and inkers. Whether it is Xu Zhimo, who met when he was studying, or Liang Sicheng, a partner in marriage, or his best friends Jin Yuelin and Hu Shi, all of them are very accomplished people in major fields. In such a circle of life, Lin Huiyin lives a life of "talking and laughing and having a great deal of humor, and there is no white ding" every day, and naturally she will be influenced by them, whether it is academic or career, she will work harder than ordinary people, after all, there are too many people around her who are worth learning.
Although Lu Xiaoman could have reached many excellent people, she gradually became addicted to the circle of celebrities. Living a life of drunkenness, playing cards and drinking wine every day, in the long run, it will become more and more decadent. No matter how good it was, it was wiped out under such consumption.
Looking at the trajectory of the two people's lives, it is not difficult for us to see that a girl's wealth should not only be external economic and material, but also the inner vision and insight, and the cultivation of good three views
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