Over the years, watching the circle of friends change from a social platform to a marketing gathering place, micro-businesses have "contributed indispensable". Whether you have used the skin care products of Weishang or not, you must have been marketed by the skin care products of Zhang Ting and his wife.
Reasonablely, unexpectedly, I did not expect that the New Year's Eve melon that resigned from the old and welcomed the new year was actually Zhang Ting and her husband Lin Ruiyang's company suspected of C sales and was investigated and punished by the regulatory authorities. Although the company's brand official micro responded at the first time, saying that this is just a normal routine inspection by the relevant departments, there is no problem with the company's legal operation, and the current operation is normal.
However, in the end, it was frozen with property preservation of up to 600 million yuan of funds, and the two were banned from their accounts on various platforms. When I really saw this news, I was not surprised.
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Some of my friends have been agents of their skin care products, selling goods in the circle of friends all day, and the crazy energy when promoting products is really a bit of a silver three hundred and two here.
However, the most amazing thing is that it is obviously a business crisis, and everything can be linked to emotions in the end. With the account of Zhang Ting and his wife banned, some netizens spontaneously ran to Lin Ruiyang's ex-wife Zeng Zhezhen to brush comments on the Weibo of her daughter's birthday celebration, and Qi brushed to congratulate her on revenge.
This unsuspecting person thought that she was reporting her ex-husband and Xiao San's company! Not to mention that the two have been divorced for so many years, even when they tore their faces because of this triangle of feelings, they were not so bloody.
Originally thought that such a sensitive moment, Lin Ruiyang's ex-wife Zeng Zhezhen must have ignored it, did not think that after the fact, she sent two long texts in a row to respond, and the words did not seem to appreciate the comfort of the melon-eating masses.
She said: The media reports do not represent my position, and your messages do not represent my feelings! I believe that no one wants to see the people around them facing difficulties and fall into the rocks again!
She feels that the words and deeds of public figures are easily biased by the media, and her failed marriage is precisely because it is constantly magnified by the media, and it is still a stain on her life to this day.
But these days netizens have left messages for her has seriously affected her life, and I hope that mutual respect is the standard of being a person.
From Zeng Zhezhen's two responses, it can be seen that she is really unwilling to mention the past with Lin Ruiyang, but netizens have repeatedly danced in front of her with wishful thinking, and indeed have some sense of déjà vu that is forcibly pulled out to walk, and there is no respect for the feelings of the parties.
In fact, there was nothing to do, private messages a pass, comment a pass, love who is who. Netizens also thought of the triangle relationship between them and was uneven for the original match, which was a good heart, and the parties slightly looked at it a little heavily.
She has repeatedly stressed that failed marriages are the biggest stain in life, in fact, it is 2022, and no one will look down on divorced people.
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It cannot be denied that Zeng Zhezhen did not want to "fall into the well", and when the original triangular relationship tore his face, his ex-husband and Xiao San were bitten to death and refused to admit to cheating, and it was a high-profile clarification, and he fainted at the scene of the press conference, and his character was high and immediate.
Maybe from the perspective of an abandoned ex-wife, she really doesn't want to have anything to do with her ex-husband's affairs, and not falling into the well is the last decency.
In the face of her husband's cheating, and the third party has mixed up and down with retribution, as an ex-wife, Zeng Zhezhen's response can be said to be very objective. He did not speak for her ex-husband, nor did he fall into the well. Not counting does not mean that he has done everything right, but that people and things in the past are too lazy to calculate.
Many people say that this matter makes people feel more and more that if a man cheats in marriage, abandoning his wife and children often will not really have a good end. Moreover, Zeng Zhezhen's appearance is not inferior to Zhang Ting.'s.
Deeply picking up the emotional line between Lin Ruiyang and Zhang Ting, lin Ruiyang initially cheated on him, and abandoned Zeng Zhezhen, who initially accompanied him through the trough, and insisted on pursuing Zhang Ting, a third party, and then ended in divorce with his ex-wife.
Even in the past many years, it does not mean that the harm and impact on the ex-wife has disappeared, in real life, many men cheat, betray the family, is it better to feel that the outside is better, but is this really "good"? Obviously not!
I deeply agree with the comments of netizens: people who abandon their wives and children may not always be mixed up. The person who is abandoned is not necessarily worse than the new huan.
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In real life, we have also seen many cases of saying that they want to be loyal to each other for a lifetime, but they cheated on their wives during pregnancy. In the end, he forced his wife to divorce, even if he gave up everything, he would be with the women outside. Is it really that the women on the outside are more beautiful and more seductive? not necessarily!
I have seen many cases of men cheating, in fact, on the appearance and character alone, the original match is not worse than the small three outside, but men still have to insist on going their own way, and they will be wrong. In fact, in the final analysis, men's thinking about feelings has changed.
The reason why most men can make this decision is because they have been enjoying the "dividends" of the original match, such as his wife marrying him very early and accompanying him through many life lows.
However, when men are most helpless, others are not optimistic about their marriage, but the original match is still not abandoned, both as a wife and as an old mother, to solve all the worries in life for men, so that he can concentrate on working hard in his career.
When some men have achieved something in their careers, they begin to drift, climb to the top of their careers, and mistakenly think that all he has gained is that his ability has reached that level, and everything is taken for granted.
I have heard a saying before that others praise you for being excellent, not that you are really excellent, but that others are excellent. I think this is another way of saying it, and it holds true here. You can endure not because you are really able to endure, but the person who makes you able to endure.
This kind of man is always used to ignoring the efforts and sacrifices of his wife behind it. The gradual expansion of ambition and vanity will make him feel that his value has become higher, his charm has become greater, and he will be more interested in other women.
From a psychological point of view, when a person produces this wrong way of attribution, many of the actual problems are ignored.
When a man succeeds in his career and mistakenly thinks he deserves better people, he not only ignores the success of his own, but his wife is indispensable. And it is also equivalent to admitting in disguise that the original self is not good.
A good horse with a good saddle, the words are not rough. If you want to find a younger, more beautiful girl, does that mean subconsciously admitting that you are old? I thought I found a better one, but I don't know that sometimes the best is around.
I think the vein of feelings is more like a parabola, there will be a peak and a low, and people cannot be in love all their lives. Most men marry a third party after cheating, and at the beginning they do have the sweetness of newlywed Yan'er, but then they are constantly overdrawing the process of their luck and achievements, and begin to decline little by little.
If the career is not smooth, many things will follow, and finally the relationship with the third party will also have problems, and it will still end up in a chicken feather.
Therefore, some cheating men, the life of remarriage may not be smooth, and may wake up many years later: if they did not do that, maybe everything is good.
Happiness or unhappiness is never something that a person can decide. Behind a person's success, there are often many people involved, especially in the success of the career after marriage, not one person, but the result of the efforts of husband and wife in different places, including failure.
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